Have you been propositioned?

[Anonymous]

As a straight married man I have been propositioned by gay men, but not women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I assume some of it is exaggeration. But if you are hanging out at church rather than a hotel bar, the vibe is going to be very different.

I agree.

Church social events tend to focus primarily on God + family and people of a congregation are usually very well-acquainted so it would be off for any man to approach you knowing that you are clearly spoken for‼️

[Anonymous]

In certain cities, like Las Vegas, getting propositioned in a hotel bar is pretty normal. Working girls have to make money but they never got a dime from me.

[Anonymous]

You’re hanging out at church, not traveling for business and hanging out at hotels and tradeshows.

[Anonymous]

I would not call it direct propositioning but there are dads at my kids' school who absolutely flirt heavily with other moms and one of them even makes sexual comments disguised as jokes. I am choosing to keep my distance instead of confronting them because our kids are friends and I am friendly with their wives. Some men just do this even if there is no indication or signal that the woman has an interest in you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would not call it direct propositioning but there are dads at my kids' school who absolutely flirt heavily with other moms and one of them even makes sexual comments disguised as jokes. I am choosing to keep my distance instead of confronting them because our kids are friends and I am friendly with their wives. Some men just do this even if there is no indication or signal that the woman has an interest in you.

+1

[Anonymous]

Many, many times. But I’m good looking, and I hang out at fun places, not church.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Many, many times. But I’m good looking, and I hang out at fun places, not church.

Like WHERE? What are these “fun” places?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have not. I did get flirted with by a married man at a hotel bar, but I don't think I gave off hoe vibes. At least not enough that he was going to offer to pay.

Agreed -- it's very unlikely he thought you were a garden tool