Affairs: Who is more likely to have them, men or women?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Many/Most OW are not married. But I feel compassion/sympathy for people that are both victims and perpetrators. Sometimes you are both at the same time. I also have sympathy for men who are so messed up. I recognize they are messed up and still feel compassion for them.

And how did you determine this?

I don't have a link but you can find the statistics if you want. I did research on this years ago.

Long story short single women between the age of 28-32 are desperate (tick/tock/tick/tock), they have the most affairs with married men.

I assume like most of this sort of research it relies primarily on self-reporting. You can see where a single woman might be more likely to admit to an affair than a married woman, even for science. Color me skeptical.

You think most married men are having affairs with married women, not single women. okay?

Ashley Madison can tell you... the married women number are low.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:to 15:00 - you must be a wife who was cheated on to assume the guy chose someone lower in status than you.
I am a well educated, attractive woman who someone's husband preferred.......

who someone's husband prefers to bang.... not prefers... not prefers for anything else... if you had more to offer ...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Many/Most OW are not married. But I feel compassion/sympathy for people that are both victims and perpetrators. Sometimes you are both at the same time. I also have sympathy for men who are so messed up. I recognize they are messed up and still feel compassion for them.

And how did you determine this?

I don't have a link but you can find the statistics if you want. I did research on this years ago.

Long story short single women between the age of 28-32 are desperate (tick/tock/tick/tock), they have the most affairs with married men.

I assume like most of this sort of research it relies primarily on self-reporting. You can see where a single woman might be more likely to admit to an affair than a married woman, even for science. Color me skeptical.

You think most married men are having affairs with married women, not single women. okay?

Ashley Madison can tell you... the married women number are low.

Not that married women are having them with married men, just that more of them are having affairs than you suggest, period. No doubt they are also having them with single men. Especially the type of single guy who seeks out married women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:to 15:00 - you must be a wife who was cheated on to assume the guy chose someone lower in status than you.
I am a well educated, attractive woman who someone's husband preferred.......

who someone's husband prefers to bang.... not prefers... not prefers for anything else... if you had more to offer ...

This is what's called taking the bait. Don't bite. PP is probably a middle aged guy living in brother and SIL's basement, hating them both and deciding to make people on this thread feel bad.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Many/Most OW are not married. But I feel compassion/sympathy for people that are both victims and perpetrators. Sometimes you are both at the same time. I also have sympathy for men who are so messed up. I recognize they are messed up and still feel compassion for them.

And how did you determine this?

I don't have a link but you can find the statistics if you want. I did research on this years ago.

Long story short single women between the age of 28-32 are desperate (tick/tock/tick/tock), they have the most affairs with married men.

I assume like most of this sort of research it relies primarily on self-reporting. You can see where a single woman might be more likely to admit to an affair than a married woman, even for science. Color me skeptical.

You think most married men are having affairs with married women, not single women. okay?

Ashley Madison can tell you... the married women number are low.

Not that married women are having them with married men, just that more of them are having affairs than you suggest, period. No doubt they are also having them with single men. Especially the type of single guy who seeks out married women.

How is that guy not a creep? What type of single guy seeks out married women outside of Daniel Craig as James Bond?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Many/Most OW are not married. But I feel compassion/sympathy for people that are both victims and perpetrators. Sometimes you are both at the same time. I also have sympathy for men who are so messed up. I recognize they are messed up and still feel compassion for them.

And how did you determine this?

I don't have a link but you can find the statistics if you want. I did research on this years ago.

Long story short single women between the age of 28-32 are desperate (tick/tock/tick/tock), they have the most affairs with married men.

I assume like most of this sort of research it relies primarily on self-reporting. You can see where a single woman might be more likely to admit to an affair than a married woman, even for science. Color me skeptical.

You think most married men are having affairs with married women, not single women. okay?

Ashley Madison can tell you... the married women number are low.

Not that married women are having them with married men, just that more of them are having affairs than you suggest, period. No doubt they are also having them with single men. Especially the type of single guy who seeks out married women.

How is that guy not a creep? What type of single guy seeks out married women outside of Daniel Craig as James Bond?

He is the worst kind of creep. And eventually karma catches up with those guys. But that's not the point.

[Anonymous]

to 15:37 - I don't know exactly all the things he prefers, but I do know that I don't want him full time and he doesn't want me full time and I am totally OK with that. I think the sad thing is that you are a wife who wants to believe that he really wants you full time. He doesn't or he wouldn't have me part time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:to 15:37 - I don't know exactly all the things he prefers, but I do know that I don't want him full time and he doesn't want me full time and I am totally OK with that. I think the sad thing is that you are a wife who wants to believe that he really wants you full time. He doesn't or he wouldn't have me part time.

I am not a wife, I am not a woman. He does not want you really. He goes to a Chinese restaurant sometimes over his wife's cooking, you are no more/no less.

If you are using each other, go for it ... but don't think he is doing anything but trading down.

Why are women so gullible.

[Anonymous]

you're not getting my point. I'm not gullible. I understand exactly what I've got - which is a part time, enjoyable situation.

[Anonymous]

Maybe im dumb but wouldnt it be a equal number?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:you're not getting my point. I'm not gullible. I understand exactly what I've got - which is a part time, enjoyable situation.

You think you know what you have. Then you find out it was all lies and you boil a rabbit.

As soon as he dumps you, you will go balistic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:to 15:00 - you must be a wife who was cheated on to assume the guy chose someone lower in status than you.
I am a well educated, attractive woman who someone's husband preferred.......

Not 15:00, but if he preferred you, he'd be married to you. It's simple really. You wouldn't be just a side piece.