Would you date a woman in her mid twenties with 2 toddlers?
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It’s the quote function. It’s broken apparently. |
Anonymous
It worked for you... |
Anonymous
But not on the last page, I also posted the response immediately before 20:53 and it didn’t work then. |
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"Mothers can focus on many things. Children need not consume all your breathing hours. I mean your mother must have gone to work every day? Put one foot in front of the other? So she WAS capable of focusing on something other than you, even for a few hours a day."
A woman who starts focusing on a man who excites her is going to put her kids on the back burner and they WILL suffer. "Also, children rarely understand what makes their parents content or what their happiness requires. Children are rarely capable of seeing their parents as separate beings who have other thoughts and feelings unrelated to their children. I don't say this as a judgment, only an observation." And so what? You are SUPPOSED to put them first, before yourself, EVEN if they don't understand that you are a "separate being" who is not happy. Your idea that mom REQUIRES contentment and happiness, if necessary at the expense of her children, is profoundly wrongheaded.[/quote] What about dads? All these exact same things apply equally to dad right?[/quote] I believe both men and women are capable of having romantic relationships after divorce without neglecting their kids. I’m sorry you were raised in a home that taught you that was impossible. |
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"Mothers can focus on many things. Children need not consume all your breathing hours. I mean your mother must have gone to work every day? Put one foot in front of the other? So she WAS capable of focusing on something other than you, even for a few hours a day."
A woman who starts focusing on a man who excites her is going to put her kids on the back burner and they WILL suffer. "Also, children rarely understand what makes their parents content or what their happiness requires. Children are rarely capable of seeing their parents as separate beings who have other thoughts and feelings unrelated to their children. I don't say this as a judgment, only an observation." And so what? You are SUPPOSED to put them first, before yourself, EVEN if they don't understand that you are a "separate being" who is not happy. Your idea that mom REQUIRES contentment and happiness, if necessary at the expense of her children, is profoundly wrongheaded.[/quote] What about dads? All these exact same things apply equally to dad right?[/quote] I believe both men and women are capable of having romantic relationships after divorce without neglecting their kids. I’m sorry you were raised in a home that taught you that was impossible.[/quote] I’m a single mom. Perhaps you misread the PP who had weird quotes in their post - the PP I responded to was saying that mothers should devote themselves to parenting and nothing else. |
Anonymous
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I wouldn’t. It would seem to me that you don’t have good judgement/reasonable life expectations.
Sorry. |
Anonymous
| OP when you're ready to date there's no shortage of available men at your age. Work on yourself, and your goals. If you meet someone don't rush or have sex until you both commit to only date each other. You'll probably attract more men with kids, but ones without will also be there. My gf's husband never had kids, she has two. He ended up being closer to them then their own bio dad. |
Anonymous
| No I would not |
Anonymous
| No such thing as online nursing school. |
Anonymous
I'm sorry you were raised in a home that taught you that your delusions are true if only you believe in them strongly enough. |
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No.
At 24 most young women are finishing university or just starting their careers. Your priority will (and always be your kids). I’ve found most men who date single moms do for one reason: single moms are less choosy and typically have less options than women who are established and don’t have kids. In your mid 30’s if you’re both divorced and have kids from previous relationships? Different story. 24 is so young to have that kind of baggage. Are you from a rural area? |
Anonymous
I think some schools offer online RN to BSN or BSN to MSN. There is so such thing as purely online entry level RN/BSN programs. Nursing is hands on and cannot be taught online. If OP has somehow found an online RN program, i would love to hear which school this is through. You can’t even do online CNA classes. Maybe OP is doing the pre-reqs for nursing. |
Anonymous
LOL Yes there is! |
Anonymous
Of course. Just finish your school, that's a plus. Don't listen to these people on here who are probably miserable. |
Anonymous
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Disperse people.
Op was found to be a troll. |