There was no sincere apology in public statements by any administrator. That was my point. |
This is definitely an issue that I wish were explained. But what I’ve learned from family and contacts relating to IEP and service/accommodation issues around the country is that there really isn’t a national standard. Different areas do different things. Regardless, according to news sources, the week before this incident, parental presence had been discontinued due to progress. And the teacher herself recommended increasing his time in school due to progress. So, if the news sources are accurate, parental presence wasn’t a factor at the time. |
Just to clarify...I agree with you and didn't say I thought it was appropriate. I think it was a very faulty plan. I'm just saying that, since it was their plan, then that child should not have been in the classroom for 1 minute without a parent. |
I bet his mom didn't disclose that she had a gun in the home. |
Will be interesting to learn if parents, teachers, and administrators agreed to that change in a formal IEP change (with no dissenting signatures) or just a conference with verbal agreement. Huge difference. |
Apparently the mother is going to be in Good Morning America this morning (how this could be a good idea I can’t imagine). |
Mom needs to go to prisons |
Here is the interview from twitter. I am speechless that: 1) they agreed to do this at all, 2) the denial the mother is in re her son’s violent behavior and 3) the stonewalling by the lawyer re how violent the kid was, blaming the school district and ignoring how he got the gun.
This is America. https://twitter.com/gma/status/1656267326637891584?s=46&t=E8qDVnObwqD3VskYpcZ1Jg |
The child doesn't talk about the incident at all, he talks about the days leading up to the incident.
That's alarming to me. I know kids that age are self centered but still. |
The mom says her kid as adhd https://twitter.com/postlocal/status/1656342624242892809?s=46&t=Rw_jX1uyupQwvEwsjuQulQ |
https://www.washingtonpost.com/dc-md-va/2023/05/10/richneck-elementary-shooting-mother-interview-adhd/
According to mom, ADHD made him do it. He said the "teacher wasn't listening to him..." I taught lots of kids that had diagnosis of ADHD. Restless? Yes. Distracted? yes Violent? not beyond playing rough on the playground |
Wow. |
Yeah, blaming the ADHD is WILD to me. I have a child with extremely severe ADHD who had behavioral issues in K. We didn't know any better since he hadn't been in a school style setting because of the pandemic but as soon as we were notified of what was happening during the school day (within the first two weeks of school), we had him evaluated and he then started medication, OT, play therapy, etc. At the school, while the process took longer, he had an IEP and associated services by January. No further behavioral issues during that year or since. This honestly seems like a failure on multiple fronts to help this child, his teacher and the students negatively impacted by his behavior. At a minimum the parents should have medicated the kid when the severity became known, certainly at school by age 5 instead of waiting until the child was completely out of control in first grade. And the idea you'd just stop attending because your kid has been on medication for less than a week is absurd. They wouldn't have known whether it was even the correct medication/dosage for their child by then. And the school administrators....yikes. Horrible. |
The question to the lawyer on GMA about the gun had an interesting response. He said "no adult" knows how he got it. Are they going to blame a teen relative, perhaps? |
I caught that too. And, if it had a trigger lock on it, then how was it removed? |