My mom is furious that I took my DD to get her hair cut

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Anonymous wrote:Tell your mom to suck it, her opinion is invalid and never to offer one again.

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Terrible advice to speak to your mother in such a disrespectful way. You are teaching your child to speak to you like the bitch you are.

Is this OP's mom? Because I know who the bitch in this situation is.....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Tell your mom to suck it, her opinion is invalid and never to offer one again.

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Terrible advice to speak to your mother in such a disrespectful way. You are teaching your child to speak to you like the bitch you are.

Is this OP's mom? Because I know who the bitch in this situation is.....

+100. Mom speaks to daughter disrespectfully. ]Daughter treats mom like mom treats her. Daughter treats her own DD with respect by letting her have a say about her own hair. Mom is a bitch to both.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My almost 5 DD has long curly hair and has had a few trims but this is the first time she requested to get it cut shorter. She said it was aggravating her and really wanted it cut. We took her today and got it cut just passed her shoulders. It looks adorable and she loves it but my mom is furious. She said that my DD is too young to make a decision like that, and I should have known bette than to let a 4yr old choose to cut her hair. She now won’t even speak to me. Was I really wrong to let my DD choose to get a hair cut? I mean it’s not like she got it all cut off. Yes her hair was super long and gorgeous before but she was getting annoyed with it.

Jesus - mark this in the win column and enjoy it for as long as it lasts (which won't be long).

And be vigilant about protecting your daughter from your mother in the future.

Enjoy it if she's not speaking to you. If she tries to make contact ignore.

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It’s just hair. Your kid’s hair. Stand up for your kid OP and tell your mom she is welcome to not speak till she realizes that you or your family is not hers to control.

Better still send her a link to this thread

[Anonymous]

Your mother is mad that you let your daughter give input about her hair, to the point she is furious and not speaking to you? Tune to tell your mother to step back. She wants you to be assertive? Start with HER!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Stop trying to get her to speak to you. Stop contacting.

She raised her child. You raise yours.

When she simmers down and contacts again, let her know that her reaction crossed boundaries.

This. She is being so incredibly ridiculous that I'm speechless. I would NOT be calling, texting, emailing, asking my sibling to speak with her, or anything else. I would just drop the rope. WHEN your mother calls again (and she will) then you can be pleasant. But fairly quickly (either that conversation or the very next one, you should tell her you did not appreciate her reaction and will not entertain that kind of nonsense.

AND if she is always doing this - going off in a huff when she disagrees with something, then I'd cease making any overtures at all. But I'm hoping this is the first time she's been so unreasonable!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She is old enough to choose but you are a fool for taking her to a hair salon for a haircut! Cut it yourself. I found a barber shop with a beautician where you have to make appointmrnt and I my two customers allowed at a time. No chemicals and women wash their hair prior to appt. Socially distanced and everyone wearing masks.

Hey crazy lady, how do you know that OP's salon wasn't doing the same thing? Mine offers the option to spray your hair wet if you don't want to wash it there and is not using hair dryers, for example. Two customers at a time max, and plexiglass between stations, but I was the only one there when I went.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My almost 5 DD has long curly hair and has had a few trims but this is the first time she requested to get it cut shorter. She said it was aggravating her and really wanted it cut. We took her today and got it cut just passed her shoulders. It looks adorable and she loves it but my mom is furious. She said that my DD is too young to make a decision like that, and I should have known bette than to let a 4yr old choose to cut her hair. She now won’t even speak to me. Was I really wrong to let my DD choose to get a hair cut? I mean it’s not like she got it all cut off. Yes her hair was super long and gorgeous before but she was getting annoyed with it.

What I think is especially about this whole situation is that you didn't cut it into a pixie or even a bob, you got it cut just past her shoulders. It's still pretty long!! Your mom is nutso!!

Good for your daughter for voicing her opinion and telling you what she wanted and why (it was aggravating her), and good for you for listening to her and allowing her to get it cut!