How often are you having sex lately?

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Anonymous wrote:Share your age, marital status, how long together.

48, married, 20 years, twice/week.

[Anonymous]

For people who have been together over a decade and still do it 2x/week or more: have either of you gained more than 10lbs?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When my boyfriend's home (he travels frequently) 1-2 times a day (usually once at night and once early morning). Last Wednesday we did it 4 times in one night. Divorced, age 41/45.

Grow up.

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I'm 37, DH is 42. Been together 14 years. Have sex 2-4 times a week. Throughout the years, both our weights have varied with zero impact to our sex life.

[Anonymous]

Married 27 years. DW 52 DH 57. 1 adult child. I have sex 2-3x per week with my AP. She’s 54.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Married 27 years. DW 52 DH 57. 1 adult child. I have sex 2-3x per week with my AP. She’s 54.

How many o’s in loser.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm 48, DH is 55, haven't had sex in months. I want it more than he does I think but at this point we are in a dry zone. Marriage is great otherwise, I wonder if he has some health issues like ED that he doesn't want to share. He just doesn't seem interested.

This is us. We have a great relationship and have fun together but haven’t had sec since August and it is usually only a few times a year. When we have it- it is good. I would like more but he seems okay with it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:For people who have been together over a decade and still do it 2x/week or more: have either of you gained more than 10lbs?

Yes I’m about 15 pounds heavier, but still ok, he is the same weight but he started out pretty chunky.

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Anonymous wrote:For people who have been together over a decade and still do it 2x/week or more: have either of you gained more than 10lbs?

Yes, 30. The weight matters more to me than to him. It makes me more reluctant to do creative things but it doesn’t affect things much otherwise.

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Once every couple of years. Last time was in 2021, I think, because we didn't have sex this year or last. Wife has no drive, or she is lying that it is painful for her. 48 and 49, 10 years, two elementary school brats.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:For people who have been together over a decade and still do it 2x/week or more: have either of you gained more than 10lbs?

Yes. I’ve gained about 30lbs.
Unless you gained so much weight that you aren’t able to physically do certain things, I don’t really see how this matters.

I would say that going through difficult emotional or health crises and fighting/feeling like the other person doesn’t care matters a lot more.

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Anonymous wrote:For people who have been together over a decade and still do it 2x/week or more: have either of you gained more than 10lbs?

My H did, around 40 but he recently lost 20. I'm the same size - 5'7 and 125 lbs but I have a kicka* metabolism. I eat more than he does.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Married 27 years. DW 52 DH 57. 1 adult child. I have sex 2-3x per week with my AP. She’s 54.

How many o’s in loser.

Hahaha. Get it where you can. DW has her side piece. Now it’s my turn. 😊

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Anonymous wrote:For people who have been together over a decade and still do it 2x/week or more: have either of you gained more than 10lbs?

He has gained weight and then lost it, he’s in better shape now than he was 18 years ago. I’m much fatter- 30 pounds heavier. But he still says he thinks I’m beautiful and we still have a lot of sex.

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Anonymous wrote:For people who have been together over a decade and still do it 2x/week or more: have either of you gained more than 10lbs?

I have not gained weight but she has gained 40 lbs. Not physically attracted, yet I still have my needs.