"Post Secrets" type thread

[Anonymous]

I am still in love with my ex husband. He turned out not to want kids after a few years of marriage and we got a divorce because I did. I am married to a man that is 1,000 times the dad he ever would have been, but I still don't love him like I do my ex husband.

[Anonymous]

If I had to choose between the kids and my dog, I'd choose my dog.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had a relationship with my high school history teacher. He would have sex with me at school in his office--(oral and mutual masturbation only) from 10th grade until I graduated. It was at a local big 3 school. When I was 15 I was a redhead. As I got older my hair became auburn. We had intercourse once when I came home from college freshman year. He said we couldn't do it anymore because I was no longer a true ginger. True story. For that and many other actual legitimate reasons, including me growing up and moving on, we broke up.

My daughter has red hair. This freaks me out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am still in love with my ex husband. He turned out not to want kids after a few years of marriage and we got a divorce because I did. I am married to a man that is 1,000 times the dad he ever would have been, but I still don't love him like I do my ex husband.

Who marries the man they really love? Don't most women marry the guy who will be the best father? This is no secret.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am still in love with my ex husband. He turned out not to want kids after a few years of marriage and we got a divorce because I did. I am married to a man that is 1,000 times the dad he ever would have been, but I still don't love him like I do my ex husband.

Who marries the man they really love? Don't most women marry the guy who will be the best father? This is no secret.

I did... I married my college sweetheart and he turned out to be a fantastic father, perhaps in some ways, he is even a better parent than I am. But. Life isn't perfect.

[Anonymous]

I want to run away. Leave DH, the kids and the responsibility that goes with being a wife and mother. I love my children but I feel as if I am drowning. They both have special needs and DH works two full time jobs so I can do all the therapies and doctors appointments. I also do all the shopping, housework, bill paying, insurance appeals.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not sure if this counts, but I made it thru school without the basic knowledge most people have. Teachers fawned over me and passed me along to the next. In high school the same thing happened. In college, it was no different. Now that I have kids, I worry about helping them with their homework.

Affirmative action or star athlete?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am still in love with my ex husband. He turned out not to want kids after a few years of marriage and we got a divorce because I did. I am married to a man that is 1,000 times the dad he ever would have been, but I still don't love him like I do my ex husband.

Who marries the man they really love? Don't most women marry the guy who will be the best father? This is no secret.

Really? I married the guy I was dating at the time I was ready to get married, not the man I loved the most or the guy who will be the best father.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If I had to choose between the kids and my dog, I'd choose my dog.

If I was able, I'd ban dogs from the US. Loud, messy, hair everywhere, expensive. Ugh.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I want to run away. Leave DH, the kids and the responsibility that goes with being a wife and mother. I love my children but I feel as if I am drowning. They both have special needs and DH works two full time jobs so I can do all the therapies and doctors appointments. I also do all the shopping, housework, bill paying, insurance appeals.

I'm so sorry. Anyone would feel the way you do. Hugs.

[Anonymous]

A family member's spouse molested me as a teen and I went on to have a sexual relationship with that person.

I feel like shit about it, no need to lecture me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If I had to choose between the kids and my dog, I'd choose my dog.

If I was able, I'd ban dogs from the US. Loud, messy, hair everywhere, expensive. Ugh.

One could argue that the same could be said about kids.

[Anonymous]

11:21 - look around. Do you have any idea what a good (not mediocre) therapist would make around here? TONS.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A family member's spouse molested me as a teen and I went on to have a sexual relationship with that person.

I feel like shit about it, no need to lecture me.

No lectures, hugs only. ((()))

[Anonymous]

I think my DD's BF is cute and used to creep his FB pictures.