sleeping with the boss but can't end it

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The age difference isn't that big a deal these days. I know plenty of guys in their early 30s hitting divorced 45 or so women.

She probably BPD and gaslighting her husband. Watch your back, but totally considering playing along until she runs out of steam and ends it on her timeline.

I'm single and early forties and get contacted by a lot of these guys. Can I presume they are only interested in sex? I don't get why a guy in his early thirties would want a relationship with early forties. I don't want to date someone ten years older and I'm a woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The age difference isn't that big a deal these days. I know plenty of guys in their early 30s hitting divorced 45 or so women.

She probably BPD and gaslighting her husband. Watch your back, but totally considering playing along until she runs out of steam and ends it on her timeline.

I'm single and early forties and get contacted by a lot of these guys. Can I presume they are only interested in sex? I don't get why a guy in his early thirties would want a relationship with early forties. I don't want to date someone ten years older and I'm a woman.

There’s something incredibly sexy about gen x women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The age difference isn't that big a deal these days. I know plenty of guys in their early 30s hitting divorced 45 or so women.

She probably BPD and gaslighting her husband. Watch your back, but totally considering playing along until she runs out of steam and ends it on her timeline.

I'm single and early forties and get contacted by a lot of these guys. Can I presume they are only interested in sex? I don't get why a guy in his early thirties would want a relationship with early forties. I don't want to date someone ten years older and I'm a woman.

Yes, this is bad for him. He's wasting time on someone who isn't marriage material.

So why does he do it? It's easy. Really easy. He has her on the line and doesn't need to work at all to get laid. If I were him I'd see how far she's willing to go to get me off. There would be trips to sex clubs in New York, and more in store for her.

[Anonymous]

Tell her you have chlamydia and need to stop having sex for a while. Maybe she will cool off and forget you.

[Anonymous]

OP might have made the whole story up, could be a troll. But, I have a friend who was forced to leave his firm because a female partner pursued him relentlessly. He was married and did not want to cheat so he left.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tell her you have chlamydia and need to stop having sex for a while. Maybe she will cool off and forget you.

This! And tell her to get tested!

[Anonymous]

She's literally got you by the balls. You end it, no partnership for you.