There really are women out there who go after other people's husbands

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are plenty of married women out there going after all types of men. For five years I was a country club golf pro during the day and a bartender at night (golf pay is lousy). I was surprised how often women I taught would show up at the bar alone and it was clear what they were interested in. They were all UMC or higher and at the club they were the picture of a happy wife but clearly they were not. I was single at the time so maybe I was fair game but there were plenty of guys at the club that I’m sure would have been happy to spend time with them.

I worked at a nice resort hotel when I was single and had sex with many married women. Monogamy is a charade. Most people realize this by mid-40s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Their husbands aren’t interested in them so they want somebody else’s. Most of these women have husbands that no longer want sex with them so they go out looking for D.

I'm greatful to all those husband's who neglect their wives. These women are easy to find.

[Anonymous]

Who are all these slutty women? I don't know anyone like that.

i prefer the conversation of men to women. I prefer talking to men at parties. Men are way better. Most of the men I know are married at this point, so that means I talk to married men. They are the husbands of friends and acquaintances. That doesn't mean i have affairs with married men.

I've seen other women act weird about that -- walk up and hold their DH's hand in an awkward way, for instance. Is it really that taboo for a woman to have a conversation with a married man? How prudish.

A lot of really disturbing descriptions of women on this thread.

[Anonymous]

I worked at a nice resort hotel when I was single and had sex with many married women.

No, you didn't.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Who are all these slutty women? I don't know anyone like that.

i prefer the conversation of men to women. I prefer talking to men at parties. Men are way better. Most of the men I know are married at this point, so that means I talk to married men. They are the husbands of friends and acquaintances. That doesn't mean i have affairs with married men.

I've seen other women act weird about that -- walk up and hold their DH's hand in an awkward way, for instance. Is it really that taboo for a woman to have a conversation with a married man? How prudish.

A lot of really disturbing descriptions of women on this thread.

LOL! Christ, you’re a loser. I mean: of course, you’re so superior that your never-attached ass has to talk to only your fellow badasses (who chose not you...all of them) and mock their wives online.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Who are all these slutty women? I don't know anyone like that.

i prefer the conversation of men to women. I prefer talking to men at parties. Men are way better. Most of the men I know are married at this point, so that means I talk to married men. They are the husbands of friends and acquaintances. That doesn't mean i have affairs with married men.

I've seen other women act weird about that -- walk up and hold their DH's hand in an awkward way, for instance. Is it really that taboo for a woman to have a conversation with a married man? How prudish.

A lot of really disturbing descriptions of women on this thread.

LOL! Christ, you’re a loser. I mean: of course, you’re so superior that your never-attached ass has to talk to only your fellow badasses (who chose not you...all of them) and mock their wives online.

wth? What a nasty person you are, PP. You have a problem. Yuck.

[Anonymous]

OMG! Nikki wherever you are, you are a f'ing sociopath. She was just, like, so interested, in like golf, and like omg your kids are like the cutest thing ever, and like omg you work uptown, like omg, so do I!
(hair tossing ceaslessly)
They are out there.

[Anonymous]

Huh? Who is Nikki?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Who are all these slutty women? I don't know anyone like that.

i prefer the conversation of men to women. I prefer talking to men at parties. Men are way better. Most of the men I know are married at this point, so that means I talk to married men. They are the husbands of friends and acquaintances. That doesn't mean i have affairs with married men.

I've seen other women act weird about that -- walk up and hold their DH's hand in an awkward way, for instance. Is it really that taboo for a woman to have a conversation with a married man? How prudish.

A lot of really disturbing descriptions of women on this thread.

LOL! Christ, you’re a loser. I mean: of course, you’re so superior that your never-attached ass has to talk to only your fellow badasses (who chose not you...all of them) and mock their wives online.

Can you not see why your DH is happy to talk with someone pleasant at a party? I mean....

[Anonymous]

Yep, my husband is leaving me for one. And she's leaving her husband. There are kids on all sides.

These people are walking trash bags.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am trying to understand the psychology behind this. It's so cliche, but I am seeing it play out in my circle of friends. She used to flirt big time with my exh but I didn't care at the time because I didn't like him. Heck for all I know they did hook up. But then ff about 5 years later and she's had an affair with a marriage guy in our circle and then it came out she had one with another married man in our town (not in our circle.) She is still married btw. In observing her I have realized she does tend to focus on the dhs more than the other women, and she def asks for their help and advice on things more. I hate to say this because I know not all women who grew up without a dad do this, but she did grow up with dysfunction and no father in the house. FTR we used to be close, but we fell away. The drama happened after that. She's had falling outs with other mutual friends too but I don't know why.

I had a friend who did this. It boosted her self esteem to think she could get a man who was already taken. More of a challenge than a single man. So that somehow made her sexier/smarter/better/whatever.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yep, my husband is leaving me for one. And she's leaving her husband. There are kids on all sides.

These people are walking trash bags.

Gross. I'm sorry.

Your poor kids now have to deal with all of these families and step-siblings and holidays and graduations and grandchildren are all divided up.

Plus, odds are one of them will cheat down the road and this arrangement will become even more diced up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am trying to understand the psychology behind this. It's so cliche, but I am seeing it play out in my circle of friends. She used to flirt big time with my exh but I didn't care at the time because I didn't like him. Heck for all I know they did hook up. But then ff about 5 years later and she's had an affair with a marriage guy in our circle and then it came out she had one with another married man in our town (not in our circle.) She is still married btw. In observing her I have realized she does tend to focus on the dhs more than the other women, and she def asks for their help and advice on things more. I hate to say this because I know not all women who grew up without a dad do this, but she did grow up with dysfunction and no father in the house. FTR we used to be close, but we fell away. The drama happened after that. She's had falling outs with other mutual friends too but I don't know why.

I had a friend who did this. It boosted her self esteem to think she could get a man who was already taken. More of a challenge than a single man. So that somehow made her sexier/smarter/better/whatever.[b]

Really, just an immoral slut . I always maintain, if they were that 'special' and that hot and that smart---they would have gotten the man in his prime when he was unattached--and not somebody else's garbage. They just got themselves a bona fide cheater. Wow.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Huh? Who is Nikki?

Felicia’s bestie?

[Anonymous]

Marie Anne Thiebaud and Mutt Lange

Shania Twain's best friend went after Shania's husband.