Girlfriend is messy - moved in 3 months ago

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Anonymous wrote:Put your foot down now. If not, she’ll continue to be messy and ten years from now, you’ll be posting/complaining about your messy wife and you should have put a stop to it ten years ago.

Aww, you’re cute. No adult can “put a stop to” anything another adult does.

Aww, you’re an a$$. Sure they can. Kick the beeyach to the curb.

The gf isn't a beeyach if she doesn't clean. Maybe she has add or lived liked that growing up. It must be stressful for gf too. Why not say they are non incompatible instead of being childish?

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Anonymous wrote:Messy girls make the best lovers. True or not true?

Gag! Even if that were true, you’d still have to put up with bad hygiene/odor. A deal breaker.

You can be messy and personally clean

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Anonymous wrote:My girlfriend and I have been living together for almost 3 months. It’s going well except she is more messy than I am. Unlike most men, I’m very neat and like to keep things clean. I hate clutter. I rinse + put dishes in dishwasher right away - gf will put in sink or just leave on kitchen counter until end of day, I will do laundry & fold + put away right away - gf throws her stuff everywhere and never seems to fold or put away. I put things back - gf leaves the bathroom counter a mess with all of her products. I clean the fridge every week before grocery shopping - gf never does it until after or checks that we’re out of something until after. I do a reset every night - dishes put away + run dishwasher, fold blanket, wipe down counters - gf had left it messy many times one the nights she stay up later than I do. I know this is very insignificant and doesn’t really matter, but is it annoying habit she has. I just need to vent my frustrations to someone who hopefully gets it.

I don't see anything wrong with keeping dishes in the sink until the end of the day, and then loading them in the dishwasher. As long as it's not overnight, it won't cause pest issue. Folding blankets is also over the top, people just cover the beds with blankets and coverlets. What is even "folding" the blankets?

Throw blankets. Like for the couch/living room. Thought that was obvious.

Why do you need to have so many throw blankets in the living room on couches, and then fold them every day? Isnt it cleaner/easier to have leather furniture that doesn't accumulate dust and not use throw blankets?

NP here, but leather furniture?? Ugly, slipperly, cold, you need more blankets! No thank you.

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Anonymous wrote:My girlfriend and I have been living together for almost 3 months. It’s going well except she is more messy than I am. Unlike most men, I’m very neat and like to keep things clean. I hate clutter. I rinse + put dishes in dishwasher right away - gf will put in sink or just leave on kitchen counter until end of day, I will do laundry & fold + put away right away - gf throws her stuff everywhere and never seems to fold or put away. I put things back - gf leaves the bathroom counter a mess with all of her products. I clean the fridge every week before grocery shopping - gf never does it until after or checks that we’re out of something until after. I do a reset every night - dishes put away + run dishwasher, fold blanket, wipe down counters - gf had left it messy many times one the nights she stay up later than I do. I know this is very insignificant and doesn’t really matter, but is it annoying habit she has. I just need to vent my frustrations to someone who hopefully gets it.

I don't see anything wrong with keeping dishes in the sink until the end of the day, and then loading them in the dishwasher. As long as it's not overnight, it won't cause pest issue. Folding blankets is also over the top, people just cover the beds with blankets and coverlets. What is even "folding" the blankets?

Won’t work with a family 2-3 meals a day or more than 1 roommate.

Plus who knows how much Op is doing of cleaning up her messes.

I actually think it is quite gross. If you can bring your dish to the sink you can take the 20 seconds it takes to rinse it and put it in the dishwasher.

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Anonymous wrote:Put your foot down now. If not, she’ll continue to be messy and ten years from now, you’ll be posting/complaining about your messy wife and you should have put a stop to it ten years ago.

Aww, you’re cute. No adult can “put a stop to” anything another adult does.

Aww, you’re an a$$. Sure they can. Kick the beeyach to the curb.

The gf isn't a beeyach if she doesn't clean. Maybe she has add or lived liked that growing up. It must be stressful for gf too. Why not say they are non incompatible instead of being childish?

Fair enough. I apologize for saying OP’s GF is a beeeyach and acting like a child. I have no filter and I’m working on that fault of mine. Sorry…