Locker Room Teasing

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would have him ask the other kids why they are looking at his underwear. I’d tell him to say that’s a weird thing to be looking at.

I agree with this comment. He can say : “stop staring”
This is how to maintain what you are, what you want to wear. They laughed at what he is wearing, fine, they already laughed.
Now they can no longer laugh. And since he can say things such as that is not their business. He can also say if any of them make such a comment again, that he will report them. Make sure everyone hears it. Cause pay day is coming

I hope this is satire.

If not, I’m starting to think that the boys who take social advice from their mommies are the ones being bullied.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would have him ask the other kids why they are looking at his underwear. I’d tell him to say that’s a weird thing to be looking at.

Never do this. Kids can smell "mom gave me a retort" and double their efforts.

Call them gay then , bullies deserve to be bullied back then

Yeah, calling someone “gay” can get you in trouble. I’d say it’s the ultimate win for the bully kid if he gets to make fun of your kid, then gets to report him for making homophobic slurs.

[Anonymous]

how is this thread 6 pages long?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would have him ask the other kids why they are looking at his underwear. I’d tell him to say that’s a weird thing to be looking at.

Never do this. Kids can smell "mom gave me a retort" and double their efforts.

Call them gay then , bullies deserve to be bullied back then

Yeah, calling someone “gay” can get you in trouble. I’d say it’s the ultimate win for the bully kid if he gets to make fun of your kid, then gets to report him for making homophobic slurs.

Thanks , well then what do you say if you were this boy? :”straight guys don’t stare” ?

Do you think saying :” what are you looking at?” is an alternative hint

[Anonymous]

There’s not much degrees of separation. Here

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tell him it takes about a month to adjust to something new. So buy the softest ones you can find that don't have a band around the thigh and tell him to try them until Halloween.

Some have been unable to adjust saying "they're too hot!"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There’s not much degrees of separation. Here

Okay, I give up then. At this point I think this question should be asked to something like dcurbandad.com (an imaginary site).

Last trial for response : “ you can’t tell me what to wear”

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I also would find it tough to defend myself while standing in my underwear. Get him boxer briefs. Tell him it's camouflage.
Get them tighter or looser, whatever his preference.

I can defend myself wearing whatever. Build some confidence. Be who you are not what they want you to be. Be brave

Easy to say from the comfort of your keyboard fatty

Really????? Maybe you are talking about yourself??? Seriously gals, did a woman type this back at me or is there a pervert hanging around here?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:There’s not much degrees of separation. Here

Okay, I give up then. At this point I think this question should be asked to something like dcurbandad.com (an imaginary site).

Last trial for response : “ you can’t tell me what to wear”

Yes, maybe a dad site would be better. Teen boys shouldn’t be saying anything proposed by their moms. Give him some boxer briefs and let him figure it out.

[Anonymous]

There’s the slightest degree of separation.

[Anonymous]

So, I’m curious - for the people who are saying “don’t retort, they’ll know his mommy supplied the comeback” and “don’t go to the teacher/principal because that makes him a tattler” and “just give him boxer briefs” as if the kids won’t notice he switched underwear and feel triumphant and wonder what else they can “make” him do - what DO you suggest? Because these all seem an awful lot like silencing tactics to reinforce the victim’s place as a victim.

[Anonymous]

Why is he even showing other kids his underwear to begin with?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:how is this thread 6 pages long?

Hasn’t even taken the jock strap bait.

Must be all Moms in here of u12

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So, I’m curious - for the people who are saying “don’t retort, they’ll know his mommy supplied the comeback” and “don’t go to the teacher/principal because that makes him a tattler” and “just give him boxer briefs” as if the kids won’t notice he switched underwear and feel triumphant and wonder what else they can “make” him do - what DO you suggest? Because these all seem an awful lot like silencing tactics to reinforce the victim’s place as a victim.

It’s middle school. If you recall middle school, it’s the height of conformity.

Your choice of the term victim is telling. I wouldn’t communicate that thought to the kid.

What does DS want to do? Doesn’t that matter? Just let him do what he decides to do. It’s his decision.