How long did you go without sex post-separation/divorce?

Anonymous
One week after my husband moved out, had an affair with a married man, that lasted 3 months. Then got a FWB, still ongoing.

Surprises me all the women who go years without sex. You don't get lonely?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:One week after my husband moved out, had an affair with a married man, that lasted 3 months. Then got a FWB, still ongoing.

Surprises me all the women who go years without sex. You don't get lonely?


Very interesting reply. I'm a man and for me sex has nothing to do with loneliness.
Anonymous
1.5 years
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:One week after my husband moved out, had an affair with a married man, that lasted 3 months. Then got a FWB, still ongoing.

Surprises me all the women who go years without sex. You don't get lonely?


They didn’t really want sex while married, why should that change after divorce?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:One week after my husband moved out, had an affair with a married man, that lasted 3 months. Then got a FWB, still ongoing.

Surprises me all the women who go years without sex. You don't get lonely?


Very interesting reply. I'm a man and for me sex has nothing to do with loneliness.


I wasn’t lonely. My life was very full, almost too full of people. If anything, I craved alone time. And I had really good vibrators. I had more orgasms on my own between marriages than I did in my entire first marriage.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:One week after my husband moved out, had an affair with a married man, that lasted 3 months. Then got a FWB, still ongoing.

Surprises me all the women who go years without sex. You don't get lonely?


Very interesting reply. I'm a man and for me sex has nothing to do with loneliness.


I wasn’t lonely. My life was very full, almost too full of people. If anything, I craved alone time. And I had really good vibrators. I had more orgasms on my own between marriages than I did in my entire first marriage.


Good for you. You should seek an endorsement deal!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:One week after my husband moved out, had an affair with a married man, that lasted 3 months. Then got a FWB, still ongoing.

Surprises me all the women who go years without sex. You don't get lonely?


They didn’t really want sex while married, why should that change after divorce?


Or maybe they just aren't so desperate for sex that they, I don't know, end up in bed with a married man one week after divorcing. Call us crazy!!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:One week after my husband moved out, had an affair with a married man, that lasted 3 months. Then got a FWB, still ongoing.

Surprises me all the women who go years without sex. You don't get lonely?


They didn’t really want sex while married, why should that change after divorce?


Because when they were married, it wasn't that they didn't want sex, it was that they didn't want sex with you.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:One week after my husband moved out, had an affair with a married man, that lasted 3 months. Then got a FWB, still ongoing.

Surprises me all the women who go years without sex. You don't get lonely?


They didn’t really want sex while married, why should that change after divorce?


Because when they were married, it wasn't that they didn't want sex, it was that they didn't want sex with you.


There are billions of women on the planet who presumably don't want to have sex with me. What's one more?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:One week after my husband moved out, had an affair with a married man, that lasted 3 months. Then got a FWB, still ongoing.

Surprises me all the women who go years without sex. You don't get lonely?


They didn’t really want sex while married, why should that change after divorce?


Because when they were married, it wasn't that they didn't want sex, it was that they didn't want sex with you.


Doesn’t explain the continued lack of interest after divorce.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:One week after my husband moved out, had an affair with a married man, that lasted 3 months. Then got a FWB, still ongoing.

Surprises me all the women who go years without sex. You don't get lonely?


Very interesting reply. I'm a man and for me sex has nothing to do with loneliness.


I wasn’t lonely. My life was very full, almost too full of people. If anything, I craved alone time. And I had really good vibrators. I had more orgasms on my own between marriages than I did in my entire first marriage.

Don’t get too used to them. I don’t know about most but I know that my di*k doesn’t vibrate!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:One week after my husband moved out, had an affair with a married man, that lasted 3 months. Then got a FWB, still ongoing.

Surprises me all the women who go years without sex. You don't get lonely?


Very interesting reply. I'm a man and for me sex has nothing to do with loneliness.


I wasn’t lonely. My life was very full, almost too full of people. If anything, I craved alone time. And I had really good vibrators. I had more orgasms on my own between marriages than I did in my entire first marriage.

Don’t get too used to them. I don’t know about most but I know that my di*k doesn’t vibrate!


I enjoy taking advantage of my husband and a vibrator at the same time. Trust me the earth moves and when it moves for me it moves for him.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:One week after my husband moved out, had an affair with a married man, that lasted 3 months. Then got a FWB, still ongoing.

Surprises me all the women who go years without sex. You don't get lonely?


They didn’t really want sex while married, why should that change after divorce?


I loved sex while I was married and we had a lot of it, frequently. But I loved my husband and he cheated and broke my heart and ruined everything so for a time I was too numb for sex or anything. I think I was clinically depressed.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:One week after my husband moved out, had an affair with a married man, that lasted 3 months. Then got a FWB, still ongoing.

Surprises me all the women who go years without sex. You don't get lonely?


Very interesting reply. I'm a man and for me sex has nothing to do with loneliness.


I wasn’t lonely. My life was very full, almost too full of people. If anything, I craved alone time. And I had really good vibrators. I had more orgasms on my own between marriages than I did in my entire first marriage.

Don’t get too used to them. I don’t know about most but I know that my di*k doesn’t vibrate!


Again, this was BETWEEN marriages. DH #2 is very satisfying.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:One week after my husband moved out, had an affair with a married man, that lasted 3 months. Then got a FWB, still ongoing.

Surprises me all the women who go years without sex. You don't get lonely?


They didn’t really want sex while married, why should that change after divorce?


Because when they were married, it wasn't that they didn't want sex, it was that they didn't want sex with you.


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