I had an emotional affair but now I'm ready to divorce my wife because she can't get over it

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Americans seem to have such a hard time, just walking away. I am not making fun of Americans and I am not suggesting that "just walking away" is the best solution to relationship problems. I think I am being as factual as possible when generalizing.

In many ways I admire this trait, compared to the "flexible" nature of northern Europeans in relationships. My husband is an American. Had I been him, I would have walked away from me a long time ago, many times.

Americans have hard time walking away from marriages because it's looked down upon by the society which is still quite religious compared to
more secular Europe, because of the divorce laws and because of the American dream and importance of projecting an image of a perfect family which is a house in suburbs, wife, kids, a dog or dogs or other pets, two cars.

Actually aren't divorce rates for most of Europe (Scandinavia excluded) lower than those in the USA?

it's actually the exact opposite. americans divorce much more than other rich nations, including canada, australia. it's because they want perfection, pursue ever more happiness etc.

so damn expensive, dis-entangling the web of property and finances is very painful. Everyone in the process has a hand out.

[Anonymous]

A bunch of one sided narrow thinking women post on this board.
Bla bla bla empathize with the DW and eat her shit

Yeah yeah yeah

You one sided feeling worthless advice sprouting ignoramuses

I lived in a sexless marriage for over 25 yrs Everything great but no sex because she had a non existent libido. Let's talk about how she abandoned me. Hurt me. Never allowed me to live a full life.

Wake up ....... It's no where all the cheaters fault in many cases

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
A bunch of one sided narrow thinking women post on this board.
Bla bla bla empathize with the DW and eat her shit

Yeah yeah yeah

You one sided feeling worthless advice sprouting ignoramuses

I lived in a sexless marriage for over 25 yrs Everything great but no sex because she had a non existent libido. Let's talk about how she abandoned me. Hurt me. Never allowed me to live a full life.

Wake up ....... It's no where all the cheaters fault in many cases

Your wife probably just isn't sexually attracted to you because you're a big whiny pussy. Man up.

[Anonymous]

Op you sound like a selfish child. Please get divorced before you accidentally have a kid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
A bunch of one sided narrow thinking women post on this board.
Bla bla bla empathize with the DW and eat her shit

Yeah yeah yeah

You one sided feeling worthless advice sprouting ignoramuses

I lived in a sexless marriage for over 25 yrs Everything great but no sex because she had a non existent libido. Let's talk about how she abandoned me. Hurt me. Never allowed me to live a full life.

Wake up ....... It's no where all the cheaters fault in many cases

No wonder she didn't want to have sex with you.