What's the worst thing you ever did to an ex, or vice versa?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was with a girl in Grad School. She dumped me because I did not have enough money. She was an undergrad and was living off of mommy and daddy; I was on a stipend, on my own, living on 11K/yr. I did not have a car, had a dumpy apartment with room mates, and lived paycheck to paycheck.

That was in 1990. She popped up in "people you might know."

My revenge was friending her on Facebook, so she could see what she gave up. First, I look just like I did 26 years ago, including the hair; I have a prestigious job that pays good money where I only work a regular work week. I am happily married. She? Well, she is single with a kid, working as a clerk in a hospital. She drives a 14 year old car, and is morbidly obese. I won.

Hate to break it to you, but someone who holds onto a break-up by a 20 year old college girl from 26 years ago hasn't "won."

I had not thought about her in 25 years until she popped up in my feed, but then it all came back.

[Anonymous]

Half this stuff is so childish. Really, a bonfire? Grow up. I've never felt the need to do any stupid shit like burn things. I'm successful and have kept my looks and that's all I need to do.

[Anonymous]

Amateurs.

[Anonymous]

Told him he didn't make me cum.

[Anonymous]

The worst thing I've done is to pretend from moment one when I found out about the affair that I was hurt and would always be in love with him but that his happiness was all that mattered to me.

Never raised my voice, never became hysterical, I just cried quietly and rolled over.

Basically my revenge is that he's too guilty to get a divorce, has no incentive to go through the process because I'm letting him do what he wants, I don't love him anymore at all but he thinks I do, and he will work to support me for the rest of my life while he never comes home so I don't even have to deal with him in exchange.

They always say living well is the best revenge, so guess what?

Joke's on you, motherfucker.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The worst thing I've done is to pretend from moment one when I found out about the affair that I was hurt and would always be in love with him but that his happiness was all that mattered to me.

Never raised my voice, never became hysterical, I just cried quietly and rolled over.

Basically my revenge is that he's too guilty to get a divorce, has no incentive to go through the process because I'm letting him do what he wants, I don't love him anymore at all but he thinks I do, and he will work to support me for the rest of my life while he never comes home so I don't even have to deal with him in exchange.

They always say living well is the best revenge, so guess what?

Joke's on you, motherfucker.

I'm sorry. I hope one of you passes away soon.

[Anonymous]

Every time bill collectors call for him, I give them his GF phone #. Also don't give him mail that comes to marital home for him (divorced more than 5 years). Some are e bills so his credit is trashed. He lost a job because his shitty credit impacted his clearance. ( most of that is his own fault but I'm not helping him)

[Anonymous]

They always say living well is the best revenge, so guess what?

Joke's on you, motherfucker.

You're my hero. I got divorced but in retrospect I would have been better off doing what you're doing. Hindsight, sigh.

[Anonymous]

Posted one of our "private" videos to a amateur porn site. No faces are visible. It has been viewed over 100k times.

[Anonymous]

Married a man to whom he doesn't compare. While it's true my husband makes 2x what my ex does, he's also emotionally stronger, a better father, and someone I can actually trust. Meanwhile, the ex is a stunted 35yr old with the life of a 23yr old.

[Anonymous]

Didn't care.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The worst thing I've done is to pretend from moment one when I found out about the affair that I was hurt and would always be in love with him but that his happiness was all that mattered to me.

Never raised my voice, never became hysterical, I just cried quietly and rolled over.

Basically my revenge is that he's too guilty to get a divorce, has no incentive to go through the process because I'm letting him do what he wants, I don't love him anymore at all but he thinks I do, and he will work to support me for the rest of my life while he never comes home so I don't even have to deal with him in exchange.

They always say living well is the best revenge, so guess what?

Joke's on you, motherfucker.

Oy.

You only have one life. Why spend it like this?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Told him he didn't make me cum.

I hope he laughed in your face.

[Anonymous]

I was going back and forth between two girlfriends in the couple years after college. I wasn't honest about my status with either of them, which was fun but not nice. Eventually, one of them figured it out and told the other. I tried to get back with the second girl for a while until she got a new boyfriend whom she later married. I pivoted to pursue the first girl and things were interesting for a while until she cut things off.

I haven't spoken to them in 20 years but we share some friends. I know that one is married, no kids and hasn't worked for a long time because her husband made millions in IT. The other is living in the midwest, has a daughter and seems to living a very comfortable life as well.

I got married a few years after those women left my life. We have a couple kids, struggle financially and fight about stuff. Probably unrelated to my earlier sins.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:One of my best friends walked in on her BF with a prostitute and found STD pills in his nightstand when she flew out early to surprise him for Valentine's Day. For revenge, she burned his Valentine's Day presents in a bonfire (the ones she had bought him but not given to him). One item was a pair of rare Nike's by Kanye West that he had also autographed. I think they're pretty much priceless shoes and after she livestreamed the bonfire, no sneaker company would hire him. (He was trying to get a job with one) He's still in a dead end job and single while her business boomed after she did this and she's definitely moved on.

I'm too shy and meek to do something like she did but I can't say I didn't enjoy watching her plan and execute her revenge. For her, revenge was ultimately very sweet.

Am I the only one who is not impressed with this story? She stooped to his level and made herself look bad. While what her ex did is beyond atrocious, what she did is juvenile and could be considered atrocious as well, if it is really true that she negatively impacted his future job prospects.