DH's ex girlfriend and inlaws

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:your husband should call his parents and sister and let them know it is not ok. threaten not to come if she is there, etc.

Yes. It looks like the ex has persuaded the ILs she's still the one.

DH doesn't even know what to say. Should he just be blunt? "It was inconsiderate of you to invite a woman who repeatedly tried splitting my marriage. If she's there we won't be."

Yes. "Larla and I are uncomfortable around Tonya because she tried to break up our marriage. You are welcome to invite her but if you do, we won't be attending. Hope you understand."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:your husband should call his parents and sister and let them know it is not ok. threaten not to come if she is there, etc.

Yes. It looks like the ex has persuaded the ILs she's still the one.

DH doesn't even know what to say. Should he just be blunt? "It was inconsiderate of you to invite a woman who repeatedly tried splitting my marriage. If she's there we won't be."

Nope. No threats. Just do not go.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Do not go to thanksgiving at your inlaws. Plan a nice weekend trip for your family and enjoy the time together. It's really very simple.

8 year old DS asked me who aunt kasey was. I told him he didn't have an aunt kasey. That's when he said "oh, well Aunt Lisa told me that Aunt Kasey was coming to Thanksgiving.

Is the 8yo yours with dh? How long have you been together?

8 year old is mine. 10 years we've been together. This ex has sent DH nude pics and tried to win him back so many times that he changed his number.

Is DH the father of your son?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:your husband should call his parents and sister and let them know it is not ok. threaten not to come if she is there, etc.

Yes. It looks like the ex has persuaded the ILs she's still the one.

DH doesn't even know what to say. Should he just be blunt? "It was inconsiderate of you to invite a woman who repeatedly tried splitting my marriage. If she's there we won't be."

This is exactly what he should do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do not go to thanksgiving at your inlaws. Plan a nice weekend trip for your family and enjoy the time together. It's really very simple.

8 year old DS asked me who aunt kasey was. I told him he didn't have an aunt kasey. That's when he said "oh, well Aunt Lisa told me that Aunt Kasey was coming to Thanksgiving.

Is the 8yo yours with dh? How long have you been together?

8 year old is mine. 10 years we've been together. This ex has sent DH nude pics and tried to win him back so many times that he changed his number.

Is DH the father of your son?

OP: yes he's the father.

[Anonymous]

How have you been together for ten years but son is not his? An ex from ten years ago is not an ex but just a female. After ten years of togetherness you can afford to be besties with her yourself without any insecurities. If they have suddenly embraced her, then her child is his child.

[Anonymous]

Sorry, ignore about paternity of your son.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How have you been together for ten years but son is not his? An ex from ten years ago is not an ex but just a female. After ten years of togetherness you can afford to be besties with her yourself without any insecurities. If they have suddenly embraced her, then her child is his child.

I'd rather not spend holidays with a homewrecker. Thanks.

[Anonymous]

I must have misunderstood, I thought she was his girlfriend PRIOR to you? How is she a home wrecker? Did he break up with her before he started with you? If not, does this make you the home wrecker? Is this the source of your insecurity?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I must have misunderstood, I thought she was his girlfriend PRIOR to you? How is she a home wrecker? Did he break up with her before he started with you? If not, does this make you the home wrecker? Is this the source of your insecurity?

Since I've been married to DH, she sent several nude pics of herself to him and messaged him etc. He changed his number.

[Anonymous]

You should skip thanksgiving, if for no other reason that ILs trailer will be really crowded with that many people.

[Anonymous]

This has to be a troll post, because people are not this subservient and stupid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You should skip thanksgiving, if for no other reason that ILs trailer will be really crowded with that many people.

Trailer? Rude and judgemental.

[Anonymous]

I love my Mother in law and Father in Law. It's my sister inaw behind this.

[Anonymous]

DH needs to cancel NOW and tell them why.