Well, sure. If you can't keep your family and are not always everpresent for your kids, this makes sense. |
Don’t try to shame other moms for wanting and enjoying different things than you, and don’t crow about your superior priorities and values, and it won’t be a problem. But if you come for me, you will find me. You try to mom shake me, and I’ll lay it out. Don’t start none, won’t be none. |
LOL. If you come for me you will find me. Street fighter married mom you just made my day. |
This thread is awesome. It started off with normal judgment, but now we have street fighter mom (my new favorite poster-I really need to put most of those sentiments in a card and send it to my boss), someone got incepted, and a kid gave his mom the gift of pooping in the downstairs bathroom. |
Mine too. I’ll join her in the streets, MJ bad style. |
My husband and I both like a mix of family time and alone time on our special day. It doesn't have to be all or nothing. And there's lots of different ways to celebrate a holiday as long as people are enjoying themselves. |
The wording of the title of this thread is odd. I don’t want to be “mothering” on Mother’s Day because as much as I love mothering, it’s work. It is listening my kids’ problems, finding creative ways to make them do their chores, teaching them how to be good people, and of course taking care of their physical needs. Those are things I want a break from on Mother’s Day.
Now just being with my kids and husband while they give me cards and make me breakfast and say nice things about me? Yes, I want that. |
Oh for God's sake! You're exhausting. |
This 1000x's How can the OP and others like her not see this?? I seriously think there is something wrong with a woman who can't understand this. The "shock" of other mothers not living up to how they define how a mother should act (how dare they not want to spend this precious day luxuriating in the gift of their childrens presence) is probably hiding some deep insecurity about her own worth as a person, woman, and mother.. |
I learned my lesson last year when these Mother's Day posts started.
Don't post your vulnerabilities as a mom here. It just brings out the worst from other moms. There is no one way to mother, be a mother, married or divorced. I was able for the most part to work things out with my Ex, my sister and her ex, crazy not so much. And you figure out how to work around it. Some of us have exes that will cause us to work harder or smarter to keep out sanity and unique times spent with our kids. Be best, ladies. |
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This is part of the reason I hate Mothers Day. It's just such a silly holiday. If you need a specific day for someone to appreciate you, youre doing something wrong. It's just another day for people to get hurt over expectations or judge each other. Who cares if mom goes to the spa for 5 hours on a Sunday? I guarantee you, no adult is in therapy going "well mom spent all her weekends taking me to sports and playing with me and taking care of me, but the fact that she took time to herself on Mother's Day is what caused my issues". Kids who have issues because mom took time to herself on mothers day have issues because mom always put her needs first, not just one day a year. |
Love this. It sums up Mother’s Day from a child and it is a great present. DD told me for mine I could make anything I wanted for dinner. Very sweet! |
You forgot to capitalize Mothering. A Mother isn’t truly a Mother if she isn’t Mothering, always. |
See this would be my dream come true! If my husband got the kids out of the house without me, to plan it and pack food. Wow. That’d be awesome. |