Returns gifts when relationship ends?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It doesn’t sound like OP has a spouse, or if she does, she doesn’t care if he finds out.

Single women fall for this nonsense all the time while their clocks tick away. Sad.

Please. OP said “spouses.”

[Anonymous]

I find it hard to believe this is a real question because you say you got away with an affair and now you are contemplating a petty act of revenge which might lead to discovery.

[Anonymous]

OP do you want this to be outed as a form of "revenge" for him hurting your feelings? Wouldn't that also be self destructive for you? What is your end game here?

You are at a fork in the road where you can choose to do the right thing and leave this married man alone. It's kind of beside the point that he's a jerk. He's married and needs to be left alone. Take the high road OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I pulled strings to get his daughter into school, show up for everything, every airport pickup, errand everything! for 10 years and I can’t consider an real relationship/marriage. The names I was called for suggesting it. So angry. And hurt.

You are all right. I will just ghost.

I don't think he'll care if you dump his stuff. Sounds like you were just an assistant with benefits. Sorry. Go sort out your marriage and life.

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Anonymous wrote:I totally think you should take all the gifts and head over to his house when you know he isn’t there and his wife is. Ring that door and present them to her. Then come back here and let us know how it went.

People are crazy. Good way to get killed by the wife or AP

[Anonymous]

If you want to blow up your own life, sure. Otherwise, throw them in the trash and move on and realize how lucky you are that nobody has found out thus far.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I find it hard to believe this is a real question because you say you got away with an affair and now you are contemplating a petty act of revenge which might lead to discovery.

+1. This sounds completely insane. I might sort (but not really) get it if OP was single and had hopes the AP would leave their spouse but OP is married too! The only person OP should be angry with is themselves for their failure.

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OP, your revenge is being happy without him. He’s stuck in a marriage where his needs aren’t being met, and his wife is unknowingly stuck with a piece of trash husband. You don’t need to get revenge on these people.

What steps do you need to take to be happy without him? Therapy is probably a good first step. And probably a divorce, because I bet you are not happy in your marriage.

[Anonymous]

Similarly, I was driving for DoorDash over the summer. Now that I'm working full time at my main job again, should I return it the payments? I don't know how to send money back to DoorDash.

[Anonymous]

This reads more like a psychotic break than a jilted AP. Not even a troll, as it's too incoherent. OP's follow-ups don't make sense.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I pulled strings to get his daughter into school, show up for everything, every airport pickup, errand everything! for 10 years and I can’t consider an real relationship/marriage. The names I was called for suggesting it. So angry. And hurt.

You are all right. I will just ghost.

You are an absolute idiot. 10 years? Are you the pp that kept telling everyone how he was going to leave his wife for you? I remember when it was at year 8.

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Anonymous wrote:Long term affair recently ended. No discovery by spouses. I want to leave all the gifts ever given to me on the APs doorstep, ring the doorbell and leave.

Yea or Nay?

Be sure not to get caught on camera… 😁

Seriously. Who doesn't have a Ring doorbell in this day and age? Lol

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Anonymous wrote:Are you a teenager? Because that is some seriously immature drama.

What type of people do you think in engage in affairs? Emotionally stunted/immature/selfish people.

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Anonymous wrote:Your title is misleading OP. Your relationship didn’t end. You didn’t have a relationship. Your AP was in a relationship with their spouse. You were just the side piece.

Pumped and dumped.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, your revenge is being happy without him. He’s stuck in a marriage where his needs aren’t being met, and his wife is unknowingly stuck with a piece of trash husband. You don’t need to get revenge on these people.

What steps do you need to take to be happy without him? Therapy is probably a good first step. And probably a divorce, because I bet you are not happy in your marriage.

You fail to realize that your description of the man ALSO characterizes OP. She is no better. She's a disgusting POS scumbag cheater too.