Why have you cut off friends?
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Anonymous
They are by defintion closeminded. It is their way or the hoghway. And that's why they lost. No one buys the Trump voters are racist shite excpet them. |
Anonymous
Not a rapist. But keep lying. It shows us who you are. |
Anonymous
| I’ve cut off two friends in my life - one male, one female. They were both emotional vampires who would not respect boundaries. I tried really hard to slow fade with both of them, but neither got the hint. |
Anonymous
Still thinking about who would prefer an "insane" president to an "empty psy op". |
Anonymous
^^^ I’ve cut off people that talk like this |
Anonymous
| Gossip habit. |
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Only time I’ve cut off a friend is when my super religious former best friend would not speak to my gay daughter because it’s against her beliefs.
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PP and I also cut contact with a close friend when she began to discipline my DC in my presence and generally became haughty and critical.
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Anonymous
| I cut a friend off who knew about my husband's affair with a mutual friend and didn't tell me. I considered her a close friend too. Now I can't trust her, and who wants to be friends with someone you can't trust? |
Anonymous
| I have kept my distance from difficult people, but the only person I’ve actually gone no contact with was someone who seemed nice but engaged in intentional crazy-making. Like contacting me all the time, then disappearing for a week, then reappearing like nothing happened. Then making plans for Wednesday, failing to show up, then saying I thought you said Thursday!!! Saying they loved coffee, then you get them a coffee and they say they don’t drink coffee. Total waste of time. Then I tried to distance myself and the person doubled down on contacting me. I had to say that I wished them well but it’s for the best if we don’t remain in contact. Then they tried to contact me again, and I blocked everywhere. Still don’t understand why someone would behave like that. |
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She said anyone not fighting against Covid vaccinations was against her family and their freedom.
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Anonymous
| Supported someone who received 0, count them 0, votes in the primary election. If you’re that un American, stay away from me. Bye ma! Have fun with your dementia patient poser. |
Anonymous
| Slow fade works .. |
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I fade out all drama lamas. Don't need them.
I distanced myself from all Trump voters, including my family. |
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In college I had a friend freshman year who was a lot of fun but increasingly seemed unstable and unwell (like maybe abusing alcohol or drugs). She didn’t return to college sophomore year and didn’t tell anyone or say goodbye. I hadn’t been brave enough to live alone and my other friends paired off so I was supposed to be her roommate and found out I was living with a transfer student when that student called me a few days before school started. The woman I was supposed to live with then called me in the middle of the semester when she had to return to campus for a legal case. I was terrified she’d ask me to be a character witnesses and I just told her I thought it would be best if we kept our distance. I was in tears and my roommate - who wasn’t on the best terms with me - very kindly called my boyfriend (now husband) to come support me.
I have another friend who I’ve distanced myself from because we met while volunteering and she seemed great. She’s interesting and a lot of fun but she really wanted to insert herself into my life and the kids’ lives quickly. Like she asked if my 4 year old could have a sleep over with her. It might have been out of a good place offering me a night off, but I definitely didn’t know her well enough for that. For instance I hadn’t met her husband. My husband especially really questioned her judgement. I was trying to figure out how to get some distance, but she moved far away. I wish her the best but also am glad for the naturally created space. |