What's the worst thing you ever did to an ex, or vice versa?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:For me, the best revenge was cutting off contact and moving on.

+1 Changed my number, blocked his emails and sent all mail back unopened

[Anonymous]

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you just kinda come off a little angry

op. Well, there is that some days. And it is a thread about revenge.

I don't think it would help the anger to act against my own interests, though - then I'd be angry about that, too.

No interest in sex, or being with someone whom you actually love?

[Anonymous]

got a pg coworker to pee on "the stick" and left it on the bathroom counter. He was in the process of leaving me - because he didn't "love me enough" but really it was for his pg gf, which he didn't think I knew about. He's not caucasion, but he went whiter than white, I thought he might faint. He didn't, but he did throw up. Then I threw him out. Put his clothes out in the hallway and everything. I only wish we had a house so I could have put them in the yard. But it was still worth it to watch him run around the building up and down, collecting boxes, going and getting some duffel bags, taking the elevator ride of shame

[Anonymous]

Has anyone ever done the, post their address on Craigslist and say there's a yard/estate sale and then a ton of random people show up? Can that be traced back to you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:For all of you people who don't get it...you probably spend most of your days at Ann Taylor. Sneakers among young people are a billion dollar industry. Having a great pair is like driving a porsche but on your feet.

http://www.forbes.com/sites/deborahweinswig/2016/03/18/sneaker-culture-fuels-1-billion-secondary-market/#28554d136776

You're welcome.

The part I don't get has nothing to do with the sneakers. Of course they are a huge industry.

It has to do with acting so immaturely as to seek out revenge by spending your own money on something, then setting it on fire. Then bragging about it and getting social media involved, as if anyone other than some blogger looking for a sensational headline (or your immature friends) will be impressed rather than thinking you're a moron.

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I don't see it as sad at all. She stays in her home. Her kids stay in the home. The kids' lives aren't turned upside down by divorce. She gets to continue taking care of her home and her children. If she and her DH were fighting in front of the kids or if there was abuse, it would be different. I think she is making the best decision for her family. I would do exactly the same.

I agree. Look at the alternative: splitting the retirement money, possibly moving with the kids to a smaller place since his income has to provide for two homes, having to get an at least initially low paying job and giving up her ability to be a sahm, living on less money while he's free to marry the ow who will then become part of her kids' lives, not to mention the hardship of all of this on the kids.

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I don't see it as sad at all. She stays in her home. Her kids stay in the home. The kids' lives aren't turned upside down by divorce. She gets to continue taking care of her home and her children. If she and her DH were fighting in front of the kids or if there was abuse, it would be different. I think she is making the best decision for her family. I would do exactly the same.

I agree. Look at the alternative: splitting the retirement money, possibly moving with the kids to a smaller place since his income has to provide for two homes, having to get an at least initially low paying job and giving up her ability to be a sahm, living on less money while he's free to marry the ow who will then become part of her kids' lives, not to mention the hardship of all of this on the kids.

Yes, her kids stay in a toxic home where dad has affairs and treats mom like crap, and she looks the other way.

Sounds dreamy.

[Anonymous]

Lots of bitter people on here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Lots of bitter people on here.

Obviously. Thanks for the input , caption o

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Lots of bitter people on here.

Agreed! Really surprised at those who have an interest in acting out revenge.

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Anonymous wrote:Lots of bitter people on here.

Agreed! Really surprised at those who have an interest in acting out revenge.

Why? What's surprising? It's a reaction to being hurt. Emotions don't travel in rational channels

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Lots of bitter people on here.

Agreed! Really surprised at those who have an interest in acting out revenge.

Why? What's surprising? It's a reaction to being hurt. Emotions don't travel in rational channels

Of course not, but many are capable of stepping back and thinking about something before doing it. It's called impulse control.

Even if the impulse control is lacking in the moment, the later lack of self-reflection and ability to see that the revenge-seeker was the one who was harmed the most, is surprising to me.

If I ever did something like in many of the previous posts, I would be embarrassed that I had done it, not throwing it around as a brag.

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I don't see it as sad at all. She stays in her home. Her kids stay in the home. The kids' lives aren't turned upside down by divorce. She gets to continue taking care of her home and her children. If she and her DH were fighting in front of the kids or if there was abuse, it would be different. I think she is making the best decision for her family. I would do exactly the same.

I agree. Look at the alternative: splitting the retirement money, possibly moving with the kids to a smaller place since his income has to provide for two homes, having to get an at least initially low paying job and giving up her ability to be a sahm, living on less money while he's free to marry the ow who will then become part of her kids' lives, not to mention the hardship of all of this on the kids.

Yes, her kids stay in a toxic home where dad has affairs and treats mom like crap, and she looks the other way.

Sounds dreamy.

Well, either way, she and the kids got screwed over, didn't they. At least she's being sensible and they're getting screwed over in relative comfort, rather than having to be uprooted and live in a crappier place with no parents at home because Mom's out working an entry-level job. Dad doesn't sound available either way she does it. I give her credit, especially if she's mature enough to be calm and pleasant towards their father. Once the kids are grown, maybe she'll want to start dating again. If she's smart, she'll save up and leave at that point, before his gf dumps him and he gets old enough to shuffle back home, wanting to be taken care of. It's a different story, perhaps, if you have a good career and make good money.

[Anonymous]

My EX used to text me pics of her using a hairbrush in unusual ways. When she cheated on me I sent them to her mother and grandmother.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My EX used to text me pics of her using a hairbrush in unusual ways. When she cheated on me I sent them to her mother and grandmother.

Was it really necessary to involve her mother and grandmother? What have they done to deserve that?