When you don't like your AC's significant other for trivial reasons

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Well since this got bumped I guess I'll give you a little update. Sister has been practicing the whole "think of nice things about him before and after the visit" deal. And it is helping. She needed a little "get over herself" push.

OP, you are such a good person.

[Anonymous]

How is this it’s from OP more anonymous than if her sister had updated? The scenario is the same. Nonetheless..glad it worked out!

[Anonymous]

From her posts and updates, I feel OP has some influence on her sister and it seems like a positive influence saving her from becoming a toxic parent/parent-in-law. It seems sister herself also tries to avoid going into negative spirals.

[Anonymous]

Young couples can navigate challenging early years much better if families offer love and support, instead of criticism and judgment.