How do I respond to my GF's behavior on NYE?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm Italian and this is not Italian behavior. This is trashy behavior.

She showed you who she really is. Believe her. She's not worth keeping around.

Are you from the north? there's a huge difference between a woman from Bologna for example and one from Napoli

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OP just described 1/2 of the women from my hometown (including my family) - many descendants from Napoli and still a "vibrant" culture. Some Spaniards can be fiesty/passionate too.

Anyway, doesn't sound like a good match. If you can't handle the heat, OP, move on.

PP here - I wasn't making the distinction as something positive for southern italians.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm Italian and this is not Italian behavior. This is trashy behavior.

She showed you who she really is. Believe her. She's not worth keeping around.

Are you from the north? there's a huge difference between a woman from Bologna for example and one from Napoli

+1

OP just described 1/2 of the women from my hometown (including my family) - many descendants from Napoli and still a "vibrant" culture. Some Spaniards can be fiesty/passionate too.

Anyway, doesn't sound like a good match. If you can't handle the heat, OP, move on.

PP here - I wasn't making the distinction as something positive for southern italians.

My ex is third generation Sicilian-American. They "show love" by fighting, yelling, and generally acting crazy. She would say the most hurtful things just to get under my skin.

So glad I broke it off with her in 2013. My new partner is very calm, collected, and not prone to fighting. We are so much more compatible.