Son’s Suitemate Acting Erratically

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Social pressure / shame is a big motivator in China. I would find a way to get in contact with the parents to let them know what is happening.
Even more effective is posting it on Chinese social media Weibo, QQ or Douyin. The authorities are fairly concerned about Chinese social behavior abroad and may pressure the parents to deal with it.

Don't do this. I'd move my kid out of the dorm before trying this. Losing face might to make him commit suicide or murder-suicide.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Social pressure / shame is a big motivator in China. I would find a way to get in contact with the parents to let them know what is happening.
Even more effective is posting it on Chinese social media Weibo, QQ or Douyin. The authorities are fairly concerned about Chinese social behavior abroad and may pressure the parents to deal with it.

Don't do this. I'd move my kid out of the dorm before trying this. Losing face might to make him commit suicide or murder-suicide.

OK. That sounds prudent.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would be concerned too and my college kid would certainly be stressed too but you really will get further if you begin speaking about this as a likely mental health crisis rather than him being a “sexual predator.” Maybe he’s a completely sane serial exhibitionist but it’s probably much more likely he’s in the midst of a serious psychiatric episode, possibly for the first time. All that is true AND it’s normal that your son is uncomfortable and wants a change.

The university has history for expelling a mentally-ill student and letting him loose on the community, where he promptly started murdering people. They care about mental health until they don’t anymore and it’s someone else’s problem. They are probably being sued right now over the deaths of people two years ago, but the settlements will be chump change to the state university system.

What university is this?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You want a kid deported for masturbation (albeit in public)?
Is the kid doing drugs?

Last I checked it was against the law to do so. So yeah, someone masturbating in lobby of a dorm should be sent home. You can’t just be a pervert where ever you like because you feel like it.

[Anonymous]

I feet this is an anti immigrant made up story. People do crazy things before election.

[Anonymous]

Sorry- I’d b up in the administrations face with this sh@t. Culturally they don’t get mental health help because it’s such a stigma and was the case with VT mass shooting.

I would not fk around. Report and pressure and I’d get my kid out if that dorm room.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I feet this is an anti immigrant made up story. People do crazy things before election.

It might be. Also anti-trans. Knowing the university would be helpful if there was a previous incident.