There really are women out there who go after other people's husbands

[Anonymous]

But then I also just realized in posting that that she could be doing the same to men whose wives she doesn't know too, we just don't know it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:But then I also just realized in posting that that she could be doing the same to men whose wives she doesn't know too, we just don't know it.

Of course she is...sounds like her legs are open to everyone. STD/sti testing for the whole neighborhood...stat!

[Anonymous]

I love the OW that think their cheater will never ever cheat on them down the road...65-70% well-documented odds you are working against.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love the OW that think their cheater will never ever cheat on them down the road...65-70% well-documented odds you are working against.

Some of them are being cheated on right now

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:But then I also just realized in posting that that she could be doing the same to men whose wives she doesn't know too, we just don't know it.

Of course she is...sounds like her legs are open to everyone. STD/sti testing for the whole neighborhood...stat!

How would like to be a teen kid of the neighborhood whore??

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I love the OW that think their cheater will never ever cheat on them down the road...65-70% well-documented odds you are working against.

Some of them are being cheated on right now

Sad and true. What a tangled web we weave when we conspire today deceive. Amirite?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:When you want to stay married but have something on the side, it's smart to target other married people.

This.

This. Or even unhappily married people who do want to get divorced but are confused or just want to have an affair as their marriage is unwinding. I think some married women see single women as a threat and don’t want them around, but in reality most single women are not going to waste time on a married guy. Unhappily married women are a much bigger threat than single women.

I hear this sentiment from married women all the time.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Some treacherous women consider married men the biggest prize and ultimate boost to their self-esteem. Who's more powerful than a woman who can get a man to cheat on his wife? Married men are responsible for their infidelities. Women who target married men also are targeting the wives and kids. The goal is total destruction of a family, not just 'an affair'. Very sick and very destructive behavior.

My friend was left in the lurch with two toddlers. Her older toddler took it very, very, very hard and fell apart completely. How do these women live with themselves?

They don’t have a conscience. They blame it solely on the man and don’t see their 50% part in it. What I don’t get is who the hell would want a cheater? What kind of prize do they think they are getting? Karma will get them.

They don't want a cheater since they are already married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love the OW that think their cheater will never ever cheat on them down the road...65-70% well-documented odds you are working against.

Some of them are being cheated on right now

Sad and true. What a tangled web we weave when we conspire today deceive. Amirite?

When they are that smug- most definitely.

I read that one of the biggest risk factors for being cheated on is the mindset that your spouse would never do it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some treacherous women consider married men the biggest prize and ultimate boost to their self-esteem. Who's more powerful than a woman who can get a man to cheat on his wife? Married men are responsible for their infidelities. Women who target married men also are targeting the wives and kids. The goal is total destruction of a family, not just 'an affair'. Very sick and very destructive behavior.

My friend was left in the lurch with two toddlers. Her older toddler took it very, very, very hard and fell apart completely. How do these women live with themselves?

They don’t have a conscience. They blame it solely on the man and don’t see their 50% part in it. What I don’t get is who the hell would want a cheater? What kind of prize do they think they are getting? Karma will get them.

They don't want a cheater since they are already married.

Oh - they prefer to be the cheater in their marriage. Okay

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love the OW that think their cheater will never ever cheat on them down the road...65-70% well-documented odds you are working against.

Some of them are being cheated on right now

Sad and true. What a tangled web we weave when we conspire today deceive. Amirite?

When they are that smug- most definitely.

I read that one of the biggest risk factors for being cheated on is the mindset that your spouse would never do it.

Well that and marrying a whore

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not proud of it but I have seduced married men. It's a rush. Truth be told, by the time you hit your 30s and 40s, all the attractive, successful and passionate men are married.

The remaining attractive single men in your 40s have their run of the dating market and are indifferent to you. The married ones undress you like its the greatest gift they are unwrapping.

Sure, and next Christmas they might unwrap a new one, maybe even before.... My point is, yes new, forbidden fruit is more intense. What that means is that often your ROLE as the new "gift" is what's fueling his passion. We all tend to fall in love the same way. Whatever he is doing, you can bet he has likely done and said before, often mostly with his wife. Often over many years maybe even tonight...years and days you know nothing about. So Don't flatter yourselves ap's. You are not the hottest woman alive, despite your fantasies, his words in the moment and the intensity. And when the rubber meets the road and he is forced to choose....well you know how that usually goes.

[Anonymous]

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In my experience, affairs just happen when two people are attracted to each other. It's unfortunate (and terribly short-sighted) when people such as the woman you describe act on their impulses in their own social circle, but I don't think she nor anyone is purposefully targeting your husband just because he's married to YOU.

+1. While some women may get some thrill out of it, I don’t believe that to be the case for all. For the women who date married men, the fact that they are married just doesn’t matter. It’s a status between him and his wife. She’s not in that relationship and it has nothing to do with her.

A segment of women on this board get very worked up over cheating. Sometimes marriages don’t work out. People meet someone they decide they want more or could be happier with. They pursue that relationship and move on. It’s not personal- for the cheating husband or the other woman.

Men do leave their wives. Sometimes it’s for the other woman. That’s a scary fact for happily married people. It’s much more comforting to think it can’t happen to them and it doesn’t happen to others. My DH was married when we met, divorced his ex-wife, and we are now married. He hadn’t loved her for many years and was ready to leave. And he didn’t affair down - I’m younger, make more money, and actually like sex. We are happy now. I didn’t target him because he was married. We met and he happened to be married. It wasn’t personal against his wife. We were just two people very attracted to each other that wanted to be with each other.

Omg. Talk about self-delusion.

She entered another person’s marriage. Karma will certainly see her as a cheater that harmed an innocent woman and kids. No morals. None. Pathetic.

[Anonymous]

^ she was the other woman. Do you really expect her to say what she did was wrong? She’ll find out soon enough. A leopard doesn’t change his spots.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Not proud of it but I have seduced married men. It's a rush. Truth be told, by the time you hit your 30s and 40s, all the attractive, successful and passionate men are married.

The remaining attractive single men in your 40s have their run of the dating market and are indifferent to you. The married ones undress you like its the greatest gift they are unwrapping.

Sure, and next Christmas they might unwrap a new one, maybe even before.... My point is, yes new, forbidden fruit is more intense. What that means is that often your ROLE as the new "gift" is what's fueling his passion. We all tend to fall in love the same way. Whatever he is doing, you can bet he has likely done and said before, often mostly with his wife. Often over many years maybe even tonight...years and days you know nothing about. So Don't flatter yourselves ap's. You are not the hottest woman alive, despite your fantasies, his words in the moment and the intensity. And when the rubber meets the road and he is forced to choose....well you know how that usually goes.

Ha. True