How to tell DH I want him to be more dominant?

[Anonymous]

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Would you mind commenting honestly about his porn use? I’ve just realized that 95% of men seem to think it’s normal to do it at least sometimes.

This just tells you that 95% of men (and certainly 95% of married men) aren’t getting the amount of sex they want from their wives/girlfriends. Men turn to porn because you’re denying them sex or making it a huge unfun hassle.

Men may not be getting the amount they want, but women aren’t getting the kind they want. And if they get the kind they want, then they want it every day.

Men are better and more adventurous when they are having sex often. Also if the woman doesn’t act like sex is her job.

This is not my experience at all. The more time goes on, the lazier men get in bed. Surely women do too, but not as much as men, and men set the tone… like it or lump it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The modern man has been lied to. He has been tricked into embracing his so called "feminine side" by the modern woman who is now self sufficient and sees a man as a project to fix. Sorry there is nothing feminine that's good for a man.

I’m not advocating NOT listening to women but when it comes to dating, who they choose as partners and sex partners, the things they say completely contradict their actions.

Its hard to go wrong with money, muscles, height and a big dick. She’ll complaining about you to the sensitive guy who will listen. Then, its back to f’ng her man.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Would you mind commenting honestly about his porn use? I’ve just realized that 95% of men seem to think it’s normal to do it at least sometimes.

This just tells you that 95% of men (and certainly 95% of married men) aren’t getting the amount of sex they want from their wives/girlfriends. Men turn to porn because you’re denying them sex or making it a huge unfun hassle.

Men may not be getting the amount they want, but women aren’t getting the kind they want. And if they get the kind they want, then they want it every day.

Men are better and more adventurous when they are having sex often. Also if the woman doesn’t act like sex is her job.

This is not my experience at all. The more time goes on, the lazier men get in bed. Surely women do too, but not as much as men, and men set the tone… like it or lump it.

Doesn't sound very feminist.

[Anonymous]

Tell him. Be clear what you want.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Would you mind commenting honestly about his porn use? I’ve just realized that 95% of men seem to think it’s normal to do it at least sometimes.

This just tells you that 95% of men (and certainly 95% of married men) aren’t getting the amount of sex they want from their wives/girlfriends. Men turn to porn because you’re denying them sex or making it a huge unfun hassle.

Men may not be getting the amount they want, but women aren’t getting the kind they want. And if they get the kind they want, then they want it every day.

Men are better and more adventurous when they are having sex often. Also if the woman doesn’t act like sex is her job.

This is not my experience at all. The more time goes on, the lazier men get in bed. Surely women do too, but not as much as men, and men set the tone… like it or lump it.

Doesn't sound very feminist.

People are confused about feminism and sex. Just be a man and lead at least 50% of the time FFS. Women are tired of doing every fricking thing for you milquetoast losers.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Would you mind commenting honestly about his porn use? I’ve just realized that 95% of men seem to think it’s normal to do it at least sometimes.

This just tells you that 95% of men (and certainly 95% of married men) aren’t getting the amount of sex they want from their wives/girlfriends. Men turn to porn because you’re denying them sex or making it a huge unfun hassle.

Men may not be getting the amount they want, but women aren’t getting the kind they want. And if they get the kind they want, then they want it every day.

Men are better and more adventurous when they are having sex often. Also if the woman doesn’t act like sex is her job.

This is not my experience at all. The more time goes on, the lazier men get in bed. Surely women do too, but not as much as men, and men set the tone… like it or lump it.

Doesn't sound very feminist.

People are confused about feminism and sex. Just be a man and lead at least 50% of the time FFS. Women are tired of doing every fricking thing for you milquetoast losers.

Then don’t comment on, judge or critique everything a man does or how he does it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Would you mind commenting honestly about his porn use? I’ve just realized that 95% of men seem to think it’s normal to do it at least sometimes.

This just tells you that 95% of men (and certainly 95% of married men) aren’t getting the amount of sex they want from their wives/girlfriends. Men turn to porn because you’re denying them sex or making it a huge unfun hassle.

Men may not be getting the amount they want, but women aren’t getting the kind they want. And if they get the kind they want, then they want it every day.

Men are better and more adventurous when they are having sex often. Also if the woman doesn’t act like sex is her job.

This is not my experience at all. The more time goes on, the lazier men get in bed. Surely women do too, but not as much as men, and men set the tone… like it or lump it.

Doesn't sound very feminist.

People are confused about feminism and sex. Just be a man and lead at least 50% of the time FFS. Women are tired of doing every fricking thing for you milquetoast losers.

Woman here, but why? Women can initiate and men LOVE it when you do initiate. Not nagging, but be more sexually aggressive.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Would you mind commenting honestly about his porn use? I’ve just realized that 95% of men seem to think it’s normal to do it at least sometimes.

This just tells you that 95% of men (and certainly 95% of married men) aren’t getting the amount of sex they want from their wives/girlfriends. Men turn to porn because you’re denying them sex or making it a huge unfun hassle.

Men may not be getting the amount they want, but women aren’t getting the kind they want. And if they get the kind they want, then they want it every day.

Men are better and more adventurous when they are having sex often. Also if the woman doesn’t act like sex is her job.

This is not my experience at all. The more time goes on, the lazier men get in bed. Surely women do too, but not as much as men, and men set the tone… like it or lump it.

Doesn't sound very feminist.

People are confused about feminism and sex. Just be a man and lead at least 50% of the time FFS. Women are tired of doing every fricking thing for you milquetoast losers.

Woman here, but why? Women can initiate and men LOVE it when you do initiate. Not nagging, but be more sexually aggressive.

Note how I left 50% of the time for her? I’m happy to be assertive, but if he’s not matching it with the same energy (read: 50/50) then it’s a turnoff.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Would you mind commenting honestly about his porn use? I’ve just realized that 95% of men seem to think it’s normal to do it at least sometimes.

This just tells you that 95% of men (and certainly 95% of married men) aren’t getting the amount of sex they want from their wives/girlfriends. Men turn to porn because you’re denying them sex or making it a huge unfun hassle.

Men may not be getting the amount they want, but women aren’t getting the kind they want. And if they get the kind they want, then they want it every day.

Men are better and more adventurous when they are having sex often. Also if the woman doesn’t act like sex is her job.

This is not my experience at all. The more time goes on, the lazier men get in bed. Surely women do too, but not as much as men, and men set the tone… like it or lump it.

Doesn't sound very feminist.

People are confused about feminism and sex. Just be a man and lead at least 50% of the time FFS. Women are tired of doing every fricking thing for you milquetoast losers.

Woman here, but why? Women can initiate and men LOVE it when you do initiate. Not nagging, but be more sexually aggressive.

Note how I left 50% of the time for her? I’m happy to be assertive, but if he’s not matching it with the same energy (read: 50/50) then it’s a turnoff.

Keeping tabs is petty and huge turnoff for men and women alike.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Would you mind commenting honestly about his porn use? I’ve just realized that 95% of men seem to think it’s normal to do it at least sometimes.

This just tells you that 95% of men (and certainly 95% of married men) aren’t getting the amount of sex they want from their wives/girlfriends. Men turn to porn because you’re denying them sex or making it a huge unfun hassle.

Men may not be getting the amount they want, but women aren’t getting the kind they want. And if they get the kind they want, then they want it every day.

Men are better and more adventurous when they are having sex often. Also if the woman doesn’t act like sex is her job.

This is not my experience at all. The more time goes on, the lazier men get in bed. Surely women do too, but not as much as men, and men set the tone… like it or lump it.

Doesn't sound very feminist.

People are confused about feminism and sex. Just be a man and lead at least 50% of the time FFS. Women are tired of doing every fricking thing for you milquetoast losers.

Woman here, but why? Women can initiate and men LOVE it when you do initiate. Not nagging, but be more sexually aggressive.

Note how I left 50% of the time for her? I’m happy to be assertive, but if he’s not matching it with the same energy (read: 50/50) then it’s a turnoff.

Keeping tabs is petty and huge turnoff for men and women alike.

big difference between keeping tabs and both partners doing roughly their part.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Would you mind commenting honestly about his porn use? I’ve just realized that 95% of men seem to think it’s normal to do it at least sometimes.

This just tells you that 95% of men (and certainly 95% of married men) aren’t getting the amount of sex they want from their wives/girlfriends. Men turn to porn because you’re denying them sex or making it a huge unfun hassle.

Men may not be getting the amount they want, but women aren’t getting the kind they want. And if they get the kind they want, then they want it every day.

Men are better and more adventurous when they are having sex often. Also if the woman doesn’t act like sex is her job.

This is not my experience at all. The more time goes on, the lazier men get in bed. Surely women do too, but not as much as men, and men set the tone… like it or lump it.

Doesn't sound very feminist.

People are confused about feminism and sex. Just be a man and lead at least 50% of the time FFS. Women are tired of doing every fricking thing for you milquetoast losers.

Woman here, but why? Women can initiate and men LOVE it when you do initiate. Not nagging, but be more sexually aggressive.

Note how I left 50% of the time for her? I’m happy to be assertive, but if he’s not matching it with the same energy (read: 50/50) then it’s a turnoff.

Keeping tabs is petty and huge turnoff for men and women alike.

Men don’t like “keeping tabs” because they’re lazy AF and don’t like to get called on it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Would you mind commenting honestly about his porn use? I’ve just realized that 95% of men seem to think it’s normal to do it at least sometimes.

This just tells you that 95% of men (and certainly 95% of married men) aren’t getting the amount of sex they want from their wives/girlfriends. Men turn to porn because you’re denying them sex or making it a huge unfun hassle.

Men may not be getting the amount they want, but women aren’t getting the kind they want. And if they get the kind they want, then they want it every day.

Men are better and more adventurous when they are having sex often. Also if the woman doesn’t act like sex is her job.

This is not my experience at all. The more time goes on, the lazier men get in bed. Surely women do too, but not as much as men, and men set the tone… like it or lump it.

Doesn't sound very feminist.

People are confused about feminism and sex. Just be a man and lead at least 50% of the time FFS. Women are tired of doing every fricking thing for you milquetoast losers.

Woman here, but why? Women can initiate and men LOVE it when you do initiate. Not nagging, but be more sexually aggressive.

Note how I left 50% of the time for her? I’m happy to be assertive, but if he’s not matching it with the same energy (read: 50/50) then it’s a turnoff.

Keeping tabs is petty and huge turnoff for men and women alike.

Men don’t like “keeping tabs” because they’re lazy AF and don’t like to get called on it.

Keeping tabs is about the unsexiest thing ever - for both sexes

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Would you mind commenting honestly about his porn use? I’ve just realized that 95% of men seem to think it’s normal to do it at least sometimes.

This just tells you that 95% of men (and certainly 95% of married men) aren’t getting the amount of sex they want from their wives/girlfriends. Men turn to porn because you’re denying them sex or making it a huge unfun hassle.

Men may not be getting the amount they want, but women aren’t getting the kind they want. And if they get the kind they want, then they want it every day.

Men are better and more adventurous when they are having sex often. Also if the woman doesn’t act like sex is her job.

This is not my experience at all. The more time goes on, the lazier men get in bed. Surely women do too, but not as much as men, and men set the tone… like it or lump it.

Doesn't sound very feminist.

People are confused about feminism and sex. Just be a man and lead at least 50% of the time FFS. Women are tired of doing every fricking thing for you milquetoast losers.

Woman here, but why? Women can initiate and men LOVE it when you do initiate. Not nagging, but be more sexually aggressive.

Note how I left 50% of the time for her? I’m happy to be assertive, but if he’s not matching it with the same energy (read: 50/50) then it’s a turnoff.

Keeping tabs is petty and huge turnoff for men and women alike.

Men don’t like “keeping tabs” because they’re lazy AF and don’t like to get called on it.

Keeping tabs is about the unsexiest thing ever - for both sexes

And yet “she’s mad so she told me her entire list of things she’s been mad about ever since the start of the relationship” is every woman ever.

[Anonymous]

I've never known a woman to initiate 50% of the time or anywhere near it. She shouldn't have to and if she does, there is probably something wrong.

[Anonymous]

Tell someone to be something else is a sure fire way to create conflict. You can have a conversation about it but he gets a say too. One person doesn’t get to order the other person to do what they want in the bedroom regardless of how the other person feels.

Ask him how he would feel about taking on a more dominant role, explain you would like to explore a different dynamic and ask him if can he see himself in that dynamic. Go from there.