How long did you go without sex post-separation/divorce?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:One week after my husband moved out, had an affair with a married man, that lasted 3 months. Then got a FWB, still ongoing.

Surprises me all the women who go years without sex. You don't get lonely?

They didn’t really want sex while married, why should that change after divorce?

Because when they were married, it wasn't that they didn't want sex, it was that they didn't want sex with you.

Doesn’t explain the continued lack of interest after divorce.

Who said there's a lack of interest?? Maybe they just want to...I dunno HEAL after the divorce. Maybe they don't just want to jump in bed with whoever. I mean, damn, could be a lot of things. Doesn't mean they're anti-sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:One week after my husband moved out, had an affair with a married man, that lasted 3 months. Then got a FWB, still ongoing.

Surprises me all the women who go years without sex. You don't get lonely?

They didn’t really want sex while married, why should that change after divorce?

While going through my own divorce, the vast majority of women I slept with and dated were divorced women. And I slept with quite a few women before I met my now DW (who was also divorced). 10 years and there is no let up in her drive/desire.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:One week after my husband moved out, had an affair with a married man, that lasted 3 months. Then got a FWB, still ongoing.

Surprises me all the women who go years without sex. You don't get lonely?

They didn’t really want sex while married, why should that change after divorce?

I had a sexless marriage. I didn’t think I cared about sex. As soon as I met my current husband, I realized that I couldn’t have ENOUGH sex! He has to slow me down!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:One week after my husband moved out, had an affair with a married man, that lasted 3 months. Then got a FWB, still ongoing.

Surprises me all the women who go years without sex. You don't get lonely?

They didn’t really want sex while married, why should that change after divorce?

I had a sexless marriage. I didn’t think I cared about sex. As soon as I met my current husband, I realized that I couldn’t have ENOUGH sex! He has to slow me down!

Yup. Except I knew I cared about sex. Just didn't want it with him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:One week after my husband moved out, had an affair with a married man, that lasted 3 months. Then got a FWB, still ongoing.

Surprises me all the women who go years without sex. You don't get lonely?

They didn’t really want sex while married, why should that change after divorce?

I had a sexless marriage. I didn’t think I cared about sex. As soon as I met my current husband, I realized that I couldn’t have ENOUGH sex! He has to slow me down!

Yup. Except I knew I cared about sex. Just didn't want it with him.

Enjoy it while it lasts. Just keep in mind you'll eventually get bored with your new husband, too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:One week after my husband moved out, had an affair with a married man, that lasted 3 months. Then got a FWB, still ongoing.

Surprises me all the women who go years without sex. You don't get lonely?

They didn’t really want sex while married, why should that change after divorce?

I had a sexless marriage. I didn’t think I cared about sex. As soon as I met my current husband, I realized that I couldn’t have ENOUGH sex! He has to slow me down!

Yup. Except I knew I cared about sex. Just didn't want it with him.

Enjoy it while it lasts. Just keep in mind you'll eventually get bored with your new husband, too.

Read this forum. When you find the right partner, sexual excitement lasts for decades.