22 year old wants to have baby

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Is approach it from an economic standpoint. It really doesn’t sound like she can afford it. Have you priced diapers and formula lately? Might be time for a baby economics class.

In the worst case scenario she can get on WIC and get these and other things for free

WIC doesn't do diapers.

I guess it depends on the state . There are diaper supplying nonprofits too

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Being a single mother would wreck her chances of finding a good husband if the baby daddy breaks up with her. *That* should be the biggest concern. And of course her raising the kid in your home, as a single mommy.

Exactly! No sane unmarried 22 year old with a pre-school teacher salary should have a baby nor can afford a baby.

Many non white people would disagree…

[Anonymous]

oh dear. You are a problem.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Being a single mother would wreck her chances of finding a good husband if the baby daddy breaks up with her. *That* should be the biggest concern. And of course her raising the kid in your home, as a single mommy.

Exactly! No sane unmarried 22 year old with a pre-school teacher salary should have a baby nor can afford a baby.

Many non white people would disagree…

She’s has serve ADHD, I’m glad she graduated from college, thought it was imposible back when she was in elementary school, but she way too impulsive.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:22 year old graduated back in May, and now she wants to have a baby with her boyfriend. She was hired as a full time pre-school teacher but I think she should wait a few years before having a baby. How can I tell her to wait? I am worried that the Principal and parents will not be very happy with her if she on leave the first year she starts working.

She wants to have a baby? Is she pregnant or wants to keep it? Is she hoping to get pregnant?

She been off birth control since May, but not sure if she’s pregnant or not haven’t said anything yet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Being a single mother would wreck her chances of finding a good husband if the baby daddy breaks up with her. *That* should be the biggest concern. And of course her raising the kid in your home, as a single mommy.

Exactly! No sane unmarried 22 year old with a pre-school teacher salary should have a baby nor can afford a baby.

Many non white people would disagree…

Racist.

[Anonymous]

If any adult couple decides to marry or have kids, its their decision and their consequences. You can't control other peoples lives, even if they are making wrong decisions. This is called, personal freedom.

[Anonymous]

Um, she's 22 and a college graduate with a full time job who has a strong demonstrated skill set in caring for children. Why not have a kid now? What is the benefit of waiting?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not married? Doing this on purpose at 22? She's scum.

You know that you're allowed to have a baby without being married, don't you? This isn't the 1950s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You're worried about what the principal and parents would think of her? *That's* why you want her to wait?

Exactly. I call troll thread.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does the boyfriend know she wants to have a baby? Does he want one too?

He wants to wait….

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Um, she's 22 and a college graduate with a full time job who has a strong demonstrated skill set in caring for children. Why not have a kid now? What is the benefit of waiting?

We are going to end up taking care of the baby, she doesn’t have money saved up yet, but you have a good point, i guess whatever happens happens.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Um, she's 22 and a college graduate with a full time job who has a strong demonstrated skill set in caring for children. Why not have a kid now? What is the benefit of waiting?

We are going to end up taking care of the baby, she doesn’t have money saved up yet, but you have a good point, i guess whatever happens happens.

Why aren’t they getting married?

[Anonymous]

This thread reminds me of those 90s baby songs

Brenda's Got a Baby by Tupac

That's Just my Baby Dad https://youtu.be/pfhsXlNf4XI

[Anonymous]

Tell her to go ahead and have a baby after she has one year's independent living expenses (rent, daycare, transport, grocery, diapers, formula, health insurance and ALL )saved as you don't want to be responsible for consequences of her decisions.