Wow, that's nuts but great that you have a DNA test. |
| So look at the bright side! You can now start your own Thanksgiving tradition! At ours, we serve Oreo pie instead of pumpkin pie. Cranberries are nowhere in the house! |
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Wow.
I may have gone and said something to the effect of "Oh hi!! Haven't heard from you since DH changed his number. Are you still sending nude pictures to ex boyfriends? It is just SO understanding of my IL's to still invite you to dinner." Also there is no way in hell my kid would be calling her "Aunt" and everyone would know that, too. |
A DNA test only proves the ex's husband is the father. It doesn't prove OP's DH wasn't banging his ex. Husbands don't ask for paternity tests unless they have a reason to doubt paternity. |
Read! OP's husband did not ask for a paternity test, the child's father did. OP's husband was never accused (until today) of being the child's father. |
| Having a small family thanksgiving can be a real treat. My IL's are good people but every few years is nice to have a break and just do our own thing. Have a great holiday. |
| threesome. it solves all issues. |
I think what pp is saying is that the father of the child was suspicious she was sleeping around (perhaps with OP's husband) and therefore asked for a paternity test. |
The child's father wanted a paternity test because Ex was just a one night stand and she was also sleeping with a married man. Just not my married man. |
You never know. Kasey could be OP's soulmate. |
Op: LOL she would be less interested if he was available. |
| This whole thing is out of a Jerry Springer show. For real? Um, you don't say anything, and pretend you are okay with. "We are so sorry to miss Thanksgiving but just won a free vacay to the beach". Do not enter that family drama. |
No, I meant *your* soulmate. Get my attempts at threadshitting correct! |