Bad choices

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Plenty of good schools for a 3.7/test optional student have deadlines that have not yet passed. (She did apply test optional, correct? That may have played a role.)

What type of school interests her - big public, mid-size private, small private? How much is your budget?

Can you name one?

WPI. Gives great merit. Deadline tomorrow, very easy application.

and has been test blind for a long while.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm sure you're all insanely stressed out right now; so sorry.

It's not too late to expand her options. Lots of quality schools haven't hit their deadlines yet (and many others, on the DL, will continue considering applications past their "deadlines"). What's your state of residence? And what does she want as far as big/small, urban/rural, warm/cold? Area of study?

We are in MD. Strong STEM interest

UMBC! Deadline is tomorrow. Do the application tonight. Great for Stem. My DD loves it.

[Anonymous]

Yes- don’t give up so soon, OP.

Also, hugs. I’m sorry. So stressful. It’ll work out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:it's not too late and hopefully you guys have some fight in you. as has been pointed out.

there's a bit of a red flag though - you seem to be blaming kid, or peer group, for what obviously looks to be a poor overall college plan with poor communication about budget. I think you need to own all that

+1

Yup! If in MD (as a post stated), there are many options besides UMD. UMBC is an excellent choice and your kid should get in---in fact it should have been on their automatic list.

[Anonymous]

Although you are not in-state for Virginia colleges, I would still consider last minute applications to Christopher Newport University and possibly Old Dominion University. Both have 2/1 deadlines.

I think Wooster is a great suggestion and it has a 2/15 deadline. Muhlenberg is another that may be a ok try a look. I understand both are generous with merit. Liberal arts schools can still have strong STEM programs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Although you are not in-state for Virginia colleges, I would still consider last minute applications to Christopher Newport University and possibly Old Dominion University. Both have 2/1 deadlines.

I think Wooster is a great suggestion and it has a 2/15 deadline. Muhlenberg is another that may be a ok try a look. I understand both are generous with merit. Liberal arts schools can still have strong STEM programs.

Adding Mary Washington- Feb 1 deadline, free common app application (code UMW52) and generous OOS merit:
https://www.umw.edu/admissions/out-of-state-merit-scholarship/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Not bad stats 3.7 uw/4.6 w
Super EC

Ok. I'm sorry about the situation. That sucks.

But the stats are good. And a girl interested in STEM has advantages.

You have a few hours to hit the 2/1 deadlines. Surely, you have a list of schools that are decent at STEM and offer good aid or good merit. A 4.6 girl interested in engineering with good ECs is generally a high priority admit.

Apply. Now.

This is not the time to feel sorry. Find the schools and apply now.

Then, after midnight, put together a list of 2/15 and 3/1 deadlines. And apply.

Do not take a year off.

If it ends up being CC, get the straight As and transfer.

Everyone in life endures at least 9 months of suck. So it happens now. She becomes stronger, more motivated, learned a few things about life. There's usually an upside when things don't quite work out.

But get busy this evening.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm sure you're all insanely stressed out right now; so sorry.

It's not too late to expand her options. Lots of quality schools haven't hit their deadlines yet (and many others, on the DL, will continue considering applications past their "deadlines"). What's your state of residence? And what does she want as far as big/small, urban/rural, warm/cold? Area of study?

We are in MD. Strong STEM interest

Mailers my DS received this week (or last) College of Wooster [we visited and he started the application but it was not his 1st choice - but was a nice school and could be a good fit - and they give a lot of aid]
St. Mary's College of MD (in State!)

[Anonymous]

What about WVU? They are rolling admissions up to the last minute, even going into summer. It’s not a bad OOS safety option for DMV kids and they have a decent STEM Pathways Program.

https://admissions.wvu.edu/academics/pathways/science-technology-engineering-and-math-stem

I know you must be super busy and stressed, but hope you’ll return in the future to post updates.

[Anonymous]

Rose Hulman is another great option with a Feb. 1st deadline.

It would help to know what your daughter wants in a school, beyond cheap and STEM.

[Anonymous]

UMBC, CNU, and ODU are all worth applying to. I would hire someone from any of those 3. And DC still could attempt to transfer out to a more preferred school for sophomore year.

[Anonymous]

Umass Lowell is locally very respected for STEM and engineering. Deadline is 2/5

[Anonymous]

So many really great options here.

Has the OP come back?

[Anonymous]

nope

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So many really great options here.

Has the OP come back?

Hello All, OP here. Thank you for taking the time to provide suggestions and encouragement. I will go over them and try to find a way forward. If you have kids, you know, it is easier said than done. Not the end of the world, but there is still no joy, and I am very tired of the whole process.