He proposed, I broke up with him because of zero intimacy

[Anonymous]

Just block them and do not respond.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:One of two things: Block their number (which I would have done after the first nasty text) or tell them the truth (and then block their number so you don't get a reply.)

I vote for letting them know first.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:One of two things: Block their number (which I would have done after the first nasty text) or tell them the truth (and then block their number so you don't get a reply.)

I vote for letting them know first.

+100

[Anonymous]

Oh, just take the high road and block them. No need for intimate details. Otherwise you risk mom and sis showing up in person demanding the right to defend ex’s honor.

You don’t need this jerry springer drama in your life.

[Anonymous]

No. What will happen is...Op will tell her long suffering story about how she stayed with the man for 2 years and he could never quite manage to get it up for her....

Flash forward 3 months, and Op will spot the ex out with his gorgeous new girlfriend on his arm. As Op thinks to herself "Oh look, there's the next sucker" the ex sees her watching him and leans down and gives his new girl a hot, passionate, french kiss. She overhears him muttering to his new girl "Yeah, over there - her....that was the frigid girl I was telling you about"

And don't you know...his sweet sister and his lovely mom are telling this same tale at every sewing circle, PTA meeting and soccer game they attend.

Class, Op. Don't trash!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. What will happen is...Op will tell her long suffering story about how she stayed with the man for 2 years and he could never quite manage to get it up for her....

Flash forward 3 months, and Op will spot the ex out with his gorgeous new girlfriend on his arm. As Op thinks to herself "Oh look, there's the next sucker" the ex sees her watching him and leans down and gives his new girl a hot, passionate, french kiss. She overhears him muttering to his new girl "Yeah, over there - her....that was the frigid girl I was telling you about"

And don't you know...his sweet sister and his lovely mom are telling this same tale at every sewing circle, PTA meeting and soccer game they attend.

Class, Op. Don't trash!

This is pretty good fan fiction!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think it’s a tiny percentage of young men with low T and mostly gay men who are closeted or straight men with hang ups like a porn addiction or fetishes.

Agreed

[Anonymous]

If it were THEIR vaginas, they'd have dumped him too.

You have every right to manage what's important and not important to you in a relationship. You do not owe him or his family anything. You just spared yourself from being miserable and lonely for the rest of your life. I want to throw a party for you! And it's time for you to get laid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If it were THEIR vaginas, they'd have dumped him too.

You have every right to manage what's important and not important to you in a relationship. You do not owe him or his family anything. You just spared yourself from being miserable and lonely for the rest of your life. I want to throw a party for you! And it's time for you to get laid.

+1. It’s time to find yourself a hot, overly endowed guy and let him screw you sensless until you feel like you’ve caught up on the last few years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If it were THEIR vaginas, they'd have dumped him too.

You have every right to manage what's important and not important to you in a relationship. You do not owe him or his family anything. You just spared yourself from being miserable and lonely for the rest of your life. I want to throw a party for you! And it's time for you to get laid.

+1. It’s time to find yourself a hot, overly endowed guy and let him screw you sensless until you feel like you’ve caught up on the last few years.

Hate to tell you but women are not into that.

[Anonymous]

This advice is correct: [Post New]11/25/2018 21:36

[Anonymous]

Just say: 'we were never able to have sex.' Tell them they will have to direct any further questions to him. He doesn't have The right to lie about your breakup just to make himself look good. Whatever the deep reasons are for the delusions he's been maintaining-you do not have to enable him any longer. Congratulations you are free!

[Anonymous]

Op is not a a victim here she continued the relationship longer than she should have.


Ignore and block the calls and move on with your life.

[Anonymous]

Sounds really sad and difficult. There is no perfect answer except to just have class. You really tried.

[Anonymous]

Change your number, and never look back!