Yep. We had a mom posting all kinds of proud pictures of her daughter basically in almost a bikini top and high cut daisy dukes doing that stupid tongue out Miley Cyrus pose for her first day of 10th grade. YUCK! |
+2 🤮 |
| Clothing makes an impression. Always. You can wear what you want. You will make an impression on people by what you choose to wear out of the millions of possible outfits. You may not care what people think, but you can't prevent them from thinking. That's life. |
I think it's pathetic when parents don't allow their kids to dress in style and then come online complaining about how they have no friends or have been left out by their supposed friends, blah, blah. If you dress your kid like an accountant, don't get shocked when they have no friends or social life. These are also things I wish I could sometimes yell at my client's parents but can't. Nothing makes me angrier than getting a new client who is seeing me for depression or suicidal thoughts and at the root of all that is a fcking wardrobe! Yes, bullying IS wrong, but it's your job as a parent to NOT actively make your kid the target of bullying by sending them to school in clothes that aren't cool or in style. |
| I still remember the outfit I bought when my BF broke up with me. Little white cropped tee, black miniskirt with black thigh high tights and 90s chunky heels. He broke up with me because I wouldnt have sex with him. A little aggressive for 7am on a Monday but it felt good. |
I don’t really have an opinion about crop tops, but yikes, are you a therapist? Are you suggesting that getting cool clothes will help solve depression and suicidal thoughts? |
Please, retire. |
You’re an idiot. |
Yeah, this is a really disturbing take for a therapist. Girls, if you just conform better to your peers’ expectation for performative sexuality, you’ll be accepted by the cool kids and happy! Also, there’s a lot of ground between accountant-wear and daisy dukes with bikini top. Here’s what my teen wore to HS today—jean shorts, a tank top, and a loose floral shirt on top. It’s cute, it’s relatively in fashion, she is covered. And she picked it all out, not me. |
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OMG people who cares.
Seriously stop shaming women. Ridiculous. If you as a parent don't want your kid wearing them fine. Mine will. Tell boys to put on shirts after gym or during gym or during after school sports or sit down and shut up. Also tell your sons to stop putting their hands in their pants. |
| The world needs all kinds of jobs to be filled. These parents are just getting a leg up for children to the stripper and escort jobs. Please dont shame them. |
The question was whether they wear them to school. They do. Maybe simmer down with the sanctimony? |
You again? You got your a$$ handed to you on another thread for comments like this. So just go away. |
Lol |
+1 Lack of empathy and kindness - I hope you are not a therapist. |