Divorce when kids go to college

[Anonymous]

Don’t need it after crass. Check for yourself

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don’t need it after crass. Check for yourself

Needs a comma.

[Anonymous]

So, when is the "best" time to get divorced is your kids are 23 months and two grades apart? Oh, and keep in mind the kids aren;t supposed to think you're staying together for them.

[Anonymous]

No time is good, but staying in a bad marriage also causes damage to the kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am OP and nothing was flippant about my post. It is a genuine question for people that have been there in life. It is where I see my marriage, the end zone is them getting to college then we are both done, my marriage needs work and spouse has no interest in making it a better and I am at the point that I no longer want to either.

This has been 3-4 years coming and now that we are almost empty nesters I want a plan. And I want to think through the variables.

How are you going to handle the financials of getting them through college? I think it's better to wait until they have all graduated from college. While they're out of the house, live separate lives under one roof.

[Anonymous]

Separate when they go to college, divorce after

[Anonymous]

It super important to make your college student ciod your long-distance emotional replacement for your newly departed spouse.

It's truly the best way to maximize RoI on college tuition and boarding.

Ask me how I know