Recent Ballston Tragedy - why is no one talking about this?!

Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Is it really necessary to gossip about this family? Sounds like a domestic issue. Leave them alone.


It does feel very voyeristic. I'm very sorry for the family's loss, and I hope the police find who did it. He seemed like a nice guy and a loving dad.


Nice guy? Has an affair with a married woman; knocks her up, and let's her cuckolded husband think it is his kid? Then battles his AP to prove paternity.
You call this nice?


Whoa buddy. You didn't know this man or anything about his situation. I would not leap to such big conclusions about someone you never even met.

Obviously the man loved his kid.


Actually, I do know one of the parties

Her actions and behaviors are hers and hers alone. None of that is his issue. And why would you think that he wouldn’t fight to prove paternity? It was HIS kid who deserves to have his real father in his life.
Anonymous
Seriously? Months and months of silence about this case. Nothing from APD? It’s eerie — something especially weird must be in the mix.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Is it really necessary to gossip about this family? Sounds like a domestic issue. Leave them alone.


It does feel very voyeristic. I'm very sorry for the family's loss, and I hope the police find who did it. He seemed like a nice guy and a loving dad.


Nice guy? Has an affair with a married woman; knocks her up, and let's her cuckolded husband think it is his kid? Then battles his AP to prove paternity.
You call this nice?


Whoa buddy. You didn't know this man or anything about his situation. I would not leap to such big conclusions about someone you never even met.

Obviously the man loved his kid.


Actually, I do know one of the parties


Well, it sounds like no big loss if this is true. Sounds like they didn't want it to come out that he was a parent, because heaven forbid we make someone look bad when they've engaged in unprotected sex.

Carry on, Arlington.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Is it really necessary to gossip about this family? Sounds like a domestic issue. Leave them alone.


It does feel very voyeristic. I'm very sorry for the family's loss, and I hope the police find who did it. He seemed like a nice guy and a loving dad.


Nice guy? Has an affair with a married woman; knocks her up, and let's her cuckolded husband think it is his kid? Then battles his AP to prove paternity.
You call this nice?


Whoa buddy. You didn't know this man or anything about his situation. I would not leap to such big conclusions about someone you never even met.

Obviously the man loved his kid.


Actually, I do know one of the parties


What do you think happened, then? Who did it?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Is it really necessary to gossip about this family? Sounds like a domestic issue. Leave them alone.


It does feel very voyeristic. I'm very sorry for the family's loss, and I hope the police find who did it. He seemed like a nice guy and a loving dad.


Nice guy? Has an affair with a married woman; knocks her up, and let's her cuckolded husband think it is his kid? Then battles his AP to prove paternity.
You call this nice?


Whoa buddy. You didn't know this man or anything about his situation. I would not leap to such big conclusions about someone you never even met.

Obviously the man loved his kid.


Actually, I do know one of the parties


What do you think happened, then? Who did it?

+1
Anonymous
https://www.arlnow.com/2018/07/23/just-in-police-arrest-maryland-man-in-connection-with-ballston-murder/

Arrest made. No details about how they knew each other given yet.
Anonymous
Case Information
Court System: District Court For Howard County - Criminal
Location: Howard
Case Number: D-101-CR-18-001172
Title: State of Maryland vs. JITESH VITTHAL PATEL
Case Type: Fugitive
Filing Date: 07/21/2018
Case Status: Open
Tracking Number(s): 181001425765
Other Reference Numbers
Central Complaint Number : 18-66735
Defendant Information
Defendant
Name: PATEL, JITESH VITTHAL
Race: IndianSex:MaleHeight:5'10"Weight:205
HairColor: BlackEyeColor:Brown
DOB: 12/06/1975
Address: 14768 CARRIAGE MILL ROAD
City: WOODBINEState:MDZip Code:21797-0000
Involved Parties Information
Plaintiff
Name: State of Maryland
Officer - Arresting/Complainant
Name: ELLIS, GEORGE
AgencyName: HOWARD COUNTY POLICE DEPT
Address: 3410 COURT HOUSE DR
City: ELLICOTT CITYState:MDZip Code:21043
Court Scheduling Information
Event Type Event Date Event Time Court Location Court Room Result
Hearing - Bail/ Bond Review 07/23/2018 11:00:00 Howard District Court Courtroom 2 CONC
Charge and Disposition Information
Charge No: 1CJIS Code:8888Statute Code:Fugitive Warrant
Charge Description: FUGITIVE FROM JUSTICE - VACharge Class:Other
Probable Cause: YES
Offense Date From: 07/21/2018To: 07/21/2018
Agency Name: Officer ID:
Bond Setting Information
Bail Date: 07/21/2018
Bail Setting Type: Hold Without Bond
Bail Amount: $0.00
Bail Date: 07/23/2018
Bail Setting Type: Hold Without Bond
Bail Amount: $0.00
Document Information
File Date: 07/21/2018Close Date:
Filed By:
Document Name: Document Issued
File Date: 07/21/2018Close Date:
Filed By:
Document Name: Initial Appearance
File Date: 07/21/2018Close Date:
Filed By:
Document Name: Defendant Waived Attorney at Initial Appearance
File Date: 07/21/2018Close Date:
Filed By:
Document Name: Commitment Pending Hearing
File Date: 07/23/2018Close Date:
Filed By:
Document Name: Felony Docket Sheet
File Date: 07/23/2018Close Date:
Filed By:
Document Name: Defendant Voluntarily Waived Extradition
File Date: 07/23/2018Close Date:
Filed By:
Document Name: Commitment Pending Hearing
File Date: 07/23/2018Close Date:
Filed By:
Document Name: Bail Review Summary
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:https://www.arlnow.com/2018/07/23/just-in-police-arrest-maryland-man-in-connection-with-ballston-murder/

Arrest made. No details about how they knew each other given yet.

If you read the comments in the article they link to the Youcaring site for the family. On that site is a comment saying the person arrested is an intimate friend of the victim’s baby mama.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:https://www.arlnow.com/2018/07/23/just-in-police-arrest-maryland-man-in-connection-with-ballston-murder/

Arrest made. No details about how they knew each other given yet.

If you read the comments in the article they link to the Youcaring site for the family. On that site is a comment saying the person arrested is an intimate friend of the victim’s baby mama.


link or quote? I don't see that.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:https://www.arlnow.com/2018/07/23/just-in-police-arrest-maryland-man-in-connection-with-ballston-murder/

Arrest made. No details about how they knew each other given yet.

If you read the comments in the article they link to the Youcaring site for the family. On that site is a comment saying the person arrested is an intimate friend of the victim’s baby mama.


link or quote? I don't see that.


https://www.youcaring.com/johngiandoni-1140722?fb_action_ids=10104344098249237&fb_action_types=youcaringcom%3Adonate
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:https://www.arlnow.com/2018/07/23/just-in-police-arrest-maryland-man-in-connection-with-ballston-murder/

Arrest made. No details about how they knew each other given yet.

If you read the comments in the article they link to the Youcaring site for the family. On that site is a comment saying the person arrested is an intimate friend of the victim’s baby mama.


link or quote? I don't see that.


https://www.youcaring.com/johngiandoni-1140722?fb_action_ids=10104344098249237&fb_action_types=youcaringcom%3Adonate


I see the website. I don't see any comments saying anything about the arrest.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:https://www.arlnow.com/2018/07/23/just-in-police-arrest-maryland-man-in-connection-with-ballston-murder/

Arrest made. No details about how they knew each other given yet.

If you read the comments in the article they link to the Youcaring site for the family. On that site is a comment saying the person arrested is an intimate friend of the victim’s baby mama.


link or quote? I don't see that.


https://www.youcaring.com/johngiandoni-1140722?fb_action_ids=10104344098249237&fb_action_types=youcaringcom%3Adonate


I see the website. I don't see any comments saying anything about the arrest.


Comments are at the bottom. It's a facebook plugin for commenting so if you have that blocked, comments won't appear.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:https://www.arlnow.com/2018/07/23/just-in-police-arrest-maryland-man-in-connection-with-ballston-murder/

Arrest made. No details about how they knew each other given yet.

If you read the comments in the article they link to the Youcaring site for the family. On that site is a comment saying the person arrested is an intimate friend of the victim’s baby mama.


I saw the same comment. But it also looks like the mom recently won the custody battle she was fighting with the victim's family, which makes me think there's no evidence she was involved in his murder, otherwise she wouldn't have gotten the kid back.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:https://www.arlnow.com/2018/07/23/just-in-police-arrest-maryland-man-in-connection-with-ballston-murder/

Arrest made. No details about how they knew each other given yet.

If you read the comments in the article they link to the Youcaring site for the family. On that site is a comment saying the person arrested is an intimate friend of the victim’s baby mama.

I saw the same comment. But it also looks like the mom recently won the custody battle she was fighting with the victim's family, which makes me think there's no evidence she was involved in his murder, otherwise she wouldn't have gotten the kid back.

Doubtful. The police just made the arrest this weekend and have been gathering evidence for months. They aren’t going to show their hand in a custody case to jeopardize a murder case.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:https://www.arlnow.com/2018/07/23/just-in-police-arrest-maryland-man-in-connection-with-ballston-murder/

Arrest made. No details about how they knew each other given yet.

If you read the comments in the article they link to the Youcaring site for the family. On that site is a comment saying the person arrested is an intimate friend of the victim’s baby mama.

I saw the same comment. But it also looks like the mom recently won the custody battle she was fighting with the victim's family, which makes me think there's no evidence she was involved in his murder, otherwise she wouldn't have gotten the kid back.

Doubtful. The police just made the arrest this weekend and have been gathering evidence for months. They aren’t going to show their hand in a custody case to jeopardize a murder case.


The custody action was filed in late June and mom got the kid back two weeks ago. I suspect what happened is that when the victim's family found out his was murdered by an "intimate friend" of mom's, they filed for custody believing she might have been involved in the murder. She got the kid back after authorities confirmed they had no reason to believe that was the case. The delay until he was actually arrested may have been because of the need to file an extradition request, locate him, etc.
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