Is a high libido more of a curse or blessing for a woman?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:62 year old male here with I’d guess an average libido. Early this year for a few months I dated a 56 year old woman with an unbelievably high libido who was very open about her needs. She had been divorced about ten years and it wasn’t long before I realized that a ton of guys had been there before me. It was fun for awhile but she definitely wasn’t LTR material.

This is the problem right here. Some guys think that only "good girls" who are low libido/repressed/prudes perhaps are LTR material. They will only marry women who have had like one other partner who was a long-term boyfriend.

And then they wonder why their wives don't want to have sex. You can't have it both ways, Chad. Hopefully this slut-shamey attitude will go away once people this age shuffle off the mortal coil.

Honestly it sounds like he couldn't keep up and had to make it her fault, not a failing on his part. If a woman wants more sex than you she's a whore, if she wants less sex than you she's a frigid prude. Tale as old as time.

[Anonymous]

It's a problem for me now because my partner is experiencing health issues that affect his libido and ability to perform. His knowing my libido is high adds to his stress over his libido/performance issues and no amount of me saying that I love him and am not going anywhere and we will figure it out and to just focus on getting healthy is helping.

[Anonymous]

My wife is high libido. She gets cranky if its been more than a few days.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:62 year old male here with I’d guess an average libido. Early this year for a few months I dated a 56 year old woman with an unbelievably high libido who was very open about her needs. She had been divorced about ten years and it wasn’t long before I realized that a ton of guys had been there before me. It was fun for awhile but she definitely wasn’t LTR material.

This is the problem right here. Some guys think that only "good girls" who are low libido/repressed/prudes perhaps are LTR material. They will only marry women who have had like one other partner who was a long-term boyfriend.

And then they wonder why their wives don't want to have sex. You can't have it both ways, Chad. Hopefully this slut-shamey attitude will go away once people this age shuffle off the mortal coil.

Honestly it sounds like he couldn't keep up and had to make it her fault, not a failing on his part. If a woman wants more sex than you she's a whore, if she wants less sex than you she's a frigid prude. Tale as old as time.

+1. I’ve dated men who loved my high libido but couldn’t handle the fact that it meant I enjoyed sex with men before them. These guys were all very insecure and worried how they measured up. I don’t get it- I would hope my partner had a very satisfying sex life before we met!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:62 year old male here with I’d guess an average libido. Early this year for a few months I dated a 56 year old woman with an unbelievably high libido who was very open about her needs. She had been divorced about ten years and it wasn’t long before I realized that a ton of guys had been there before me. It was fun for awhile but she definitely wasn’t LTR material.

This is the problem right here. Some guys think that only "good girls" who are low libido/repressed/prudes perhaps are LTR material. They will only marry women who have had like one other partner who was a long-term boyfriend.

And then they wonder why their wives don't want to have sex. You can't have it both ways, Chad. Hopefully this slut-shamey attitude will go away once people this age shuffle off the mortal coil.

Honestly it sounds like he couldn't keep up and had to make it her fault, not a failing on his part. If a woman wants more sex than you she's a whore, if she wants less sex than you she's a frigid prude. Tale as old as time.

+1. I’ve dated men who loved my high libido but couldn’t handle the fact that it meant I enjoyed sex with men before them. These guys were all very insecure and worried how they measured up. I don’t get it- I would hope my partner had a very satisfying sex life before we met!

+2.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:62 year old male here with I’d guess an average libido. Early this year for a few months I dated a 56 year old woman with an unbelievably high libido who was very open about her needs. She had been divorced about ten years and it wasn’t long before I realized that a ton of guys had been there before me. It was fun for awhile but she definitely wasn’t LTR material.

This is the problem right here. Some guys think that only "good girls" who are low libido/repressed/prudes perhaps are LTR material. They will only marry women who have had like one other partner who was a long-term boyfriend.

And then they wonder why their wives don't want to have sex. You can't have it both ways, Chad. Hopefully this slut-shamey attitude will go away once people this age shuffle off the mortal coil.

Honestly it sounds like he couldn't keep up and had to make it her fault, not a failing on his part. If a woman wants more sex than you she's a whore, if she wants less sex than you she's a frigid prude. Tale as old as time.

+1. I’ve dated men who loved my high libido but couldn’t handle the fact that it meant I enjoyed sex with men before them. These guys were all very insecure and worried how they measured up. I don’t get it- I would hope my partner had a very satisfying sex life before we met!

This. It’s like they think a HL woman just landed on earth and came straight to find them with no other stops along the way. Guess what? They’ve dated other guys before and because sex was important to them, probably picked their previous partners based on chemistry, skill or large endowment.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Blessing.

My marriage is solid, in part due to my libido.

That is kind of sad.

That is sad because what happens if they have a health problem, or cancer.

I didn’t say solely due to my libido, I said in part. And you know what, we have had major heath issues. We addressed them head on as a couple and regained our physical connection as soon as we were able, because it’s a priority in our relationship. We both feel better with a healthy sex life.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:62 year old male here with I’d guess an average libido. Early this year for a few months I dated a 56 year old woman with an unbelievably high libido who was very open about her needs. She had been divorced about ten years and it wasn’t long before I realized that a ton of guys had been there before me. It was fun for awhile but she definitely wasn’t LTR material.

This is the problem right here. Some guys think that only "good girls" who are low libido/repressed/prudes perhaps are LTR material. They will only marry women who have had like one other partner who was a long-term boyfriend.

And then they wonder why their wives don't want to have sex. You can't have it both ways, Chad. Hopefully this slut-shamey attitude will go away once people this age shuffle off the mortal coil.

Honestly it sounds like he couldn't keep up and had to make it her fault, not a failing on his part. If a woman wants more sex than you she's a whore, if she wants less sex than you she's a frigid prude. Tale as old as time.

+1. I’ve dated men who loved my high libido but couldn’t handle the fact that it meant I enjoyed sex with men before them. These guys were all very insecure and worried how they measured up. I don’t get it- I would hope my partner had a very satisfying sex life before we met!

This. It’s like they think a HL woman just landed on earth and came straight to find them with no other stops along the way. Guess what? They’ve dated other guys before and because sex was important to them, probably picked their previous partners based on chemistry, skill or large endowment.

No one’s ever dated someone, even if they’re HL, because they’re hung.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:62 year old male here with I’d guess an average libido. Early this year for a few months I dated a 56 year old woman with an unbelievably high libido who was very open about her needs. She had been divorced about ten years and it wasn’t long before I realized that a ton of guys had been there before me. It was fun for awhile but she definitely wasn’t LTR material.

This is the problem right here. Some guys think that only "good girls" who are low libido/repressed/prudes perhaps are LTR material. They will only marry women who have had like one other partner who was a long-term boyfriend.

And then they wonder why their wives don't want to have sex. You can't have it both ways, Chad. Hopefully this slut-shamey attitude will go away once people this age shuffle off the mortal coil.

Honestly it sounds like he couldn't keep up and had to make it her fault, not a failing on his part. If a woman wants more sex than you she's a whore, if she wants less sex than you she's a frigid prude. Tale as old as time.

+1. I’ve dated men who loved my high libido but couldn’t handle the fact that it meant I enjoyed sex with men before them. These guys were all very insecure and worried how they measured up. I don’t get it- I would hope my partner had a very satisfying sex life before we met!

This. It’s like they think a HL woman just landed on earth and came straight to find them with no other stops along the way. Guess what? They’ve dated other guys before and because sex was important to them, probably picked their previous partners based on chemistry, skill or large endowment.

No one’s ever dated someone, even if they’re HL, because they’re hung.

Oh they 100% have done that!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:62 year old male here with I’d guess an average libido. Early this year for a few months I dated a 56 year old woman with an unbelievably high libido who was very open about her needs. She had been divorced about ten years and it wasn’t long before I realized that a ton of guys had been there before me. It was fun for awhile but she definitely wasn’t LTR material.

This is the problem right here. Some guys think that only "good girls" who are low libido/repressed/prudes perhaps are LTR material. They will only marry women who have had like one other partner who was a long-term boyfriend.

And then they wonder why their wives don't want to have sex. You can't have it both ways, Chad. Hopefully this slut-shamey attitude will go away once people this age shuffle off the mortal coil.

Honestly it sounds like he couldn't keep up and had to make it her fault, not a failing on his part. If a woman wants more sex than you she's a whore, if she wants less sex than you she's a frigid prude. Tale as old as time.

+1. I’ve dated men who loved my high libido but couldn’t handle the fact that it meant I enjoyed sex with men before them. These guys were all very insecure and worried how they measured up. I don’t get it- I would hope my partner had a very satisfying sex life before we met!

+2.

A guy who has been divorced for ten years and has a high libido and taken care of his needs would be seen on this site as a player and trashed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Assuming you are in a relationship, it's the greatest blessing. Most men will worship you if you rock them sexually. The number one complaint if married men is lack of sex and affection. You won't have that as an issue. I wish I married you

Curse of your DH is low libido. Miss my single days.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:62 year old male here with I’d guess an average libido. Early this year for a few months I dated a 56 year old woman with an unbelievably high libido who was very open about her needs. She had been divorced about ten years and it wasn’t long before I realized that a ton of guys had been there before me. It was fun for awhile but she definitely wasn’t LTR material.

And she didn't think the same of you either. You had mismatched libidos.