There really are women out there who go after other people's husbands

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes. There are some women who purposely go after married men.

Bless them all. I've hooked up with several of them.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When you want to stay married but have something on the side, it's smart to target other married people.

This.

This. Or even unhappily married people who do want to get divorced but are confused or just want to have an affair as their marriage is unwinding. I think some married women see single women as a threat and don’t want them around, but in reality most single women are not going to waste time on a married guy. Unhappily married women are a much bigger threat than single women.

Truer words never spoken. Unhappily coupled up women are BY FAR the biggest threat.

[Anonymous]

I have an acquaintance (a man) who clearly targeted women in relationships and I think it was a self-esteem thing where he really was longing for someone to pick him over their partner. He was always perpetually upset when they inevitably did not. Very bizarre.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is still not her fault. I mean HER infidelity is her fault, but every husband’s infidelity is on him

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some treacherous women consider married men the biggest prize and ultimate boost to their self-esteem. Who's more powerful than a woman who can get a man to cheat on his wife? Married men are responsible for their infidelities. Women who target married men also are targeting the wives and kids. The goal is total destruction of a family, not just 'an affair'. Very sick and very destructive behavior.

Are you the woman whose husband cheated with the Ashley Madison woman? You have the same aggressive craziness.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are women that cannot stand other women, and just pretend to be friendly to women because they know there is a societal expectation that women should be sociable and have friends. They crave male approval above all else and most men would see a red flag towards those girls that say "I'm not like other girls!" or "I only have guy friends!" and so they cultivate female friendships, not from a genuine place, but because they are doing it performatively, hoping it will garner them the male approval that is the actual goal.

It's sociopathic and very sad and pathetic. But there's lots of people out there like that, of both genders.

Oh, and there's also just sex addict type women desperate for touch and any affection. But the ones that plot and plan are doing it mostly because they dont like other women and want all the men for themselves

^You've really thought about this a lot...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There are women that cannot stand other women, and just pretend to be friendly to women because they know there is a societal expectation that women should be sociable and have friends. They crave male approval above all else and most men would see a red flag towards those girls that say "I'm not like other girls!" or "I only have guy friends!" and so they cultivate female friendships, not from a genuine place, but because they are doing it performatively, hoping it will garner them the male approval that is the actual goal.

It's sociopathic and very sad and pathetic. But there's lots of people out there like that, of both genders.

Oh, and there's also just sex addict type women desperate for touch and any affection. But the ones that plot and plan are doing it mostly because they dont like other women and want all the men for themselves

^You've really thought about this a lot...

NP. You're not used to thinking?

[Anonymous]

I have a coworker who targets married women. He just finds the whole idea of seducing another man's wife to be a "rush". Very nice guy otherwise.

[Anonymous]

I guess the men in these situations are innocent victims? She probably “goes after them” because they are easy and willing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
In my experience, affairs just happen when two people are attracted to each other. It's unfortunate (and terribly short-sighted) when people such as the woman you describe act on their impulses in their own social circle, but I don't think she nor anyone is purposefully targeting your husband just because he's married to YOU.

Married people get on the Internet to find affair partners. So, no, in 2020 affairs just don’t happen. People actively look for a willing party.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When you want to stay married but have something on the side, it's smart to target other married people.

This.

Yes. It is always best to destroy two families and two sets of children. It is always best to harm an innocent person that has done nothing wrong to you.

More is on the line with 2 married parties and the downfall is so much messier.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some treacherous women consider married men the biggest prize and ultimate boost to their self-esteem. Who's more powerful than a woman who can get a man to cheat on his wife? Married men are responsible for their infidelities. Women who target married men also are targeting the wives and kids. The goal is total destruction of a family, not just 'an affair'. Very sick and very destructive behavior.

This. The same women cheated with other girl’s boyfriends in high school and college. It’s a pathology. They get a sick self esteem boost. Most men will take no strings attached poo-tang and it doesn’t mean they even like this hussy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I guess the men in these situations are innocent victims? She probably “goes after them” because they are easy and willing.

Yes. And because she is “easy” too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have an acquaintance (a man) who clearly targeted women in relationships and I think it was a self-esteem thing where he really was longing for someone to pick him over their partner. He was always perpetually upset when they inevitably did not. Very bizarre.

Both men and women do this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are women that cannot stand other women, and just pretend to be friendly to women because they know there is a societal expectation that women should be sociable and have friends. They crave male approval above all else and most men would see a red flag towards those girls that say "I'm not like other girls!" or "I only have guy friends!" and so they cultivate female friendships, not from a genuine place, but because they are doing it performatively, hoping it will garner them the male approval that is the actual goal.

It's sociopathic and very sad and pathetic. But there's lots of people out there like that, of both genders.

Oh, and there's also just sex addict type women desperate for touch and any affection. But the ones that plot and plan are doing it mostly because they dont like other women and want all the men for themselves

Hell no.

Most women I know that have male friends don’t do drama. It’s the exact opposite of what you “think”.