
Some defenders in this thread and others seem like parents who have trouble separating criticism of Taylor Swift with their child's identifying so strongly with her. |
I can't tell you how to respond, but if you insist on coming onto a thread created specifically to criticize Taylor Swift and then getting angry when you read criticism of Taylor Swift on that thread, I can tell you that you are an idiot. It's like that guy on the Religion forums who goes on threads created by atheists to discuss atheism to yell at atheists for being atheists. Only it's weirder because that guy really does believe that failure to believe in god or Jesus damns you and your children to eternity in hell. He's crazy, but at least I understand why the stakes are so high for him. Meanwhile, this thread is full of Taylor Swift fans who apparently can't sleep knowing there is a group of people sitting around thinking negative things about Taylor Swift and sometimes sharing them with each other anonymously on the internet. Imagine caring so much about a billionaire pop star that you need to monitor DCUM threads to make sure not a single criticism of that pop star goes unanswered, even if the answer is to just hurl insults at the people doing the criticism. But do tell me again how I am sad and pathetic for having a non-mainstream opinion on Taylor Swift. |
You are more than welcome. Please note after the 1st of the year you will be charged. |
Where did you get the idea that we hated you? Please don't flatter yourself. You are not worth it honestly. Just pointing out that your opinion does not matter in where it counts. Do you ever wonder that it is you that could be wrong? Maybe dig deep why you dislike someone who hasn't committed any offense to you deserves such hate. |
Why the quotes? Um, duh because I was quoting what PP wrote. Here’s the thing, it’s highly HYPOCRITICAL to: 1) tell people that they’re not allowed to discuss their opinions; 2) and to tell them to stop posting comments; 3) and to say a thread should be close a thread because YOU don’t think it has anything new or interesting to say; 4) and then to turn around and get defensive when someone parrots the same sentiment you just made right back at you. |
This. What's funny is that one of the things I find most annoying about Taylor Swift is the degree to which she encourages her fans to have a para-social relationship with her, to personally identify with her and make her their avatar. I find it creepy and borderline cult-like (https://omny.fm/shows/sounds-like-a-cult/the-cult-of-taylor-swift) and I'd probably feel less of a need to speak up about how I think her music is pretty mediocre and that she is highly over-rated as an artist were in not for this dynamic. It shuts down all dissent and labels anyone who doesn't agree that Swift is amazing a "hater." That's why a backlash against Swift exists. There's a place for musicians like Swift and there's nothing wrong with enjoying some catchy, light pop music. But Swift's fans aren't satisfied to simply have an artist they enjoy and consumer her music. They need everyone else to agree that she is good, they need all of her critics to admit they are wrong and eat their words, they need Swift to accomplish complete and total domination of people's musical taste and that's... weird. Which is why I find myself returning to this thread. I think Taylor Swift is a mediocre talent with an uncanny knack for marketing. And not a single thing anyone has said on this thread in defense of her has changed my mind on those points. Rather, the obsessive need to put down her critics as "pathetic" and "sad" and the obvious personal offense her fans take at any criticism of her tends to back up my existing opinion. |
+ 1, just from the concise and eloquent way you write, I can appreciate why you’re not a fan of Taylor. |
+1, it’s like you can read my mind! |
I'm "not worth it" but you can't let me have the last word, can you? I dare you not to respond to this: Taylor Swift is an over-hyped pop star who will be remembered as juggernaut cultural moment but NOT as a musical genius. Her influence on popular music will be exclusively in the arenas of marketing and PR, and not for the better, either. People will breathe a sigh of relief when her moment in the sun passes, and even many who currently claim to be fans will look back and wonder what they were thinking. Taylor Swift is a childish craze we will outgrow and leave behind. Even Swift herself. This thing you care so much about will one day be a mildly embarrassing trend you once got over invested in. |
No, because people with a different opinion are being called clowns, idiots, dense, etc. That's objectively nasty. Sorry if the truth hurts. |
When someone posts an asinine comment or response, they are worthy of being called those names. |
+1 can you be anymore on point? |
The offense she has committed is making extremely mediocre music and being very ubiquitous in the world. And that's what I criticize her for. I don't actually have an opinion on Taylor Swift as a person because I don't know her and -- I really cannot emphasize this enough -- neither do you. The reason you view this thread as a referendum on Swift as a human being, or on you and other Swift fans as people, is that you are unable to separate art from the unknowable artist or the artist from the fan. There is not right or wrong here, only opinion. It is my opinion that the vast majority of Swift's music is quite middling, some of it actively bad. And while she has a few songs that rise to the level of "very good pop song," she doesn't have a single work that I could point to and say "that song will outlive her." Not one. I hate Taylor Swift the cultural phenomenon. Taylor Swift the person is not something I'll ever be able to weigh in on and I'm not in the habit of pronouncing people "good" or "bad" anyway -- I'm not Santa Clause or St. Peter at the gates. But then, neither are you, which is why I don't care very much if you think Swift is some kind of personal hero or that I am an evil witch. |
comparing an anon poster writing an offhand one line comment to another anon poster....is NOT the same as the parent emotionally abusing a teen. Like at all. That said, your dad sucks and I'm sorry you had to go through that. |
I think we should drink every time someone uses the phrase "para social relationship" on this thread. I am so, so tired of that phrase. I get that we all discovered it recently and we think it makes us sound informed, but it really doesn't. Para-social is the new declaring everyone and everything a "narcissist!" |