DH's ex girlfriend and inlaws

[Anonymous]

Your ILs are definitely a-holes - the entire lot of them! And perhaps Aunt Kasey has convinced your ILs that her kid really does belong to your DH, whether or not it is true/there is another man claiming paternity. There has to be more to the situation that you aren't aware of.

[Anonymous]

Her kid is DHs. Open your eyes lady.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How have you been together for ten years but son is not his? An ex from ten years ago is not an ex but just a female. After ten years of togetherness you can afford to be besties with her yourself without any insecurities. If they have suddenly embraced her, then her child is his child.

Your reading comprehension is ZERO.

[Anonymous]

This is very strange, and I agree there is something going on with the ex's son. Not sure how you can get any additional details though.

[Anonymous]

Do your ILs know that Aunt Kasey was trying to break up your marriage?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh for the love.

Are you the same poster with the Christmas smokergate text exchange post?

What is this smokergate? I'm all curious now and can't find smokergate in search.

[Anonymous]

Aunt Kasey sounds like a stalker, not just an ex. This is your DH's battle, and he needs to be firm about it with his family. Nip this shit in the bud. How pathetic of the ex.

[Anonymous]

Damn your want your husband to have authority over who his sister can/can't be friends with?
Yikes

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Damn your want your husband to have authority over who his sister can/can't be friends with?
Yikes

We don't even like his sister. We don't care who she's friends with. We just dont want to be around her and we reserve that right.

[Anonymous]

Maybe sister and ex are in a relationship now

[Anonymous]

How long ago did she send the photos?

[Anonymous]

Yeah let DH formally handle it, but I don't blame you a bit for not going OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe sister and ex are in a relationship now

His sister is married. She's been married to her husband 7 years and with him 13 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How long ago did she send the photos?

About a year ago. His family knows about it.

[Anonymous]

What is your relationship like with your SIL? Has this situation recently escalated or gave they been besties for all these years? Seems very strange/psychological issues to hang around for this many years. I think your DH did the best thing. You can't let this woman worm her way into your family. She is doing it to the extended family which is awful but your number one duty is to your marriage and children.