Was this supposed to be helpful or a humble brag? |
We’ve just told ours not to expect it. They remained on the waitlist but it will be a nice surprise but we’re not waiting for anything. Chances of getting off are super slim. |
I hope you're right, but the RD yield rate I used was generally around 40%. I just don't see enough students this year getting multiple offers from the Ivies to push the yield rate much lower. And, if the students they pull from the waitlist are similar to those who turned the school down, my kid -- a completely unhooked kid from the DMV -- probably doesn't have a chance. I haven't heard of too many unhooked kids from around here having multiple Ivy admits. Also, if you look closely at the wording of some of the Ivies' announcements about this year's admissions, they said they would "admit" a full class despite the large number of deferrals last year, not enroll one. They have all the deferred kids to fill in any spaces left open from a low yield. Again, I hope you're right that low yield rates will cause the Ivies+ to go to their waitlists. I'm really just trying to manage expectations here. |
Seems like it but I am happy for that kid. Having gone through that rejection at 14 may have helped to keep him more grounded. Maybe that experience came through the essays and got him into those schools. It would show grit. I agree w the parent who posted it, WL is rough but it all depends how a students handles it. |
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For those posters who want the kids to handle every single thing with patience and grace, that’s fabulous if your kid can. For some kids, this pandemic time has involved not only disappointment after disappointment, but sickness and in some cases, death.
At least for my DS, the waitlists and rejections are just one in a string of challenges. Is it the worst? Most terrible? of course not. But during a year+ of some pretty terrible things in our family, it feels like the straw that broke the camel’s back. And before anyone asks, the deaths were not directly Covid-related. One person got stuck in another country and had a heart attack. Another cruelly died in childbirth. |
I’m sorry for your losses. I agree, it has been a tough year all around. |
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Could we start to list the schools with confirmed waitlist movement. I have a DS who is on edge holding out for 5 waitlists. Knowing the names of the schools would be a big help.
From earlier in this thread, this list is: Univ of Wisconsin, Wake Forest, Notre Dame, Bucknell, GW, Univ of Delaware, Virginia Tech, Oberlin (expected this week). So far no Ivys have been mentioned and no movement is expected until after May 3. Any other updates? |
| You can add Colby to the list |
| I know kids who got off waitlist at Barnard and Chicago. |
Only because the school's profile is so high that it's the envy of others and haters are gonna hate. Overall they handled COVID quite well. I'm quite confident that anyone serious about going to Notre Dame is not going to reconsider because of its COVID response. |
| Univ of Wisconsin, Wake Forest, Notre Dame, Bucknell, GW, Univ of Delaware, Virginia Tech, Oberlin, Colby, UChicago, Barnard, Cal Poly SLO |
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This thread motivated me to nudge my kid to tell the schools he definitely isn't attending that he definitely isn't attending. So thanks for the nudge.
When I went to put the deposit down at the place he'll go if he doesn't get off the waitlist at his first choice, the site said there would be a refund if he changed his mind before May 1. I wasn't expecting that. (I'm also not expecting him to get in off the WL, but I was willing to eat the deposit if he did.) |
My DD did the same last night! |
Very sorry for your losses. |
| What's the latest conventional wisdom about the Ivy waitlists? Movement expected? |