Do you think feminism has been a net positive or net negative for relationships?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For me it’s been an absolute net positive. It helped me to open my eyes to how lame so many men are, and how they aren’t worth my time. Once my eyes were opened there was no turning back. No amount of propaganda in the world will turn me back. Call me a bitter old cat lady all you want. I could care less.

I live a life filled with peace and contentment. I go where I want to go, when I want to go. I have an amazing career that brings me job and pays big bucks. It’s an area that’s supposed to for men. But so what…. I like money too. I have fabulous group of friends, a beloved cat, and a boy toy to meet physical needs who I NEVER let live with me and start dirtying up my house.

Eh. I get where you’re coming from and I’ve met bitter women like you, you are going to believe what you’ve convinced yourself is true. But feminism and a high powered career and independence are not mutually exclusive. It’s about finding the right partner and building a life with them and still globetrotting, making money and climbing ranks. Oh and also having a family. You made a trade off that you felt you had to make at the time and have settled into a belief system now 20 years later. I may or may not have climbed as high as you did this is an anonymous board but I had my family while also having access to the corporate jet. Both are possible.

There must be some sex-linked mental illness that has so many men unable to comprehend why a woman with options don't want a lazy, untidy, hateful 200lb lout who sucks in bed and drains the household resources. What is bitter about being a rational actor who sees an unattractive parasite and says "hell no"?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It really depends on what you consider “feminism”.

Negatives (I concede that many people here disagree and don’t consider these as negative):
More fatherless children
More promiscuous sexual behaviors
Lower levels of happiness, especially among women
Lower birth rates
DEI
Proliferation and normalization of prostitution and pornography
Insane social justice nonsense

Positives:
Higher GDP per capita
Access Larger talent pools
Larger workforce
Economic self-determination for women
Higher income households for dual earner households
Less pressure on men to be sole provider for a household

I have some terrible news for you about ancient Rome.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Feminism brought women choices, so they didn't have to stay in abusive marriages, could own property, have any job (not just nurses and teachers), and the ability to choose to have a baby or not: the same rights white men have always had.

100% positive

all that happened before feminism.

Untrue. Look up what years it became illegal to beat your wife, what years spousal rape became a crime, and what years women were allowed to own assets and have credit in their own name.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Feminism brought women choices, so they didn't have to stay in abusive marriages, could own property, have any job (not just nurses and teachers), and the ability to choose to have a baby or not: the same rights white men have always had.

100% positive

all that happened before feminism.

Untrue. Look up what years it became illegal to beat your wife, what years spousal rape became a crime, and what years women were allowed to own assets and have credit in their own name.

You are right PP

Some people are so stupid nowadays

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Feminism brought women choices, so they didn't have to stay in abusive marriages, could own property, have any job (not just nurses and teachers), and the ability to choose to have a baby or not: the same rights white men have always had.

100% positive

all that happened before feminism.

Untrue. Look up what years it became illegal to beat your wife, what years spousal rape became a crime, and what years women were allowed to own assets and have credit in their own name.

1800s
1800s
1800s

Guess when feminism was created to keep women "in their place" meaning single wage slaves and taxpayer slaves? 1920s

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It really depends on what you consider “feminism”.

Negatives (I concede that many people here disagree and don’t consider these as negative):
More fatherless children
More promiscuous sexual behaviors
Lower levels of happiness, especially among women
Lower birth rates
DEI
Proliferation and normalization of prostitution and pornography
Insane social justice nonsense

Positives:
Higher GDP per capita
Access Larger talent pools
Larger workforce
Economic self-determination for women
Higher income households for dual earner households
Less pressure on men to be sole provider for a household

I have some terrible news for you about ancient Rome.

Feminism has ensured that women also have time to contemplate Ancient Rome every day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Feminism brought women choices, so they didn't have to stay in abusive marriages, could own property, have any job (not just nurses and teachers), and the ability to choose to have a baby or not: the same rights white men have always had.

100% positive

all that happened before feminism.

Untrue. Look up what years it became illegal to beat your wife, what years spousal rape became a crime, and what years women were allowed to own assets and have credit in their own name.

1800s
1800s
1800s

Guess when feminism was created to keep women "in their place" meaning single wage slaves and taxpayer slaves? 1920s

You’re going to need t return to school and demand they do better by you. Truly you’re a victim here.

All of those things were legal in at least parts of the US into the 1970’s. 1993 for spousal rape.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It really depends on what you consider “feminism”.

Negatives (I concede that many people here disagree and don’t consider these as negative):
More fatherless children
More promiscuous sexual behaviors
Lower levels of happiness, especially among women
Lower birth rates
DEI
Proliferation and normalization of prostitution and pornography
Insane social justice nonsense

Positives:
Higher GDP per capita
Access Larger talent pools
Larger workforce
Economic self-determination for women
Higher income households for dual earner households
Less pressure on men to be sole provider for a household

I have some terrible news for you about ancient Rome.

Feminism has ensured that women also have time to contemplate Ancient Rome every day.

You win the internet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Feminism brought women choices, so they didn't have to stay in abusive marriages, could own property, have any job (not just nurses and teachers), and the ability to choose to have a baby or not: the same rights white men have always had.

100% positive

all that happened before feminism.

Untrue. Look up what years it became illegal to beat your wife, what years spousal rape became a crime, and what years women were allowed to own assets and have credit in their own name.

1800s
1800s
1800s

Guess when feminism was created to keep women "in their place" meaning single wage slaves and taxpayer slaves? 1920s

So you're too lazy to google?

The first modern DV laws didn't start until the 1980s.

https://www.findlaw.com/family/domestic-violence/domestic-violence-background.html

Marital rape was fully legal until the 1970s and not outlawed in every state until 1993.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marital_rape_in_the_United_States

Discrimination against women in opening bank and credit card accounts wasn't illegal until 1974.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Equal_Credit_Opportunity_Act

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It really depends on what you consider “feminism”.

Negatives (I concede that many people here disagree and don’t consider these as negative):
More fatherless children
More promiscuous sexual behaviors
Lower levels of happiness, especially among women
Lower birth rates
DEI
Proliferation and normalization of prostitution and pornography
Insane social justice nonsense

Positives:
Higher GDP per capita
Access Larger talent pools
Larger workforce
Economic self-determination for women
Higher income households for dual earner households
Less pressure on men to be sole provider for a household

I have some terrible news for you about ancient Rome.

Women were barely above slaves in ancient Rome. Two societies with horrible men have a pornography problem in common? What a surprise!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It really depends on what you consider “feminism”.

Negatives (I concede that many people here disagree and don’t consider these as negative):
More fatherless children
More promiscuous sexual behaviors
Lower levels of happiness, especially among women
Lower birth rates
DEI
Proliferation and normalization of prostitution and pornography
Insane social justice nonsense

Positives:
Higher GDP per capita
Access Larger talent pools
Larger workforce
Economic self-determination for women
Higher income households for dual earner households
Less pressure on men to be sole provider for a household

I have some terrible news for you about ancient Rome.

Women were barely above slaves in ancient Rome. Two societies with horrible men have a pornography problem in common? What a surprise!

My point was we can hardly blame feminism for the legal prostitution and pornography in ancient Rome, as the PP is trying to do presently.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Feminism brought women choices, so they didn't have to stay in abusive marriages, could own property, have any job (not just nurses and teachers), and the ability to choose to have a baby or not: the same rights white men have always had.

100% positive

all that happened before feminism.

Untrue. Look up what years it became illegal to beat your wife, what years spousal rape became a crime, and what years women were allowed to own assets and have credit in their own name.

1800s
1800s
1800s

Guess when feminism was created to keep women "in their place" meaning single wage slaves and taxpayer slaves? 1920s

So you're too lazy to google?

The first modern DV laws didn't start until the 1980s.

https://www.findlaw.com/family/domestic-violence/domestic-violence-background.html

Marital rape was fully legal until the 1970s and not outlawed in every state until 1993.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marital_rape_in_the_United_States

Discrimination against women in opening bank and credit card accounts wasn't illegal until 1974.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Equal_Credit_Opportunity_Act

Oh you sweet summer child.

I mean if you think Google is lying about when DV laws were passed, I would highly recommend seeing a physician about your paranoid delusions.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Feminism brought women choices, so they didn't have to stay in abusive marriages, could own property, have any job (not just nurses and teachers), and the ability to choose to have a baby or not: the same rights white men have always had.

100% positive

all that happened before feminism.

Untrue. Look up what years it became illegal to beat your wife, what years spousal rape became a crime, and what years women were allowed to own assets and have credit in their own name.

1800s
1800s
1800s

Guess when feminism was created to keep women "in their place" meaning single wage slaves and taxpayer slaves? 1920s

So you're too lazy to google

Ironic how you claim to be a feminist, yet you blindly and obediently believe everything you are told online by misogynist corporations.

Really?

Why do you find this to be the case?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It really depends on what you consider “feminism”.

Negatives (I concede that many people here disagree and don’t consider these as negative):
More fatherless children
More promiscuous sexual behaviors
Lower levels of happiness, especially among women
Lower birth rates
DEI
Proliferation and normalization of prostitution and pornography
Insane social justice nonsense

Positives:
Higher GDP per capita
Access Larger talent pools
Larger workforce
Economic self-determination for women
Higher income households for dual earner households
Less pressure on men to be sole provider for a household

I have some terrible news for you about ancient Rome.

Women were barely above slaves in ancient Rome. Two societies with horrible men have a pornography problem in common? What a surprise!

Those darn seductive statues!
You sound bitter. Maybe get into shape for once, drop the naggy grouchy demeanor, lose the lesbian short hair, and men might pay attention to you and make you more joyful.

Like most women nowadays, I'd much rather have no attention at all from the likes of you. You can die mad about it.

You are the one lashing out, constantly replying with nonsense and wanting attention. I'd say you have some issues.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It really depends on what you consider “feminism”.

Negatives (I concede that many people here disagree and don’t consider these as negative):
More fatherless children
More promiscuous sexual behaviors
Lower levels of happiness, especially among women
Lower birth rates
DEI
Proliferation and normalization of prostitution and pornography
Insane social justice nonsense

Positives:
Higher GDP per capita
Access Larger talent pools
Larger workforce
Economic self-determination for women
Higher income households for dual earner households
Less pressure on men to be sole provider for a household

I have some terrible news for you about ancient Rome.

Women were barely above slaves in ancient Rome. Two societies with horrible men have a pornography problem in common? What a surprise!

My point was we can hardly blame feminism for the legal prostitution and pornography in ancient Rome, as the PP is trying to do presently.

Oh, my apologies, I didn't read that idiot's post.

Pretty sure we're dealing with someone with schizophrenia or some form of paranoid delusions at this point, not just dumb.