Is There Anything You Wish You Asked Your DH/DW Before Marriage?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you ever going to leave your current job, or have you pretty much peaked professionally at age 30?

What was the current job (which you apparently regarded as beneath you).

Huh? He could have done more and better. Now it's too late. My job situation is just fine, thanks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you ever going to leave your current job, or have you pretty much peaked professionally at age 30?

So do you want DH to help with chores 50/50 at home or to channel that energy to his career? It's a zero-sum game, there are only so many hours in the day.

I've been promoted every two or three years, while doing 90% of the household management. The things that I gave up are my personal leisure pursuits.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are you wearing a toupee?

Did you know and wish you had been upfront and asked? Or could you not tell?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:'Are you planning to ever do anything about your toenail fungus?'

yes, this aided the demise of our sex life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:'Are you planning to ever do anything about your toenail fungus?'

yes, this aided the demise of our sex life.

Different strokes for different folks, eh. My partner could have his toes amputated and it wouldn't slow us down. Well, maybe on walks.

[Anonymous]

Are you ever going to recognize the traits in yourself that are much like your fathers? The same traits you disrespect so much? How will you focus on your own challenges so you don't continue the cycle with your children?

[Anonymous]

Did you ever learn how to perform basic routine home cleaning tasks?

Have you ever seen a doctor about your chronic bad breath?

[Anonymous]

I wished I asked my DW explicitly if she was sexually attracted to me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wished I asked my DW explicitly if she was sexually attracted to me.

This makes me sad. I'm sorry.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you ever going to leave your current job, or have you pretty much peaked professionally at age 30?

What was the current job (which you apparently regarded as beneath you).

Huh? He could have done more and better. Now it's too late. My job situation is just fine, thanks.

What was he doing at age 30, career and salary-wise?

What is he doing now?

What were you expecting?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you wearing a toupee?

Did you know and wish you had been upfront and asked? Or could you not tell?

I suspected, for various reasons.

It was more sad than anything. I honestly don't mind the baldness. I did mind the deception, but i understand that it was more about insecurity than anything malicious He now just buzzes his hair and it looks better anyway.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you ever going to leave your current job, or have you pretty much peaked professionally at age 30?

What was the current job (which you apparently regarded as beneath you).

Huh? He could have done more and better. Now it's too late. My job situation is just fine, thanks.

What was he doing at age 30, career and salary-wise?

What is he doing now?

What were you expecting?

I thought he'd leave the federal government for the private sector, like most of his friends. Nope.

[Anonymous]

Can you handle criticism? Will you ever sleep fewer than 9 hours a night? Are you truly laid back, or just lazy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wished I asked my DW explicitly if she was sexually attracted to me.

I wish that I asked my DW the same question.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are you the kind of person who gives the silent treatment for days after a fight?

My DW is like that...