Husband too close to female friend?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't say they have reached a physical relationship, but it is getting close OP. I have been there, and when the DH starts getting upset when you question the texting. You know you have a problem. My DH was stupid enough not to realize that you have to delete texts twice on a android. So I got to see the texts he didn't want me to see. Start digging OP, and take photos of any texts you find so he can't delete them and gas light you. Stay calm and be smart. Act like you don't care, and get him to let his guard down. Call her sometime on his phone while he is sleeping and see what she says when she answers.

No, text her and see what she says. Pretend to be him. Text something sexual. Don't call, then you can't trap her into revealing the truth.

[Anonymous]

I am still waiting to hear the result of the coin flip.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't say they have reached a physical relationship, but it is getting close OP. I have been there, and when the DH starts getting upset when you question the texting. You know you have a problem. My DH was stupid enough not to realize that you have to delete texts twice on a android. So I got to see the texts he didn't want me to see. Start digging OP, and take photos of any texts you find so he can't delete them and gas light you. Stay calm and be smart. Act like you don't care, and get him to let his guard down. Call her sometime on his phone while he is sleeping and see what she says when she answers.

No, text her and see what she says. Pretend to be him. Text something sexual. Don't call, then you can't trap her into revealing the truth.

His phone is password protected and it is a very complicated one. He hardly leaves his phone unattended.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am still waiting to hear the result of the coin flip.

Hi. I did.And it said I should pull my parents in.My mom asked me to wait and not make scene out of it right now. But she said if its blowing my mind I better talk to his parents about it and just come back home. What I am worried now is I am not close to my parents. What if he physically hurts me there is already a lot of mental torture going on. While I am typing this from the bedroom he is out there in the drawing room talking to her over the phone.And i am just not able to do anything else. I dont wanna get into depression.