Gender Disappointment- looking for proactive ways to get over it

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We just found our our babys sex and I am very disappointed. I do not want to feel like this! Im wondering if any others who have experienced this have advice on how to get over it? Are there particular things you focused on that helped? What helped you get on board and move on? I legitimately feel like I am grieving a loss- as stupid as that sounds.

It doesn't sound ungrateful because it is ungrateful. You should be grateful that you are pregnant with a healthy fetus and stop your childish whining because you aren't getting what you want. Have you ever thought that the chances are 100% the fetus feels your disappointment.