19 year old daughter sleeping with man 9 years older

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She's an adult. Hope she's on birth control

She is doing well by dCUM standards. If she keeps it up She can be stay at home
Mom In no time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, in these cases, the mentality of the older person is usually the problem.
I just hope that your daughter has the social skills to deal with potentially controlling or immature people.

He will likely have an odd combination of maturity/savvy and profound irresponsibility. He might lie and tell her that he is more accomplished than he really is. And she'll be too naive and gullible to see through his lies....so she'll go places and do things with him that she would never do with a guy closer to her own age.

He sees something in her that he wants. And what he wants is what is important.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Make sure she has an IUD and knows condoms prevent herpes.

The next step my mom would do is schedule a visit with the intent on meeting this man and smothering him in affection. Welcome him with WIDE OPEN ARMS. Don't say one negative word about him. Watch, wait, get to know him. Let your DD know you are a safe spot.

She'll dump him before Easter.

Not true. Condoms don't prevent herpes and HPV transmission.
https://www.google.com/amp/www.sfgate.com/health/amp/Condoms-not-effective-against-HPV-or-herpes-3650285.php

[Anonymous]

daddy issues and poor moral upbringing

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:daddy issues and poor moral upbringing

Bull sh*t

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:daddy issues and poor moral upbringing

Bull sh*t

Agreed. When I was 19 I dated older guys and had no daddy issues.

[Anonymous]

You should have explained and showed via Internet to your daughter that at that age non-committal men just want her for sex.
You should have taught her that keeping her virginity is the only way to make men compete for her and to land a high value man who will value her in return.
At least today there is no lack of Internet material to explain this to young women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You should have explained and showed via Internet to your daughter that at that age non-committal men just want her for sex.
You should have taught her that keeping her virginity is the only way to make men compete for her and to land a high value man who will value her in return.
At least today there is no lack of Internet material to explain this to young women.

You need to grow up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You should have explained and showed via Internet to your daughter that at that age non-committal men just want her for sex.
You should have taught her that keeping her virginity is the only way to make men compete for her and to land a high value man who will value her in return.
At least today there is no lack of Internet material to explain this to young women.

You need to grow up.

Struck a nerve?
You are either a slut justifying her behavior or a male who lies to young women to lure them in and use them.
The worst is you are one of the two but just old, bitter, and jaded.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You should have explained and showed via Internet to your daughter that at that age non-committal men just want her for sex.
You should have taught her that keeping her virginity is the only way to make men compete for her and to land a high value man who will value her in return.
At least today there is no lack of Internet material to explain this to young women.

You need to grow up.

Struck a nerve?
You are either a slut justifying her behavior or a male who lies to young women to lure them in and use them.
The worst is you are one of the two but just old, bitter, and jaded.

You have stepped into the wrong century my dear. Back in your day, when the average lifespan was 40 and people got married at 15 or 16...people married the first fine thing that stepped into their parents' parlor for some (supervised) courting.

Nowadays the average lifespan is mid 70's and there are people having their first baby at 40. It's a different time.

[Anonymous]

Is he a goyim? Or god forbid is he a colored boy? It's an embarrassment but they say colored boys have a very big putz. Ask her how big it is.

[Anonymous]

How can you have a problem with this age difference when your husband is 10 years older than you? This is ridiculous. Wait until you have a real problem and then come back and complain.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Met my second wife while taking college classes. I was a 46 yr old doing an exec MBA and she was a 23 yr old undergrad.

AWWWW YEAHHHHHH! You livin the dream Dawg