There really are women out there who go after other people's husbands

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I guess the men in these situations are innocent victims? She probably “goes after them” because they are easy and willing.

The men aren't exactly innocent but it's hard for married men to resist and these women know it. It's like waiving desert in front of a person on a diet. They knowost married men are sex starved and they exploit it. Not right

[Anonymous]

Yes, OP. They are called “whores”.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It is still not her fault. I mean HER infidelity is her fault, but every husband’s infidelity is on him

+1

Bulls@t. She knew the wife. AP’s know deep down they are hurting an innocent victim. The “if it wasn’t, me, it would be someone else” nonsense is a crap argument. It was YOU. You can have that in your conscience and karma will be gunning for you.

When you drink and drive and run over somebody’s child, do you tell them “if it wasn’t me it would have been another drunk driver?”

It’s a way to justify harmful behavior.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some treacherous women consider married men the biggest prize and ultimate boost to their self-esteem. Who's more powerful than a woman who can get a man to cheat on his wife? Married men are responsible for their infidelities. Women who target married men also are targeting the wives and kids. The goal is total destruction of a family, not just 'an affair'. Very sick and very destructive behavior.

A lot do it out of jealousy.

[Anonymous]

She’s had 3 affairs and her husband hasn’t divorced her yet? Wtf?

[Anonymous]

Yes,there are women (maybe men too?) who feel validated when a married person finds them more attractive than the "victimized" spouse. Also, there are some people who are very flirtatious and if someone responds to that, it's an opening. Which is more likely to happen with people you actually know. If you know 100 people and 4% respond positively to your flirtation, well....

And most people in the over 35 age group are married so, she's catching where she's fishing, you know?

I had the misfortune of living next door to one of these women. Suffice to say I am now divorced.

[Anonymous]

As a guy, I was always hit on more by other women when I was in a relationship and it actually got worse when I got married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some treacherous women consider married men the biggest prize and ultimate boost to their self-esteem. Who's more powerful than a woman who can get a man to cheat on his wife? Married men are responsible for their infidelities. Women who target married men also are targeting the wives and kids. The goal is total destruction of a family, not just 'an affair'. Very sick and very destructive behavior.

A lot do it out of jealousy.

We have a female worker that "dates" married men with children. She had an affair with her boss at her former job. Boss was married with children. She wanted to marry the boss.
Boss broke it off. She filed sex harassment lawsuit.

A man being married does not stop her from going after the guy. She does not care that the guy is happily married with children. Very sick.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is still not her fault. I mean HER infidelity is her fault, but every husband’s infidelity is on him

She is 100% responsible for having an affair with a married person and the impact her actions had on other people (her own husband, the other family)

He is 100% responsible for having an affair and the impacts that has on other people.

It's not a pie. It's not like you cut it up to assign portions of guilt. They are each 100% responsible for their OWN actions and consequences.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes,there are women (maybe men too?) who feel validated when a married person finds them more attractive than the "victimized" spouse. Also, there are some people who are very flirtatious and if someone responds to that, it's an opening. Which is more likely to happen with people you actually know. If you know 100 people and 4% respond positively to your flirtation, well....

And most people in the over 35 age group are married so, she's catching where she's fishing, you know?

I had the misfortune of living next door to one of these women. Suffice to say I am now divorced.

Let’s be real, they often don’t find them more attractive. The attraction is: different, novel, when they have only been with one person for a very long time. Look at Beyoncé, etc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It is still not her fault. I mean HER infidelity is her fault, but every husband’s infidelity is on him

She is 100% responsible for having an affair with a married person and the impact her actions had on other people (her own husband, the other family)

He is 100% responsible for having an affair and the impacts that has on other people.

It's not a pie. It's not like you cut it up to assign portions of guilt. They are each 100% responsible for their OWN actions and consequences.

The bolded is the part they like to take no responsibility for...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have an acquaintance (a man) who clearly targeted women in relationships and I think it was a self-esteem thing where he really was longing for someone to pick him over their partner. He was always perpetually upset when they inevitably did not. Very bizarre.

+1 I've seen the above from both men and women. If you are willing to blow up your life for me, I must be special and this must be a love like no other...

[Anonymous]

She likes variety... Who cares.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She likes variety... Who cares.

Nobody does (except her spouse) if that variety is single. It’s when she goes after married guys is when it’s a much bigger issue.

[Anonymous]

Not proud of it but I have seduced married men. It's a rush. Truth be told, by the time you hit your 30s and 40s, all the attractive, successful and passionate men are married.

The remaining attractive single men in your 40s have their run of the dating market and are indifferent to you. The married ones undress you like its the greatest gift they are unwrapping.