"Post Secrets" type thread

[Anonymous]

Don't know if this qualifies for this thread, but I named my newborn after my recently deceased nephew. I did it for me, not my sibling, but I do want him to know why we chose the name (it isn't obvious if you didn't know). He is still actively grieving and I haven't even seen him since DC was born to tell him, if I even would have at all. Now they are expecting again and I don't know when is the right time to tell him. I don't want to sound disingenuine by telling him like 5to years down the road.

[Anonymous]

DH believes a lie I told him when we began dating and only one other living person now on earth knows the truth (my sibling).
It isnt a big deal - but it's wrong that he believes this lie and if I ever 'gotwanted caught' I would be mortified.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I was in grad school in London and my bf from school and I were sleeping in her flat in her queen sized bed. It was the wee hours of the morning, as I remember. We had had some drinks earlier but weren't "drunk". I felt my bf's hand gently circling and stroking my nipple for about 5 minutes. I continued to pretend to be asleep. She stopped and then appeared to masturbate next to me for several minutes. She climaxxed and went to sleep. We never spoke of it. I was scheduled to move to my own flat the next day. When we were back in America she was distant and weird and seemed to look for a reason to end the friendship. We had been really close friends since 10th grade and all through her time at a small women's college in VA college. The friendship ended bitterly after 12 years. (I was unable to attend her wedding, she couldn't let it go). She went on to be a member of the joint chiefs of staff for a Republican president. Only she would recognize herself in this story because I have never personally told a living soul these details.

Did the experience make you interested in the other team?

I think we were both somewhat in love at different periods in the friendship. For me it was pure romantic love, not physical. I never felt that way toward a woman again in my life. Mostly, I've never let my guard down enough for even a close female friendship since her. I was really hurt by the way she ended it all. It was a brutal yanking apart of the most intense relationship outside of my family.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When I was in grad school in London and my bf from school and I were sleeping in her flat in her queen sized bed. It was the wee hours of the morning, as I remember. We had had some drinks earlier but weren't "drunk". I felt my bf's hand gently circling and stroking my nipple for about 5 minutes. I continued to pretend to be asleep. She stopped and then appeared to masturbate next to me for several minutes. She climaxxed and went to sleep. We never spoke of it. I was scheduled to move to my own flat the next day. When we were back in America she was distant and weird and seemed to look for a reason to end the friendship. We had been really close friends since 10th grade and all through her time at a small women's college in VA college. The friendship ended bitterly after 12 years. (I was unable to attend her wedding, she couldn't let it go). She went on to be a member of the joint chiefs of staff for a Republican president. Only she would recognize herself in this story because I have never personally told a living soul these details.

It doesn't matter who she is married to --she is gay. This was her way of trying to change your relationship to a sexual one. There was nothing you could have done to save the friendship. Funnily enough, your secret is my fantasy. I was approached several times by women I did not know and rejected them. But in this scenario I surely would have taken the plunge.

[Anonymous]

I was a bully in my early teens. No one stopped me. Now I feel like I need a therapy. I am ashamed and hate myself every time I think of what they had felt.

At the end, I am a good person, parent, spouse, and daughter. Just wish I had been a better kid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I was in grad school in London and my bf from school and I were sleeping in her flat in her queen sized bed. It was the wee hours of the morning, as I remember. We had had some drinks earlier but weren't "drunk". I felt my bf's hand gently circling and stroking my nipple for about 5 minutes. I continued to pretend to be asleep. She stopped and then appeared to masturbate next to me for several minutes. She climaxxed and went to sleep. We never spoke of it. I was scheduled to move to my own flat the next day. When we were back in America she was distant and weird and seemed to look for a reason to end the friendship. We had been really close friends since 10th grade and all through her time at a small women's college in VA college. The friendship ended bitterly after 12 years. (I was unable to attend her wedding, she couldn't let it go). She went on to be a member of the joint chiefs of staff for a Republican president. Only she would recognize herself in this story because I have never personally told a living soul these details.

It doesn't matter who she is married to --she is gay. This was her way of trying to change your relationship to a sexual one. There was nothing you could have done to save the friendship. Funnily enough, your secret is my fantasy. I was approached several times by women I did not know and rejected them. But in this scenario I surely would have taken the plunge.

This is a weird post. There has never been a female member of the joint chiefs of staff. Perhaps OP means something else. But she also seems to want to out this person with references to her job and where she was educated. (Why else give detail like "small women's college in VA"?)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I was in grad school in London and my bf from school and I were sleeping in her flat in her queen sized bed. It was the wee hours of the morning, as I remember. We had had some drinks earlier but weren't "drunk". I felt my bf's hand gently circling and stroking my nipple for about 5 minutes. I continued to pretend to be asleep. She stopped and then appeared to masturbate next to me for several minutes. She climaxxed and went to sleep. We never spoke of it. I was scheduled to move to my own flat the next day. When we were back in America she was distant and weird and seemed to look for a reason to end the friendship. We had been really close friends since 10th grade and all through her time at a small women's college in VA college. The friendship ended bitterly after 12 years. (I was unable to attend her wedding, she couldn't let it go). She went on to be a member of the joint chiefs of staff for a Republican president. Only she would recognize herself in this story because I have never personally told a living soul these details.

It doesn't matter who she is married to --she is gay. This was her way of trying to change your relationship to a sexual one. There was nothing you could have done to save the friendship. Funnily enough, your secret is my fantasy. I was approached several times by women I did not know and rejected them. But in this scenario I surely would have taken the plunge.

Sexuality is rarely that straight forward.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was a bully in my early teens. No one stopped me. Now I feel like I need a therapy. I am ashamed and hate myself every time I think of what they had felt.

At the end, I am a good person, parent, spouse, and daughter. Just wish I had been a better kid.

Great honesty here. Also demonstrates that bullying behavior is just as bad for the aggressor as for the victim(s), something that not alot of people think about.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I was in grad school in London and my bf from school and I were sleeping in her flat in her queen sized bed. It was the wee hours of the morning, as I remember. We had had some drinks earlier but weren't "drunk". I felt my bf's hand gently circling and stroking my nipple for about 5 minutes. I continued to pretend to be asleep. She stopped and then appeared to masturbate next to me for several minutes. She climaxxed and went to sleep. We never spoke of it. I was scheduled to move to my own flat the next day. When we were back in America she was distant and weird and seemed to look for a reason to end the friendship. We had been really close friends since 10th grade and all through her time at a small women's college in VA college. The friendship ended bitterly after 12 years. (I was unable to attend her wedding, she couldn't let it go). She went on to be a member of the joint chiefs of staff for a Republican president. Only she would recognize herself in this story because I have never personally told a living soul these details.

It doesn't matter who she is married to --she is gay. This was her way of trying to change your relationship to a sexual one. There was nothing you could have done to save the friendship. Funnily enough, your secret is my fantasy. I was approached several times by women I did not know and rejected them. But in this scenario I surely would have taken the plunge.

Sexuality is rarely that straight forward.

LOL!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: There has never been a female member of the joint chiefs of staff.

Not true according to the Joint Chiefs of Staff Website.

[Anonymous]

We had been really close friends since 10th grade and all through her time at a small women's college in VA college. The friendship ended bitterly after 12 years. (I was unable to attend her wedding, she couldn't let it go). She went on to be a member of the joint chiefs of staff for a Republican president. Only she would recognize herself in this story because I have never personally told a living soul these details.

This post is incredibly weird in that it is obviously intended to "out" the other woman without directly doing so. What is the purpose of mentioning that the woman attended a "small woman's college in VA" or was a "member of the joint chiefs of staff for a republican president?" Those facts have no relevance to the story.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

We had been really close friends since 10th grade and all through her time at a small women's college in VA college. The friendship ended bitterly after 12 years. (I was unable to attend her wedding, she couldn't let it go). She went on to be a member of the joint chiefs of staff for a Republican president. Only she would recognize herself in this story because I have never personally told a living soul these details.

This post is incredibly weird in that it is obviously intended to "out" the other woman without directly doing so. What is the purpose of mentioning that the woman attended a "small woman's college in VA" or was a "member of the joint chiefs of staff for a republican president?" Those facts have no relevance to the story.

This is DC, baby! People need to brag or name drop in any way they can, even anonymously, without names. Wait, does that make sense???

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote: There has never been a female member of the joint chiefs of staff.

Not true according to the Joint Chiefs of Staff Website.

great
thanks

Now I'm scrolling through bios.

damn you!

[Anonymous]

Me too, lol. Guessing the school might be William & Mary?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I was in grad school in London and my bf from school and I were sleeping in her flat in her queen sized bed. It was the wee hours of the morning, as I remember. We had had some drinks earlier but weren't "drunk". I felt my bf's hand gently circling and stroking my nipple for about 5 minutes. I continued to pretend to be asleep. She stopped and then appeared to masturbate next to me for several minutes. She climaxxed and went to sleep. We never spoke of it. I was scheduled to move to my own flat the next day. When we were back in America she was distant and weird and seemed to look for a reason to end the friendship. We had been really close friends since 10th grade and all through her time at a small women's college in VA college. The friendship ended bitterly after 12 years. (I was unable to attend her wedding, she couldn't let it go). She went on to be a member of the joint chiefs of staff for a Republican president. Only she would recognize herself in this story because I have never personally told a living soul these details.

It doesn't matter who she is married to --she is gay. This was her way of trying to change your relationship to a sexual one. There was nothing you could have done to save the friendship. Funnily enough, your secret is my fantasy. I was approached several times by women I did not know and rejected them. But in this scenario I surely would have taken the plunge.

Sexuality is rarely that straight forward.

LOL!

Is she bi? Also don't a lot of people experiment in college?