Chantilly mom ships teen daughter to Siberia. Two years later, she’s still there. Really.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:There has GOT to be a way for an NGO or someone to take on this case and help this child out. Anyone?

Anyone on this thread can ask an immigration attorney what it would take to sponsor her. Not that hard to do here in the Washington area. But one of you would have to take the risk that her mother will not.

Why do you want to bring a law breaking little brat back to the states? Makes no sense.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There has GOT to be a way for an NGO or someone to take on this case and help this child out. Anyone?

Anyone on this thread can ask an immigration attorney what it would take to sponsor her. Not that hard to do here in the Washington area. But one of you would have to take the risk that her mother will not.

That is exactly what I'm saying. Shame on her mother. Even if she was a terribly bratty, disobedient teenager (and which 15 year old isn't), she doesn't just get to throw away her daughter. Shame on her and shame on you for thinking she was right.

I wasn't you can ask my mom for verification.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:She was sent because she was unruly and misbehaving - to put it mildly. Three years later, instead of owning her own mistakes and apologizing for them, she still only gives excuses and blames others - she is still a brat and we have tons of those here already. Good riddance!

I could not have said it better. I'm shocked at the small few of you who are being supportive of the brat of a daughter.

+ 1000

I think you are in the minority here, thankfully. Most of us are supporting the daughter. I'd hate to see that parents like her mother and you are in the majority.

Ok. So put your money where your mouth is. Can she come live with you? Sneak boys into your house? Steal from you? Do drugs in your house?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She was sent because she was unruly and misbehaving - to put it mildly. Three years later, instead of owning her own mistakes and apologizing for them, she still only gives excuses and blames others - she is still a brat and we have tons of those here already. Good riddance!

I could not have said it better. I'm shocked at the small few of you who are being supportive of the brat of a daughter.

+ 1000

I think you are in the minority here, thankfully. Most of us are supporting the daughter. I'd hate to see that parents like her mother and you are in the majority.

Ok. So put your money where your mouth is. Can she come live with you? Sneak boys into your house? Steal from you? Do drugs in your house?

Boy you are being an idiot.

1) No one suggests that her mom should have allowed her to continue with her disrespectful behavior. You seek counseling, you put up healthy boundaries, you even enter a program. What you don't do is send her off to be someone else's problem. Out of sight, out of mind, right?

2) There are a lot of people involved in trying to help her (including me, in whatever small way I can). There are people who believe that adults in this girl's life have failed her. There is a reason 15 is considered a minor by law. It's because 15 year olds still have a lot of growing up and maturing to do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There has GOT to be a way for an NGO or someone to take on this case and help this child out. Anyone?

Anyone on this thread can ask an immigration attorney what it would take to sponsor her. Not that hard to do here in the Washington area. But one of you would have to take the risk that her mother will not.

Why do you want to bring a law breaking little brat back to the states? Makes no sense.

How about we trade you for her? I think you need to live in Siberia for a while.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She was sent because she was unruly and misbehaving - to put it mildly. Three years later, instead of owning her own mistakes and apologizing for them, she still only gives excuses and blames others - she is still a brat and we have tons of those here already. Good riddance!

I could not have said it better. I'm shocked at the small few of you who are being supportive of the brat of a daughter.

+ 1000

I think you are in the minority here, thankfully. Most of us are supporting the daughter. I'd hate to see that parents like her mother and you are in the majority.

Ok. So put your money where your mouth is. Can she come live with you? Sneak boys into your house? Steal from you? Do drugs in your house?

This mother lied to her daughter about who her dad was, and you're giving her a pass?? Unbelievable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She was sent because she was unruly and misbehaving - to put it mildly. Three years later, instead of owning her own mistakes and apologizing for them, she still only gives excuses and blames others - she is still a brat and we have tons of those here already. Good riddance!

I could not have said it better. I'm shocked at the small few of you who are being supportive of the brat of a daughter.

+ 1000

I think you are in the minority here, thankfully. Most of us are supporting the daughter. I'd hate to see that parents like her mother and you are in the majority.

Ok. So put your money where your mouth is. Can she come live with you? Sneak boys into your house? Steal from you? Do drugs in your house?

Boy you are being an idiot.

1) No one suggests that her mom should have allowed her to continue with her disrespectful behavior. You seek counseling, you put up healthy boundaries, you even enter a program. What you don't do is send her off to be someone else's problem. Out of sight, out of mind, right?

2) There are a lot of people involved in trying to help her (including me, in whatever small way I can). There are people who believe that adults in this girl's life have failed her. There is a reason 15 is considered a minor by law. It's because 15 year olds still have a lot of growing up and maturing to do.

Oh ok got it. So as long as she's not directly causing problems in your household, breaking the law and affecting the behavior of the other small children in your house you're all for her being here in the states.

FYI she's no longer 15. She's almost 18 and about to be a 'legal' adult.

Her law breaking almost adult ass should stay in Siberia.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There has GOT to be a way for an NGO or someone to take on this case and help this child out. Anyone?

Anyone on this thread can ask an immigration attorney what it would take to sponsor her. Not that hard to do here in the Washington area. But one of you would have to take the risk that her mother will not.

Why do you want to bring a law breaking little brat back to the states? Makes no sense.

How about we trade you for her? I think you need to live in Siberia for a while.

You are crazy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She was sent because she was unruly and misbehaving - to put it mildly. Three years later, instead of owning her own mistakes and apologizing for them, she still only gives excuses and blames others - she is still a brat and we have tons of those here already. Good riddance!

I could not have said it better. I'm shocked at the small few of you who are being supportive of the brat of a daughter.

+ 1000

I think you are in the minority here, thankfully. Most of us are supporting the daughter. I'd hate to see that parents like her mother and you are in the majority.

Ok. So put your money where your mouth is. Can she come live with you? Sneak boys into your house? Steal from you? Do drugs in your house?

Boy you are being an idiot.

1) No one suggests that her mom should have allowed her to continue with her disrespectful behavior. You seek counseling, you put up healthy boundaries, you even enter a program. What you don't do is send her off to be someone else's problem. Out of sight, out of mind, right?

2) There are a lot of people involved in trying to help her (including me, in whatever small way I can). There are people who believe that adults in this girl's life have failed her. There is a reason 15 is considered a minor by law. It's because 15 year olds still have a lot of growing up and maturing to do.

Oh ok got it. So as long as she's not directly causing problems in your household, breaking the law and affecting the behavior of the other small children in your house you're all for her being here in the states.

FYI she's no longer 15. She's almost 18 and about to be a 'legal' adult.

Her law breaking almost adult ass should stay in Siberia.

Are you her mother? Again, you are being purposefully obtuse. To ask me a stupid questions such as "why don't you just bring her to your house?" is like asking me, why don't you just learn how to fly. You know damn well it's not possible for me, or most people here to take her in. If it were possible, I'd absolutely give her a chance at my home. Her parents failed her miserably. If I had to be the one to show her there are still good people in the world, I'd absolutely do it. But it's not that easy. There are laws, and visas and all that shit to go through. There are ways, HOWEVER, to shed light on this issue and hopefully bring her back to the only home she has known for 15 years.

Somehow I have a feeling what I just said is going to go right over your head.

[Anonymous]

I don't think you can suffer a bigger blow than your own mom giving up on you.

[Anonymous]

Goodness PP, you have posted dozens of times in this thread in support of this girl. We get it. Why don't you do what you can financially or resource wise to help her get back here. You can take her in and support her through college and give her the family that you feel she deserves but didn't get.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She was sent because she was unruly and misbehaving - to put it mildly. Three years later, instead of owning her own mistakes and apologizing for them, she still only gives excuses and blames others - she is still a brat and we have tons of those here already. Good riddance!

I could not have said it better. I'm shocked at the small few of you who are being supportive of the brat of a daughter.

+ 1000

I think you are in the minority here, thankfully. Most of us are supporting the daughter. I'd hate to see that parents like her mother and you are in the majority.

Ok. So put your money where your mouth is. Can she come live with you? Sneak boys into your house? Steal from you? Do drugs in your house?

Boy you are being an idiot.

1) No one suggests that her mom should have allowed her to continue with her disrespectful behavior. You seek counseling, you put up healthy boundaries, you even enter a program. What you don't do is send her off to be someone else's problem. Out of sight, out of mind, right?

2) There are a lot of people involved in trying to help her (including me, in whatever small way I can). There are people who believe that adults in this girl's life have failed her. There is a reason 15 is considered a minor by law. It's because 15 year olds still have a lot of growing up and maturing to do.

Oh ok got it. So as long as she's not directly causing problems in your household, breaking the law and affecting the behavior of the other small children in your house you're all for her being here in the states.

FYI she's no longer 15. She's almost 18 and about to be a 'legal' adult.

Her law breaking almost adult ass should stay in Siberia.

Are you her mother? Again, you are being purposefully obtuse. To ask me a stupid questions such as "why don't you just bring her to your house?" is like asking me, why don't you just learn how to fly. You know damn well it's not possible for me, or most people here to take her in. If it were possible, I'd absolutely give her a chance at my home. Her parents failed her miserably. If I had to be the one to show her there are still good people in the world, I'd absolutely do it. But it's not that easy. There are laws, and visas and all that shit to go through. There are ways, HOWEVER, to shed light on this issue and hopefully bring her back to the only home she has known for 15 years.

Somehow I have a feeling what I just said is going to go right over your head.

You've said enough. I get it. You don't want to deal with the headache and jump through the hoops of brining a non law abiding citizen into the states. Instead you want to you want to act all high and mighty and you want others to take on the burden.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Goodness PP, you have posted dozens of times in this thread in support of this girl. We get it. Why don't you do what you can financially or resource wise to help her get back here. You can take her in and support her through college and give her the family that you feel she deserves but didn't get.

I'm only a one of few who are posting in support of this girl. Nice try though. And I am getting involved to try to help her. How are you spending your time?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Goodness PP, you have posted dozens of times in this thread in support of this girl. We get it. Why don't you do what you can financially or resource wise to help her get back here. You can take her in and support her through college and give her the family that you feel she deserves but didn't get.

I'm only a one of few who are posting in support of this girl. Nice try though. And I am getting involved to try to help her. How are you spending your time?

Give it a rest. You keep posting in support of the girl WE GET IT. The more you go on the more stupid you make your self look.

[Anonymous]

16:39....just like I expected, you have absolutely no clue what I said.