Girlfriend hygiene budget?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why are you paying for this?

What a woman spends varies with each woman.

She doesn't make a lot of money but I am just curious if this was what the average woman spends on persona hygiene products. It seems a lot to me

Yes, every woman uses tampons or maxi pads, Qtips, shampoo, conditioner, and a hair styling product like gel, leave in conditioner, or hair spray. In addition, we use deodorant, facial wash, facial day lotion, facial night cream, exfoliant scrub, facial mask, eye cream

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am 32 and my girlfriend is 28. This question is mostly for women? My girlfriend texted me a list of things to buy before coming home: Feminine wash, spray, tampons, baby wipe, qtip,body wash, lotion, detergent,shampoo,and hair mousse. $86 and change. I just checked my bank statement and I noticed that Twice a month, I get the list from my girlfriend for the same products. Is this normal for a woman to spend on personal hygiene? Please educate me before I break up with her. Plus she smoked cigarettes, weed, and drink. She pays for her bad habits

Would you be okay with GF with down there smell, bathroom time 4 days of her period/month, itchy bum, ear-picking, unsoaped, ashy/flaky skin (is she diabetic?), stinky sweaty clothes, greasy hair, and flat bed head? What is your grooming list OP? For me, I am okay with natural men and back hair etc doesn't bother me. I would dump a guy for wearing too strong a cologne/aftershave/deodorant. Groceries in general are going up as are gas prices. Try digital coupons if she buys P&G products.

So do you or did you buy your boyfriend’s hygiene products? OP should run away from this woman.

[Anonymous]

Not sure if this has been said before, but the LAST place I would try to help someone else budget is their hygiene products. Its way, way, way too personal. Are you going to ration toilet paper squares too? Not to mention, do you like the way she looks and smells? Leave her alone, and think more about why society has decided women need all of these products and not men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What did you find out, OP?

OP here,

I watch the home camera and I keep seeing random people coming up front and picking up things on the porch. Went through her phone and found a app for buy nothing. It's a local neighborhood advertising things for free. She has at least forty ads giving things away and also getting things for herself. My girlfriend never mentioned about her little habit, and I am just weird about random people know where we live. She doesn't know I know her little secret yet.

Psycho example number 6.

Your move OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What did you find out, OP?

OP here,

I watch the home camera and I keep seeing random people coming up front and picking up things on the porch. Went through her phone and found a app for buy nothing. It's a local neighborhood advertising things for free. She has at least forty ads giving things away and also getting things for herself. My girlfriend never mentioned about her little habit, and I am just weird about random people know where we live. She doesn't know I know her little secret yet.

Psycho example number 6.

Your move OP.

I think you sound crazy OP. Buy Nothing isn't a secret. She's posting on FB. People pick things up and she picks things up, in broad daylight. Talk to her if you're not comfortable with it. I know many of the people in my Buy Nothing group, and you can see if you share common friends. That may make her more comfortable with the people who are coming to your home.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What did you find out, OP?

OP here,

I watch the home camera and I keep seeing random people coming up front and picking up things on the porch. Went through her phone and found a app for buy nothing. It's a local neighborhood advertising things for free. She has at least forty ads giving things away and also getting things for herself. My girlfriend never mentioned about her little habit, and I am just weird about random people know where we live. She doesn't know I know her little secret yet.

This plot twist is amazing!

I love Buy Nothing. I give away so much clutter on there, and have picked up lots of great gear/toys for my toddler. I don’t understand her having you buy things to give away on BN though. It’s really a way to offload what you already own.

OP, were her BN posts for the hygiene products you purchased? Did she advertise them as partly used or new? Clearly I’m invested haha.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What did you find out, OP?

OP here,

I watch the home camera and I keep seeing random people coming up front and picking up things on the porch. Went through her phone and found a app for buy nothing. It's a local neighborhood advertising things for free. She has at least forty ads giving things away and also getting things for herself. My girlfriend never mentioned about her little habit, and I am just weird about random people know where we live. She doesn't know I know her little secret yet.

OP, you are going stalker level crazy. Get help.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What did you find out, OP?

OP here,

I watch the home camera and I keep seeing random people coming up front and picking up things on the porch. Went through her phone and found a app for buy nothing. It's a local neighborhood advertising things for free. She has at least forty ads giving things away and also getting things for herself. My girlfriend never mentioned about her little habit, and I am just weird about random people know where we live. She doesn't know I know her little secret yet.

This plot twist is amazing!

I love Buy Nothing. I give away so much clutter on there, and have picked up lots of great gear/toys for my toddler. I don’t understand her having you buy things to give away on BN though. It’s really a way to offload what you already own.

OP, were her BN posts for the hygiene products you purchased? Did she

advertise them as partly used or new? Clearly I’m invested haha.

OP here,
It's good to know it's a harmless group. The ads she posted is mostly clothes, books, bedding, and open packages of personal hygiene products. Because she suffer from allergies, she has been trying different products and buying new items. She had detergent, shampoo, lotion, cat food, cat toys and trees, and a old coffee maker.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What did you find out, OP?

OP here,

I watch the home camera and I keep seeing random people coming up front and picking up things on the porch. Went through her phone and found a app for buy nothing. It's a local neighborhood advertising things for free. She has at least forty ads giving things away and also getting things for herself. My girlfriend never mentioned about her little habit, and I am just weird about random people know where we live. She doesn't know I know her little secret yet.

This plot twist is amazing!

I love Buy Nothing. I give away so much clutter on there, and have picked up lots of great gear/toys for my toddler. I don’t understand her having you buy things to give away on BN though. It’s really a way to offload what you already own.

OP, were her BN posts for the hygiene products you purchased? Did she

advertise them as partly used or new? Clearly I’m invested haha.

OP here,
It's good to know it's a harmless group. The ads she posted is mostly clothes, books, bedding, and open packages of personal hygiene products. Because she suffer from allergies, she has been trying different products and buying new items. She had detergent, shampoo, lotion, cat food, cat toys and trees, and a old coffee maker.

This is totally normal activity on BN. It sounds like she’s doing her best with the products you buy and perhaps is truly very sensitive when it comes to her skin. The drugs and stuff are another matter but don’t hound her about Buy Nothing. I also have people come and go from my porch all the time for BN pickups, that’s part of the community aspect.