Do you think feminism has been a net positive or net negative for relationships?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:One argument against feminism is that it has damaged the family structure. By getting rid of traditional gender roles, it has caused confusion about roles, placed unrealistic expectations on women, and pushed men away, all while prioritizing personal goals over family stability.

Maybe you should rethink how you apply feminism in your life. It’s been great for mine household. We have 2 fully engaged parents who can do everything for the kids, not just one. Literally we have redundancy built into the family structure so it’s stronger, not weaker.

Yes, feminism means Dads spend more time with their kids. Millennial Dads spend about three times as much time with their children than previous generations.

Surely that's unequivocally good. Kids getting more Dad time, Dads getting more bonded with their kids.

https://www.mother.ly/parenting/millennial-dads-spend-more-time-with-their-kids/

I mean, why would a man want to have kids and then never see them?

[Anonymous]

Net positive. Women doesn’t have to settle for terrible men to survive. Men not being able to keep up is not women’s fault. They need to adapt or women will just stay single.

[Anonymous]

Feminism in general is a right wing PSYOP to destroy relationships, so you do the math.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:For me it’s been an absolute net positive. It helped me to open my eyes to how lame so many men are, and how they aren’t worth my time. Once my eyes were opened there was no turning back. No amount of propaganda in the world will turn me back. Call me a bitter old cat lady all you want. I could care less.

I live a life filled with peace and contentment. I go where I want to go, when I want to go. I have an amazing career that brings me job and pays big bucks. It’s an area that’s supposed to for men. But so what…. I like money too. I have fabulous group of friends, a beloved cat, and a boy toy to meet physical needs who I NEVER let live with me and start dirtying up my house.

Not clear how old you are but this is just too much. relationships are adjustments and compromise as I am sure you living with yourself would find a few things annoying too. LOL

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:One argument against feminism is that it has damaged the family structure. By getting rid of traditional gender roles, it has caused confusion about roles, placed unrealistic expectations on women, and pushed men away, all while prioritizing personal goals over family stability.

Maybe you should rethink how you apply feminism in your life. It’s been great for mine household. We have 2 fully engaged parents who can do everything for the kids, not just one. Literally we have redundancy built into the family structure so it’s stronger, not weaker.

Yes, feminism means Dads spend more time with their kids.

To get away from the harpy nasty feminist Karen wife?

[Anonymous]

Everyone understands feminism and act on it in their own way. Does it mean that you could be mean or rude to people then it is not a positive. I have found lots of women in my friends circle use feminism to throw shades at their ex-bf or husband when we can clearly they are either part of the problem or very controlling. Feminism also expects you to respect others in the same way as you expect them to do to you but a lot of women confuse it with extra superpower to control and push men down however they want. Taking advantage of someone because of a situation, or belief is very sad thing to see.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:One argument against feminism is that it has damaged the family structure. By getting rid of traditional gender roles, it has caused confusion about roles, placed unrealistic expectations on women, and pushed men away, all while prioritizing personal goals over family stability.

Yes, feminism will always push you towards breaking the families and thinking for your own self even if that means great generational damage to the family. I have also seen some of the women want more custody because they feel entitled of it even when father is very involved and willing to do 50/50. Horrible.

[Anonymous]

Feminism brought women choices, so they didn't have to stay in abusive marriages, could own property, have any job (not just nurses and teachers), and the ability to choose to have a baby or not: the same rights white men have always had.

100% positive

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Feminism brought women choices, so they didn't have to stay in abusive marriages, could own property, have any job (not just nurses and teachers), and the ability to choose to have a baby or not: the same rights white men have always had.

100% positive

all that happened before feminism.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I do think there are some positives, but I worry it’s pushed women to prioritize careers over marriage and children.

Why is it wrong for women to prioritize financial independence and personal fulfillment over marriage and children? Don't men do the same? Or is it that you think women should be a servile class at men's disposal?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Feminism brought women choices, so they didn't have to stay in abusive marriages, could own property, have any job (not just nurses and teachers), and the ability to choose to have a baby or not: the same rights white men have always had.

100% positive

All of this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:One argument against feminism is that it has damaged the family structure. By getting rid of traditional gender roles, it has caused confusion about roles, placed unrealistic expectations on women, and pushed men away, all while prioritizing personal goals over family stability.

Was it feminism that damaged the family structure or the fact that most men are selfish, parasitic, and deeply unpleasant narcissists who bring unhappiness to women? No one sane discards a good thing. The prevalence of women opting out of playing legally-chained bangmaid to men reflects on men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:For me it’s been an absolute net positive. It helped me to open my eyes to how lame so many men are, and how they aren’t worth my time. Once my eyes were opened there was no turning back. No amount of propaganda in the world will turn me back. Call me a bitter old cat lady all you want. I could care less.

I live a life filled with peace and contentment. I go where I want to go, when I want to go. I have an amazing career that brings me job and pays big bucks. It’s an area that’s supposed to for men. But so what…. I like money too. I have fabulous group of friends, a beloved cat, and a boy toy to meet physical needs who I NEVER let live with me and start dirtying up my house.

+1000 After waiting what felt like 10 life sentences in Alcatraz for my kids to grow up enough, I'm FINALLY divorcing the useless nitwit who fake and lied his way into marriage to me. I will never, ever again let anything with a Y chromosome share a home with me, much less let one call himself my husband. That thing between their legs is all most men want to be good for and even then most of them don't even know how to use it. Just a disgraceful, miserable bunch.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think men who blame feminism for them being single are really telling in themselves. If you're so unappealing to women that you think the solution is to restrict women's freedoms, that's a pretty grim assessment of yourself as a potential partner.

And imagine what it says that these hairy losers are too stupid to realize that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Negative. Feminism has moved from equal opportunity to we are all the same. It is creating confused and weak men or removing men completely from the family. That is bad in my opinion.

Women should not be considered property and should be treated with respect. Same goes for men.

Feminism is creating confused and weak men? You have your causation backwards, honey. Confused and weak men are why women couldn't rely on the penis-having half of humanity and needed feminism.