
+1 this guy went to the house a dozen times. |
Some posters were definitely defending it and saying it's victim blaming to mention safety precautions. |
There are definitely people here victim blaming. |
If only everyone in the world were kind, mentally stable, and looking out for others. We could leave our doors unlocked, stroll through downtowns after midnight, walk our dogs in parks alone, get drunk til we pass out, drive our cars over 100 mph, etc. |
I find it amusing that this board is now faulting the victims for have public social media pages, drinking and staying out late, living in a "party house" and possibly having unlocked doors for their fate but those of us calling out the dumb roommate that saw the murderer in the house that night for going to bed instead of calling the police, was us being mean and victim blaming. |
Violent men. We can start by addressing the toxic male culture that leads men to believe women owe them ANYTHING with little accountability. |
I think all of it is problematic and that we shouldn't encourage our kids to think otherwise. |
+1 |
In DCUMurbia, the only acceptable penalty for forgetting to lock a door is murder. No one on DCUM drinks because it's a burden on the healthcare system. Parties are political groups, not celebrations. People should live alone and isolated, quietly praying to the secular god, government, for a quick end. |
Whoever you are, your sarcasm is absurd. Some precautions are appropriate for personal safety. Not a DCUM "thing." |
The posters here seem to think that if don't ALWAYS lock your doors, you are just asking to be murdered. I humbly submit that this is not a likely outcome for an unlocked door. A locked door is not going to stop a stalker. Completely forgoing any party because someone invited might be a murderer isn't rational either. Some precautions for safety are things like wearing shoes or washing your hands, not giving up on social interactions. |
Fine for you. We keep our doors locked, and we go to social events and parties often. I wouldn't want my loved ones to live in a known party house with random people coming and leaving at all hours, drinking til passing out, etc. No one has said to completely give up socializing. You are using an extreme, unrealistic example. |
No one condemned anyone for having a public page.
I just asked if that is common (innocent question, I don't know what most young women do nowadays). |
+1 Some violent men marry harpy bullies, and the men get more and more sick - refusing medicine is a huge problem. Incel men are a problem. |
+1 Its not a crime to be a pretty young college girl. I swear some of you hate your own kind and hate yourselves. It is a crime to be a stalker and/or a murderer. |