Mistresses, how do you rationalize dating a married man?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Your husband lies and says you don’t exist. And apparently you believe his lies to you too because he’s never on the phone with you and doesn’t mind spending a lot of time with me!

Probably some wives for sure! The smart ones do spot checks either by gps or use of a p.i. You wouldn't like my type or some of my friends. Your life and work life would be severely impacted should you try to interfere with my family. As for the cheating husband - at that point his only worth is for the kids sake, and a paycheck!

So, you are willing to "off" your husband. He will only do it again.

"off"?? No not as in kill, I would simply be done emotionally with him. No man is my world, but I would be most concerned about my finances and kids at that point.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It appears the ones on here who justify adultery are the exact types who are morally corrupt, selfish and only concerned about their happiness, not the effects it might have on the children and how it might impact them as adults or the grandparents lives, that are also blown up. If a spouse is unhappy, there are other ways to go about leaving a marriage. Gaslighting, constant betrayal and lies, sneaking around and covering your tracks is despicable. Can you really look back at what you did and feel good about it? Probably, yes.

You know you’re probably mostly getting trolled here, right? Your over-the-top dramatics make it too easy.

[Anonymous]

Not a mistress, but I figure the appeal would be getting the benefits without having to deal with them wanting more from the relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of cheaters on here. Like a lot.

They are not going to get that it's disrespectful on both ends. If you are the AP, then you are just as terrible. Don't kid yourselves.

I think a few trolls looking for a reaction.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think these women do this to families for financial reasons. Money over morals. My job isn’t keeping my husband excited 24/7 so he doesn’t shop around. I suppose I could get implants and fillers to look younger, but no thanks. You can have him.

If that's the type of husband ones marries they married the wrong person. It's never the spouses fault when they're cheated on, it's the horrible person with zero morals.

Many decent women have picked horrible men, it's the dynamic a manipulator looks for. They aren't going to marry a person who is too savvy, because they'll catch on by date 2.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why aren’t you asking how married men rationalize having a mistress?

We know men are pigs. We are wondering why women do it.

Not all of them. Your shitty marriage isn’t a reflection on all men.

Not all marriages with infidelity are shitty.

Are they not “per se” sh*tty by virtue of one spouse being a cheater? Don’t delude yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why aren’t you asking how married woman allow their relationship with their husband deteriorate to the point where they have a mistress?

If my marriage deteriorated due to the actions of my spouse I would get a divorce not fundamentally change my character.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why aren’t you asking how married men rationalize having a mistress?

We know men are pigs. We are wondering why women do it.

Not all of them. Your shitty marriage isn’t a reflection on all men.

Not all marriages with infidelity are shitty.

Are they not “per se” sh*tty by virtue of one spouse being a cheater? Don’t delude yourself.

No. The cheater is "per se" sh*tty by the virtue he/she is cheating. It has nothing to do with the marriage.

It's like saying if your spouse is an alcoholic you must have a bad marriage and the only way they could cope was to drink.

Sex is sex is sex... it's not some deeper meaning about life or a marriage.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why aren’t you asking how married men rationalize having a mistress?

We know men are pigs. We are wondering why women do it.

Not all of them. Your shitty marriage isn’t a reflection on all men.

Not all marriages with infidelity are shitty.

Are they not “per se” sh*tty by virtue of one spouse being a cheater? Don’t delude yourself.

No. The cheater is "per se" sh*tty by the virtue he/she is cheating. It has nothing to do with the marriage.

It's like saying if your spouse is an alcoholic you must have a bad marriage and the only way they could cope was to drink.

Sex is sex is sex... it's not some deeper meaning about life or a marriage.

How do you have a good marriage with a shitty person?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Mistress is a far too pretty word. Call them what they are - hoes.

What do you call the married men? That term sounds too nice and respectable.

They're hoes too - DUH. But the question was about mistresses, not the husbands.

[Anonymous]

These women who knowingly sleep with married men don't value themselves. Period. If they did they wouldn't want to be having sex with a man who is also having sex with his wife. They try to come off as unbothered, but as soon as the married man is responding to them they are concerned. Just go on the forum able 2 know dot org and any other mistress forum that's out there and you'll see tons of them whining about how these men won't leave their wives or didn't make good on a promise. *YAWN*

These also don't like accountability which is why they're all screaming, "don't blame me, I didn't vow to love and cherish you." What kinda bullshit is that? Clearly it's the kind that comes from someone who is not emotionally well. No, they don't care about the wives, they care about themselves, and whatever attention they're getting because they can't get it from anywhere else. They claim to not want a relationship or commitment when reality they can't find a man to commit to. So instead, they offer themselves up to married men. Yes, we know, they all like dinners and gifts...blah blah blah. It's pretty lame and pathetic.

[Anonymous]

“Dating?”
Lol.