Returns gifts when relationship ends?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I pulled strings to get his daughter into school, show up for everything, every airport pickup, errand everything! for 10 years and I can’t consider an real relationship/marriage. The names I was called for suggesting it. So angry. And hurt.

You are all right. I will just ghost.

Well you were lying to your spouse and you have no morals. Go for it. Please return and tell us about the dumpster fire you started.

Oh, and watch out for Karma!

There's obviously something very, very wrong here. That this went on for ten years, yet it was very recently very intense then abruptly went off the rails. And despite all this activity the betrayed spouses never knew - for ten years! That's not normal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I pulled strings to get his daughter into school, show up for everything, every airport pickup, errand everything! for 10 years and I can’t consider an real relationship/marriage. The names I was called for suggesting it. So angry. And hurt.

You are all right. I will just ghost.

How did you have time to do anything for your OWN family? That's truly disgusting that you were investing all of that time into another man when you were married yourself.

And, where was your husband when you running out to do airport pick ups? Wtf?

I don’t think she was actually married. She just implied that to sound less pathetic somehow?

Ya, the list of errands she ran for him make no sense if she is married (i can't imagine doing airport pickups for someone without my husband knowing?)
In the future, when men stay connected to you because of the convenience you add to their lives, this is not a real relationship. They are using you to make their life easier, and for sex.

Real marriage isn't so one-directional, it's a partnership.